alright boys, im gonna lay it all out here, i've never really done this before but to achieve things you've never gotten you have to do things you've never done...or so im told.....i honestly feel kinda gay, but i'm psyched at the same time...weird......sorry, this may be a little long winded...but im looking for any help i can get.....
im just honestly trying to be good at getting ladies...like all of us here....i've been browsing the forums for about the past week...reading lots and lots of openers and more things like that....now ive made an account and can post so this will be first..hopefully not the last....i feel you all need a little background, and ima talker...so here goes...
five months ago i got out of a three year relationship..i was honestly crushed...blah blah blah....so ive been out of the game a while...but i really want to get good at it....honestly, im a decent looking fellow, especially since after the breakup i lost about 30 lbs and have been keeping up with it with weights and shit....ive laid about 14 girls (sometimes i can't remember all of the one night stands ive had)...but honestly ive never been good at talking to girls....all of my ONS have been tthrough friends at parties and such...approaching girls at bars and clubs is kind of terrifying to me but i will get over that....i want develop a good game.....
and honestly, i think that my game right now is decent...if i know the girl, or am introduced to her...starting from scratch is a nightmare, and i have a big fear of failure....but that will end soon.....i am a pretty sarcastic/funny kid and neg women without even knowing it....im just bad at closing, opening, keeping things going....fuck i have no game...fuck what i just said....but i want to learn.....
like i said...ive been reading a bunch of shit in this forum, and i have neil strauss' the game, which i read a few years ago, but am reading it again and getting much more out of it.....i am going to pick up bang and day bang as well im just a poor graduate student right now and dont have the cash (i get paid friday)......and i will go from there....im just an AFC who may be good looking enough to get laid out of luck occasionally but i feel like with some decent game i could do so much better......for example...
tonight i was sitting with some friends at a local bar at a long table....my three other buddies and i were hogging the end and these girls came and sat next to us.....they were with some other dudes, who were total betas if i could only figure out how to be a better fucking alpha...anyways...i just felt like a douche...because after reading a bit of the game again and reading shit in this forum i feel like i had some openers and shit i could say but i blanked...just fuckin blanked.....oh well shit happens...but it is situations like that where i feel like i could shine...just need some help...
so im hoping to just get pointed in the right direction here....or if you guys could post any tips, any bar room tricks that get ppl interested, anything...anything at alll that would help a newb like me....in the meantime...i'll be opening up girls with the apocalypse opener just to get over my fear of rejection....i heard it was good for ppl with little game like myself....if it works cool, im not that retarded....but if it doesn't even better, i will get over my fear of rejection....
finally one of my main reasons for needing, wanting good game...is that in about 8 months i'll be heading off to med school...i will have maybe one night a week to go out and will want to make the best of that time...so i'm hoping in 8 short months i could at least develop some decent game so that i can be in med school and still get laid...the school im going to has a great bar scene and the girls are mighty plentiful.....so im hoping that with hard work, lots of rejections, you guys, and some luck..i could develop a decent game....
like i said...any tips...stories...suggestions...anything that may help me is appreciated.....
cheers boys, maybe i'll run into some of you out there
im just honestly trying to be good at getting ladies...like all of us here....i've been browsing the forums for about the past week...reading lots and lots of openers and more things like that....now ive made an account and can post so this will be first..hopefully not the last....i feel you all need a little background, and ima talker...so here goes...
five months ago i got out of a three year relationship..i was honestly crushed...blah blah blah....so ive been out of the game a while...but i really want to get good at it....honestly, im a decent looking fellow, especially since after the breakup i lost about 30 lbs and have been keeping up with it with weights and shit....ive laid about 14 girls (sometimes i can't remember all of the one night stands ive had)...but honestly ive never been good at talking to girls....all of my ONS have been tthrough friends at parties and such...approaching girls at bars and clubs is kind of terrifying to me but i will get over that....i want develop a good game.....
and honestly, i think that my game right now is decent...if i know the girl, or am introduced to her...starting from scratch is a nightmare, and i have a big fear of failure....but that will end soon.....i am a pretty sarcastic/funny kid and neg women without even knowing it....im just bad at closing, opening, keeping things going....fuck i have no game...fuck what i just said....but i want to learn.....
like i said...ive been reading a bunch of shit in this forum, and i have neil strauss' the game, which i read a few years ago, but am reading it again and getting much more out of it.....i am going to pick up bang and day bang as well im just a poor graduate student right now and dont have the cash (i get paid friday)......and i will go from there....im just an AFC who may be good looking enough to get laid out of luck occasionally but i feel like with some decent game i could do so much better......for example...
tonight i was sitting with some friends at a local bar at a long table....my three other buddies and i were hogging the end and these girls came and sat next to us.....they were with some other dudes, who were total betas if i could only figure out how to be a better fucking alpha...anyways...i just felt like a douche...because after reading a bit of the game again and reading shit in this forum i feel like i had some openers and shit i could say but i blanked...just fuckin blanked.....oh well shit happens...but it is situations like that where i feel like i could shine...just need some help...
so im hoping to just get pointed in the right direction here....or if you guys could post any tips, any bar room tricks that get ppl interested, anything...anything at alll that would help a newb like me....in the meantime...i'll be opening up girls with the apocalypse opener just to get over my fear of rejection....i heard it was good for ppl with little game like myself....if it works cool, im not that retarded....but if it doesn't even better, i will get over my fear of rejection....
finally one of my main reasons for needing, wanting good game...is that in about 8 months i'll be heading off to med school...i will have maybe one night a week to go out and will want to make the best of that time...so i'm hoping in 8 short months i could at least develop some decent game so that i can be in med school and still get laid...the school im going to has a great bar scene and the girls are mighty plentiful.....so im hoping that with hard work, lots of rejections, you guys, and some luck..i could develop a decent game....
like i said...any tips...stories...suggestions...anything that may help me is appreciated.....
cheers boys, maybe i'll run into some of you out there