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http://screen.yahoo.com/let-s-talk-about...90621.html

Saw this on Yahoo!

I'm really starting to think that it will only take a spark for Game to go mainstream.

Read the comments. You'll see guys who are starting to see the light.

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Why are women drawn to bad boys? They are stupid. next topic

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The sad thing is that women think that once they "decide" not to date bad boys, they can just decide to start dating nice guys. Not true. Once you have a kid or two or get older your options are much more limited. Be careful. You could throw away the best years of your life and end up alone and bitter. As a good guy who got screwed over a few times. It was sad to see those women come back years later to see if there is a possibility. Time is general[ly] kinder to nice guys than it is too bad boy chasers. They now wanted and honest stable man that could be a partner to them. Too late. You don't get to go back in time and make better choices. You are stuck with the major decisions that you make. It can be heartbreaking to see.

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Women are stupid when it comes to love. It's that simple.They think with their emotions instead of there brains.

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The nice guy ALWAYS finishes last and we don't stand a chance in today's dating world. We are good as nothing more than emotional tampons and things to string along.

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I could relate to this. I was with a girl in university and treated her very well (even her friends used to tell her she's lucky to have me). I did everything for her; cook, wash the dishes, did our laundry, picked her up from work, and took her out on dates. Somehow, she doesn't invite me to her friend's parties or go to the beach with her and her girlfriends and their boyfriends (including their boyfriend's friends), or even going out to the club/bar. Even worse, my friends would mention seeing her at the clubs and asked why I wasn't there, so I had to come up with excuses like, I didn't feel like going out or I was busy studying and whatnot. Now, she's transferred to another school and I guess she finally realized how much she misses being treated like a princess.

[pitt]

I think you are too focused in that ''women only like bad boys'' stuff. Im not a bad boy and believe me when i say this, I PULL A LOT. Its not about being a bad boy, its about being good looking, good sense of humour, funny, an approching machine and hella confident. The last area where i was in London was full of bad cats and none of them were pulling more chicks than i was pulling, they were just in the corner watching me and my homie pulling and pulling chicks everyday.

Just dont be a nerd, learn how to fight, get this i dont give a fuck mentality, do bad to whoever does bad to you, you dont need to be a bad boy. Sometimes i even come across as being hella polite to girls and i still fuck them, so i dont know where that ''girls only like bad boys'' thing is coming from.

[oldnemesis]

This is yet another myth of the pickup community, which was probably started by Roissy.
Women do not go after bad boys. They go after confident guys who know what they want. Confidence is attractive for the people who do not have strong reality, which is typical for most American chicks.

Again, check the facts. Was Style a "bad boy"? Nope. Neither Tyler Dyrden nor Julian from RSD looked even close to bad boys; Tyler looks like a normal guy who nobody would even give the second look until he starts talking. Julian definitely has the "nice guy" image. Even Mystery was not "bad boy". This is just another myth.

[el mechanico]

Girls love bad boys. It's true. I'm not saying that there's not enough pussy for everybody but bad boys pull. I'm not talking the fake outlaw wanna be biker dudes.
Some girls stay clear but overall the real deal badass can take what he wants in most cases.. once again it's something that can't be faked.

[Samseau]

(10-19-2011 05:32 AM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

This is yet another myth of the pickup community, which was probably started by Roissy.
Women do not go after bad boys. They go after confident guys who know what they want. Confidence is attractive for the people who do not have strong reality, which is typical for most American chicks.

Again, check the facts. Was Style a "bad boy"? Nope. Neither Tyler Dyrden nor Julian from RSD looked even close to bad boys; Tyler looks like a normal guy who nobody would even give the second look until he starts talking. Julian definitely has the "nice guy" image. Even Mystery was not "bad boy". This is just another myth.

Compared to the average beta, most of the average players on this forum are downright badassess. It doesn't take much to be a badboy, you don't need to be a biker. You just need not to give a fuck in dealings w/women.

[Basil Ransom]

(10-19-2011 05:32 AM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

This is yet another myth of the pickup community, which was probably started by Roissy.
Women do not go after bad boys. They go after confident guys who know what they want. Confidence is attractive for the people who do not have strong reality, which is typical for most American chicks.

Again, check the facts. Was Style a "bad boy"? Nope. Neither Tyler Dyrden nor Julian from RSD looked even close to bad boys; Tyler looks like a normal guy who nobody would even give the second look until he starts talking. Julian definitely has the "nice guy" image. Even Mystery was not "bad boy". This is just another myth.

(10-19-2011 11:48 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

Compared to the average beta, most of the average players on this forum are downright badassess. It doesn't take much to be a badboy, you don't need to be a biker. You just need not to give a fuck in dealings w/women.

For one, girls are used to adulation and polite respect from men. Get a little cheeky right at the beginning, and "you're an asshole." A man who keeps her on her toes, who doesn't automatically approve her every action is considered an asshole. In reality, you're just a guy with a spine, however rare that may be. Add in the fact that everything you do with a girl is calculated to lead to sex...

And girls do want a man 'badder' than them. For a sheltered religious girl, that might mean the fact that you go out drinking, or that you did cocaine once. For a biker chick, bad boy status would require a lot more.

The bad boy doesn't just have the confidence and the swag. He has a rough image that hints at a dark past, even at an abusive character. Ideally, he could not give a fuck if the girl leaves at any given moment - that's an inherently psychopathic quality.

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You made me a selfish asshole. You rewarded me with sex when I treated you poorly. Your pussy got wetter the less I respected you. You made me go against my kind nature by being more cocky and arrogant.

[theIVth]

Girls dont really love bad boys more than they HATE lame, lap dog, type guys. I grew up in the hood and believe me, i knew tons of bad boys that sold crack and did everything bad under the sun, and trust me, they did not have a monopoly on all of the best women.

Unless he is just that handsome to her and she just HAS to have him for whatever reason, bad boys dont really have anymore of a chance with a girl than any ole regular handsome guy....unless that guy is just a lapdog.

And honestly, most bad boys where I come from usually mess with regular hoodrat ass women that are cut from their same cloth and come from the same type of environment that they come from. Women that you wouldnt even want. Women that would jump at the chance to be with a regular handsome guy with class.

Just dont be lame and you can get any woman you want, that wants you back.

[pitt]

(10-19-2011 01:04 PM)theIVth Wrote:  

Girls dont really love bad boys more than they HATE lame, lap dog, type guys. I grew up in the hood and believe me, i knew tons of bad boys that sold crack and did everything bad under the sun, and trust me, they did not have a monopoly on all of the best women.

Unless he is just that handsome to her and she just HAS to have him for whatever reason, bad boys dont really have anymore of a chance with a girl than any ole regular handsome guy....unless that guy is just a lapdog.

And honestly, most bad boys where I come from usually mess with regular hoodrat ass women that are cut from their same cloth and come from the same type of environment that they come from. Women that you wouldnt even want. Women that would jump at the chance to be with a regular handsome guy with class.

Just dont be lame and you can get any woman you want, that wants you back.

Thats real talk, say no more.

[velkrum]

• Girls want really cool guys with average to above average looks.
• Guys want really cool girls that fit their specific idea of attractiveness.

[Giovonny]

(10-19-2011 01:04 PM)theIVth Wrote:  

Girls dont really love bad boys more than they HATE lame, lap dog, type guys. I grew up in the hood and believe me, i knew tons of bad boys that sold crack and did everything bad under the sun, and trust me, they did not have a monopoly on all of the best women.

Unless he is just that handsome to her and she just HAS to have him for whatever reason, bad boys dont really have anymore of a chance with a girl than any ole regular handsome guy....unless that guy is just a lapdog.

And honestly, most bad boys where I come from usually mess with regular hoodrat ass women that are cut from their same cloth and come from the same type of environment that they come from. Women that you wouldnt even want. Women that would jump at the chance to be with a regular handsome guy with class.

Just dont be lame and you can get any woman you want, that wants you back.

good call!

[MikeCF]

Bad boys are more fun.

What is the typical "alpha male's" daily routine? Work. Go home. Play video games. Watch porn.

Why would any woman rather do that than....

Go out, dance, get drunk, smoke, fuck in public, ride a motorcycle, shoot guns at a range, race go carts, go rock climbing, etc.

It's not bad boys per se. Women are just so fucking bored with boring guys.

Can't say I blame them.

[Giovonny]

You don't have to be a bad person or even look like a bad person. You just have to love yourself enough that you don't let the world push you around without a least fighting back. It all goes back to "irrational self belief"

I know some badboys who are over-compensating pussys.

And, I know some 9-5ers who gets tons of ass. Its your attitude and way of speaking and carrying yourself, as much as it is your look.

If you have an attractive look and an attractive vibe you will really be in business.

It doesn't have to be criminal, but its does have to be more self assured then most other guys.

You can't be afraid to be yourself.

Conforming to every little demand of mainstream society just tells girls that you are a follower.