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Neurotic moms
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Neurotic moms

With increased divorce rates, designer moms, and a culture that esteems single mothers, young men are fucked and will continue to be fucked harder and with less lubrication.

I'm a waiter. I get to see a lot of dysfunctional families up close and personal engaging in what is often the most intimate moment of their respective days. When people break bread with each other, you see what they're really about.

So I see a lot of neurotic mothers. Yeah, most mothers are neurotic to a degree, but that neurosis often goes unchecked. It goes unchecked either because a dad isn't around or because no other voice of authority can tell a mom what to do i.e. Church or Society or because the mom rules the roost and the dad is just filler.

So I wait on a mom and her 15 year old son. And I can see that this kid is fucked going forward. He was hunkered down with his shoulders collapsing in towards his chest. No confidence. His mom held his balls in the loose coin section of her designer purse.

I'll cut through the details. Woman cuts me off as I walk up to introduce myself. She wants to control the frame. Instead of telling me what she wants to drink, she asks about vegetarian options (a red flag all by itself). She starts to order for her son, but does actually stop short to let him tell me what he wants. No eye contact, mumbling. When the kid has his food, the mom asks for a box so that the kid can partition it and save it for another time. That's just weird behavior. 15 year-olds eat a shit ton of food, and they *want* to eat a shit ton of food.

Initially I wondered if maybe the kid had a nutrition issue as they were both talking about potassium. I found it odd that a kid was talking about potassium with his mom. But, again, she jumped in on the veggie crusade so I have to assume that she's just a neurotic calorie minimizer or an environmentalist.

The weirdest part to me was that at the end of the meal - after what seemed like an obsessive amount of health consciousness - the woman throws a cigarette into her mouth while she stands up to leave the table. Being a non-smoking restaurant, this is more odd behavior. Folks can usually wait to get their fix. I've never seen that before either.

So throwing all those pieces together, I couldn't help but notice that this mom's neurosis was just *crushing* her son's spirit right at that dinner table. I could see him laboring under her over-bearing demeanor - her fast brain and her desire to control the frame. I felt bad for the kid. I feel bad for the increasing number of kids, especially boys, who will be brought up by neurotic mothers.
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Neurotic moms

But she's a strong woman. This is what all men want.
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Neurotic moms

Poor kid, she can't control her own shit so she takes it out on him.

"A flower can not remain in bloom for years, but a garden can be cultivated to bloom throughout seasons and years." - xsplat
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