[Donald Duck]

No one at the moment, but the thing is, I am fantasizing about porn clips and not the actual girl. Porn also completely desensitized me. I remember when I started watching 10 years ago it started with pictures, webcam babes, etc. Now it's just straight hardcore shit where you see 10 girls getting fucked by 5 guys. It takes 20x longer for me to bust a nut on my own than with porn. Like I said before, porn can also cause erectile dysfunction. I've read that guys couldn't even get hard from seeing a naked girl in front of them, but only from hardcore shit... When they quit porn, they started seeing results after months. So I am trying to avoid bigger problems right now. But you are right, I believe a regular sex partner is key in recovery.

[pitt]

(02-14-2012 10:31 AM)Donald Duck Wrote:  

No one at the moment, but the thing is, I am fantasizing about porn clips and not the actual girl. Porn also completely desensitized me. I remember when I started watching 10 years ago it started with pictures, webcam babes, etc. Now it's just straight hardcore shit where you see 10 girls getting fucked by 5 guys. It takes 20x longer for me to bust a nut on my own than with porn. Like I said before, porn can also cause erectile dysfunction. I've read that guys couldn't even get hard from seeing a naked girl in front of them, but only from hardcore shit... When they quit porn, they started seeing results after months. So I am trying to avoid bigger problems right now. But you are right, I believe a regular sex partner is key in recovery.[b]

No necessarily.

Only you can stop this shit. Work out everyday, dont rely on girls or anybody to help you quit, if you really want to do this, go to the gym two times per day, cancel your internet for 6 months (go to your local library whenever you need to use the internet), approach lots of chicks at all times, avoid staying at home at all costs, if you still living with your family, try share a room with one of your family problems and AVOID watching porn at all costs, completely avoid it.

Just wondering, do you feel mentally and physically weak most of the times? Do you think you are ready to fight someone in the streets most of times?

[Donald Duck]

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Just wondering, do you feel mentally and physically weak most of the times? Do you think you are ready to fight someone in the streets most of times?

No, although I am more aggressive when I pass the 1 week no porn/masturbation mark.

[_DC_]

(02-14-2012 10:11 AM)Moma Wrote:  

Donald, do you have a regular sex partner that you can call over for a lash anytime? If you do and you still sneak over to your computer to browse porn then I would say you have an addiction.

If you don't have a sex partner and you are horny then it's natural to seek porn as a stimulus to invigorate masturbation and buss a fat nutt all over your couch.

I believe that all the guys on this addiction thread don't have regular lizards, am I right or wrong?

Also, why not try watching busted porn and seeing if that enables you to kick?

For instance, watch granny porn or reptiles with lots of stretchmarks and weight issues. Either it'll turn you off porn or it will turn you onto busted lizards which will give you that Shallow Hal syndrome. In either case, it's a win win.

I have a girl I can call anytime for sex. She's attractive, but I could do better. If anything I consider that particular lizard to be a demotivator in the same sense as porn! She's attractive, there are just hotter girls out there that would be my taking with full motivation.

Even if some of you have no reason to do this for libido to increase motivation, have you tried going 5-7 days before? Sex feels 10x better. That should be a reason in of itself.

[Spike]

New troll - The North Korean Porn Troll. Time to get rid of him.

[Riker]

I´m living somewhere without an internet connection so I go to cyber cafes and can´t watch porn. When I jack off I think of porn scenes I´ve seen a lot though... I think that still counts? I miss it a bit sometimes but I´m happy I´m not watching any. I think girls look hotter since I´m not seeing the perfect model type girls on the screen everyday like before.

[Yams]

This past year I got with a girl (non-pro) who gave the most unbelievable blow jobs I have ever experienced. I mean she could get me to blow in less than a minute using more than one technique. Now ever since that experience I found that I need to fantasize about that girl even when receiving blowjobs from new girls just to be able to orgasm.

Now did that girl desensitize me to regular blowjobs? Should I abstain from getting amazing blowjobs in the future just so that I can be more balanced? Fuck no!! Hell I even jerked it a few times just thinking about those blowjobs but it would be silly to say that I shouldn't have had that experience.

Yes sex would feel better if you abstained from having orgasms much like a Ritz cracker would taste so much better if you starved yourself.

[Chad Daring]

(02-14-2012 09:56 AM)Yams Wrote:  

I think the "addiction" label has been flung around too easily for everything today. I mean the logic used to label porn/masturbating as an addiction can be used for labeling wanting sex as an addiction as well. If you notice the people who are going to therapy for sexual addiction are celebrities who have a larger access to poon. I've always told my friends that they will know that I hit the big time if they see me going to rehab for sexual addiction.

Completely agree.

Hell I'll jerk off before my girl comes over, fuck her that night, fuck her the next morning, and then crank one out to some porn after! Granted I'm young, dumb, and full of cum but the point is sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.

You all seem to be causing yourself more mental unrest worrying about how porn effects you than the porn itself causes.

Like Moma said, unless you're changing your schedule and life to go watch porn and jerk it you dont have a problem, you're just really horny.

[_DC_]

(02-15-2012 05:53 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  

(02-14-2012 09:56 AM)Yams Wrote:  

I think the "addiction" label has been flung around too easily for everything today. I mean the logic used to label porn/masturbating as an addiction can be used for labeling wanting sex as an addiction as well. If you notice the people who are going to therapy for sexual addiction are celebrities who have a larger access to poon. I've always told my friends that they will know that I hit the big time if they see me going to rehab for sexual addiction.

Completely agree.

Hell I'll jerk off before my girl comes over, fuck her that night, fuck her the next morning, and then crank one out to some porn after! Granted I'm young, dumb, and full of cum but the point is sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.

You all seem to be causing yourself more mental unrest worrying about how porn effects you than the porn itself causes.

Like Moma said, unless you're changing your schedule and life to go watch porn and jerk it you dont have a problem, you're just really horny.

This right here is the disconnect between people on this tread. "If a girl comes over..." you already have her. I have absolutely no problem getting hard and fucking my fuck buddy either. Its a matter of going out and pursuing new puss.

Also, "you're just really horny" I think is actually the opposite of what people who jerk off too much have a problem with. Its the opposite. You're right though, maybe it's an age thing. I'm in my late 20s and things are different.

Lots of us jerk off as a habit, to get off, to go to sleep etc. and with the habitual motions the horniness removes itself from the equation. The problem with some people who jerk off multiple times a day is a complete and utter lack of horniess in real world pursuits.

Again, if I felt like hammering every girl I saw at a bar I wouldn't stop jerking it. Its a personal thing. I just think its shortsighted to completely discount how much it can help certain people.

[Chad Daring]

I'm not saying dont be mindful of how much you yank the crank, I just think treating the issue like its an AA meeting is doing more harm than good.

Now I will say I agree with the concept that jerking off just to jerk off is a problem. If its habitual, yes stop. I stopped the pre-sleep wank myself because of that reason. I suppose my stance is "jerk cause you want to, not cause you're supposed to"

[keepreal]

(12-08-2011 09:20 AM)Donald Duck Wrote:  

I always thought I was addicted to masturbating but I came to the conclusion that I can barely masturbate without watching porn at the same time. I take 30 minutes to reach climax without porn and only 5 mins with porn. I don't feel like masturbating at all if it's without porn. Porn also kills my libido to the point where I don't even want sex anymore and prefer porn over sex. 2 weeks ago I tried to quit porn and masturbating for 1 week. It really went well until I fell back into my old habits of porn & masturbating. If you quit masturbating and porn for a week you will really feel what being horny really means. You'll feel like raping every whore on the street. Any pointers you guys can give me to help quit porn?

I have the oppposite thing, I last way longer with porn than without porn. I can easily last an hour with porn, shorter without it. The visual/audio stimulus keeps me stimulated and want it longer. Porn addiction is not too great, it lowers motivation for game.

[Arcais]

(12-09-2011 11:23 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

Have you tried to do anything as a replacement or to distract you. Maybe try doing exercise when you feel like rubbing one out.

Use a SUBSTITUTE. What I do is when i want to masturbate I go workout or eat to numb the craving.

Meditation works also.

Just remember there is an energy buildup in your body that WANTS to be released. You have to release that energy sexually or otherwise, so channel your sexual energy into a motivating active force.

[Finas]

I always feel the urge to masturbate even more after I work out, especially if it has been an intense one.

[americanInEurope]

I'm sure this has been said before, but regular sex partners...like 2 or 3 girls a week, usually help me with my masturbating and porn. If you're regularly busting nuts inside pretty girls I don't think you'll have the need for porn. This weekend was the first weekend I've been alone with nothing to do in a while, and I beat off just because I hadn't done it in so long. So the urge never goes away. And neither should it. In fact it's medically proven that regularly beating off decreases your risk of prostate cancer. So go to town. Watch your porn. But you gotta know that if you're not actually hitting real pussy then there's a problem. And if you can't get off from your girl, you need to be telling her what you like and have her do that shit so that you can get off.

[dly267]

(08-05-2012 04:26 AM)americanInEurope Wrote:  

I'm sure this has been said before, but regular sex partners... ...usually [helps]... ...if you're not actually hitting real pussy then there's a problem...

(01-03-2012 10:53 AM)Donald Duck Wrote:  

Damn, I relapsed Yesterday after 1 week. Going for longer next time.

I think as guys, we all have, at one point or another, watched porn. Me personally, I wouldn't say I'm addicted per se. As in those people that watch it for hours everyday. My problem is in the form of those cam show websites where they charge per minute. I've had stretches of months where I didn't do it at all, but when I have been, it's not been pretty financially. I can definitely relate to you, Donald Duck, in terms of trying to stop cold turkey. But the void needs to be filled with something else in its place or a relapse is almost inevitable.

The substitute is in fact having a regular sex life. Well, at least for me. I don't have a steady girlfriend and haven't hooked up much recently, so of course, those websites are more than happy to take their place. And you have to wonder if subconsciously, one's motivation to have a regular sex life is lessened, even by the slightest margin, because of that.

[jdelisi]

(12-08-2011 07:35 PM)Donald Duck Wrote:  

I just installed an addon that blocks me from accessing any porn site and set it up with a random password I don't know. Lets see how this works.

how did you do this. Can i do it with a Mac?

[poutsara]

If you are addicted to porn double down on it and make a strong move. Go and film some.