Here's the deal. I swooped this girl before summer started saw her a few times thru summer. We used to be friends not anymore (not even facebook friends) because shes INSANE. I swooped her again at the start of the school year and now she won't leave me alone. I get multiple texts a day and if I don't respond she'll throw a text asking why I won't respond and will eventually send me a bunch of texts calling me an asshole and that she has other options. I won't text her back unless I want sex. I'll go over fuck her and then leave extremely shortly after.
Now its just gone too far she'll show up at my place or wait outside my classes for me and is generally all around mentally unstable etc. This is a huge turnoff plus she's been gaining weight like crazy (started at 6.5 and is steadily decreasing) Anyways how do you guys deal with batshit insane clingy girls like this without moving to a different city or getting a restraining order. I have directly said I don't want to see her ever again and will refuse sex if she asks saying her clinginess is repulsive. For some reason her lizard brain interprets this as asshole game and makes her want me even more.
Should I just do a mega switch up and become the biggest beta herb if she ever shows up at my place again to hopefully turn her off?
Now its just gone too far she'll show up at my place or wait outside my classes for me and is generally all around mentally unstable etc. This is a huge turnoff plus she's been gaining weight like crazy (started at 6.5 and is steadily decreasing) Anyways how do you guys deal with batshit insane clingy girls like this without moving to a different city or getting a restraining order. I have directly said I don't want to see her ever again and will refuse sex if she asks saying her clinginess is repulsive. For some reason her lizard brain interprets this as asshole game and makes her want me even more.
Should I just do a mega switch up and become the biggest beta herb if she ever shows up at my place again to hopefully turn her off?