A Brief History of Me:
Average height (just under 6'), lean athletic build, decently good looking (I've had numerous chicks, most often drunk white ones, compare me to Will Smith or Tiger Woods)
Notch Count ages 19-28: 11 while beta and Anti-Game (reference the recent Chateau Heartiste article) to the core. Mostly classic carousel riders in borderline sex-worker careers (a stripper, a model, a cougar dominatrix....), most easily found in my "Edge" environment: large-scale goth/fetish/BDSM parties. (pics of some previous lays available if interested)
I quit drinking almost 3 years ago.
Learned about Game just this January with Neil Strauss' book which lead me to Chateau Roissy/Heartiste as well as here and TheGManifesto. New notches by early May: 3, all SNL's, (2 in Vegas, both should have been 3-ways if I hadn't totally botched things). Between late March and early May I felt confident I could bag new pussy once every two weeks and it had a huge impact on my Inner Game. My Game modus operandi is a combo of cocky&funny, DHV'ing with travel stories and military service, and indirect sexual innuendo. I'm terrible at negging, reading women, and frame maintenance.
Then I hit a slump May-June, including a terrible week in San Diego where I got hung up on this Russian blonde. The slump has carried over to where I am now:
Okinawa, Japan.
This place is *supposedly* a black man's paradise, but more accurately it is a Hip-Hop Rap Video Thug's paradise. The local girls eat that shit up. I've regularly seen other black dudes doing their best 50 Cent impression walking around with 2-3 Oki girls nipping at their heels. But it's totally not my style and there's no way I could convincingly fake it. I try to go for more of a James Bond/G Manifesto/Matrix/Sith Lord mix, but I've found it hard to stay suited-down in this tropical jungle sweatbox of an island.
There's two types of girls here:
1. Riders of American cock. Classic carousel-riders who have picked up a decent amount of English. Are probably trying to get pregnant to get your military privileges (healthcare, access to our comparatively-cheap grocery stores, etc.). Definitely know how to play the average G.I. Assume any girl you meet over 20 who speaks more than 2 words of English falls in this category. I try to avoid the areas where they congregate because they are inevitably full of young drunk enlisted guys, which is just an....annoying environment to be in, regardless of the loose women.
2. Untarnished Natives. These girls typically speak no English and work in shops/areas where they have little contact with Americans. Not as common as the slores and being able to speak conversational Japanese is essential to get them.
Nightlife here sucks, but perhaps I'm spoiled by the large and well-furnished clubs of Miami and Vegas. Most of the bars/clubs are small and overpriced. Any popular place is likely to be overrun with drunk American military guys aged 19-25. Even popular areas are totally unpredictable in the weekend turnout. This is partly due to the prevalence of Izakayas, small alcohol-serving restaurants where groups of friends go to eat and drink all fucking night. I've found I can walk down streets and ask groups of chicks virtually anything and they will give me 5 minutes of their time, but I haven't turned that into lays, just a few flaky number closes.
My Solution: Don't go out so much. I've looked into getting an apartment or house off-base but it's insanely expensive. I'd like to transition to House Party Game and avoid the bars/clubs entirely, so I'm always keeping my eye open for cheap housing.
Social Circle Game? Nope. As an officer, my social circle consists of 90% SWPL males, half of whom are married to other SWPL's, who all prefer to sit around and get drunk in their SWPL clique or do tourist-y bullshit instead of actually get embedded in the people and culture. Enlisted females and wives are off limits, fucking them is a good way to end up unemployed.
My Solution: Met a guy who has been here ~4 years, knows LOTS of girls and is increasingly involved in the nightlife. I'm trying to pick his brain, as well as see if he can hook me up with someone. He also advocates House Party Game, because most of these girls live with their families and "love hotels" get expensive. Chicks here are DYING for a chill place to hang out and drink without having to be hit on by masses of young Airmen and Marines.
Day Game seems to be a money-maker, and I've had experienced players I've met comment on it. The best girls are the ones working in clothing/accessory stores where they get virtually no male contact. Learn Japanese, go out in the afternoon, and talk them up.
My Solution: Keep trying to learn Japanese, so I can have the same "flow" spitting Game in Japanese that I have in English. The language barrier has been extremely frustrating, when you have a set displaying clear IoIs and you can see things slip away every time you open your mouth and they give you a confused look.
What are my pussy objectives?
I'm nocturnal and somewhat anti-social. I largely only go out to enjoy cars, girls and music (metal and techno). I'm trying to get into the car scene here. I occasionally enjoy getting dressed up for fancy events like the opera, but haven't investigated the local options yet.
What I'm looking for is arm candy that I can take to car meets, metal concerts, raves, and formal events. I have no interest in typical relationship crap like trolling antique stores on a Sunday. I want a girl that will put on something cute (possibly something I dictated she wear), go out to shit I enjoy, fuck @ her/my place, then give me time/space to play computer games and shit. I'm ok with home-cooked meals and cuddling up for a movie but only in doses.
Given all the information that I've presented about myself and my situation, am I on the right track to getting out of this dry spell?
Average height (just under 6'), lean athletic build, decently good looking (I've had numerous chicks, most often drunk white ones, compare me to Will Smith or Tiger Woods)
Notch Count ages 19-28: 11 while beta and Anti-Game (reference the recent Chateau Heartiste article) to the core. Mostly classic carousel riders in borderline sex-worker careers (a stripper, a model, a cougar dominatrix....), most easily found in my "Edge" environment: large-scale goth/fetish/BDSM parties. (pics of some previous lays available if interested)
I quit drinking almost 3 years ago.
Learned about Game just this January with Neil Strauss' book which lead me to Chateau Roissy/Heartiste as well as here and TheGManifesto. New notches by early May: 3, all SNL's, (2 in Vegas, both should have been 3-ways if I hadn't totally botched things). Between late March and early May I felt confident I could bag new pussy once every two weeks and it had a huge impact on my Inner Game. My Game modus operandi is a combo of cocky&funny, DHV'ing with travel stories and military service, and indirect sexual innuendo. I'm terrible at negging, reading women, and frame maintenance.
Then I hit a slump May-June, including a terrible week in San Diego where I got hung up on this Russian blonde. The slump has carried over to where I am now:
Okinawa, Japan.
This place is *supposedly* a black man's paradise, but more accurately it is a Hip-Hop Rap Video Thug's paradise. The local girls eat that shit up. I've regularly seen other black dudes doing their best 50 Cent impression walking around with 2-3 Oki girls nipping at their heels. But it's totally not my style and there's no way I could convincingly fake it. I try to go for more of a James Bond/G Manifesto/Matrix/Sith Lord mix, but I've found it hard to stay suited-down in this tropical jungle sweatbox of an island.
There's two types of girls here:
1. Riders of American cock. Classic carousel-riders who have picked up a decent amount of English. Are probably trying to get pregnant to get your military privileges (healthcare, access to our comparatively-cheap grocery stores, etc.). Definitely know how to play the average G.I. Assume any girl you meet over 20 who speaks more than 2 words of English falls in this category. I try to avoid the areas where they congregate because they are inevitably full of young drunk enlisted guys, which is just an....annoying environment to be in, regardless of the loose women.
2. Untarnished Natives. These girls typically speak no English and work in shops/areas where they have little contact with Americans. Not as common as the slores and being able to speak conversational Japanese is essential to get them.
Nightlife here sucks, but perhaps I'm spoiled by the large and well-furnished clubs of Miami and Vegas. Most of the bars/clubs are small and overpriced. Any popular place is likely to be overrun with drunk American military guys aged 19-25. Even popular areas are totally unpredictable in the weekend turnout. This is partly due to the prevalence of Izakayas, small alcohol-serving restaurants where groups of friends go to eat and drink all fucking night. I've found I can walk down streets and ask groups of chicks virtually anything and they will give me 5 minutes of their time, but I haven't turned that into lays, just a few flaky number closes.
My Solution: Don't go out so much. I've looked into getting an apartment or house off-base but it's insanely expensive. I'd like to transition to House Party Game and avoid the bars/clubs entirely, so I'm always keeping my eye open for cheap housing.
Social Circle Game? Nope. As an officer, my social circle consists of 90% SWPL males, half of whom are married to other SWPL's, who all prefer to sit around and get drunk in their SWPL clique or do tourist-y bullshit instead of actually get embedded in the people and culture. Enlisted females and wives are off limits, fucking them is a good way to end up unemployed.
My Solution: Met a guy who has been here ~4 years, knows LOTS of girls and is increasingly involved in the nightlife. I'm trying to pick his brain, as well as see if he can hook me up with someone. He also advocates House Party Game, because most of these girls live with their families and "love hotels" get expensive. Chicks here are DYING for a chill place to hang out and drink without having to be hit on by masses of young Airmen and Marines.
Day Game seems to be a money-maker, and I've had experienced players I've met comment on it. The best girls are the ones working in clothing/accessory stores where they get virtually no male contact. Learn Japanese, go out in the afternoon, and talk them up.
My Solution: Keep trying to learn Japanese, so I can have the same "flow" spitting Game in Japanese that I have in English. The language barrier has been extremely frustrating, when you have a set displaying clear IoIs and you can see things slip away every time you open your mouth and they give you a confused look.
What are my pussy objectives?
I'm nocturnal and somewhat anti-social. I largely only go out to enjoy cars, girls and music (metal and techno). I'm trying to get into the car scene here. I occasionally enjoy getting dressed up for fancy events like the opera, but haven't investigated the local options yet.
What I'm looking for is arm candy that I can take to car meets, metal concerts, raves, and formal events. I have no interest in typical relationship crap like trolling antique stores on a Sunday. I want a girl that will put on something cute (possibly something I dictated she wear), go out to shit I enjoy, fuck @ her/my place, then give me time/space to play computer games and shit. I'm ok with home-cooked meals and cuddling up for a movie but only in doses.
Given all the information that I've presented about myself and my situation, am I on the right track to getting out of this dry spell?