[joker]

I recently started my new job as a bartender. I feel a little insecure after my second proper shift because I have to ask what I need to do, so that just makes things a little more awkward for me than they should be. There are 3 girls I want to game at the bar. 2 of them are close friends form what I gather and the other is just a plain looking really nice girl. Aside from the nice girl, the other 2 seem really alpha and confronting. I picked up on this through this encounter:

Her: You do know how to use a strainer? Just like when your cooking pasta you put it in the strainer as the water drains

Me:...ok

Her: Am I making it sound as if your stupid (or something along those lines)

Me: A little bit, yea

Anyway. Now that I know who the alpha of the girls is I really want to game her, if anything just to prove my alphaness. I did get a lil keno from my previous shift when she punched me in the back for giving her a cold stare. Aside from that that was the only "sign" I got. After the whole strainer debacle I started playing it cooler by keeping my responses short and neglecting her. Does this make me look weak? Any insights on how to game this beast would be greatly appreciated.

[joker]

p.s Is it a bad idea to game women you work with, based on the conception "don't crap where you eat"?

[Gmac]

(10-23-2011 03:58 AM)joker Wrote:  

p.s Is it a bad idea to game women you work with, based on the conception "don't crap where you eat"?

Yeah, especially when you're a newbie to game.

[Openbar]

Don't confuse workplace alpha, which can be observed and tested to a depth not controllable by you, with game alpha, which relies on unsupported impressions to evoke predictable responses.

[MikeCF]

No such thing as alpha female.

[pitt]

Alpha females tend to be the easiest ones..aint nothing easier to attract than an alpha female..well at least with me it works fine.

[Giovonny]

She is not alpha. She is just another slut. Treat her occordingly.

She is lucky to even be talking to you. Thats the mindset to have..

[Caligula]

Don't worry about them. Jus be cool and get them on your side so they have your back. Don't try to fuck them. If you're a bartender, and you have some game, the gods of pussy are about to make it rain on you.

Strictly speaking an alpha female is just a very hot girl. An overly assertive woman is just a bossy cunt.