Quote: (Yesterday 11:47 AM)Distant Light Wrote:
Give that man a tin foil...
I don't have an IG and actually hate social media beyond work & prior when was encouraged to use FB it was for old friends, invites & girls who frequented my city.
A chick I used to hang with...Her bestfriend has 2m+ followes she is all ass n tits. What value does she bring to the world beyond getting "rail n bail" (I don't even really like crazy body chicks beyond active masturbation)
A also have come across many models who have 10k to 300k followers. Heck friend of a friend who is an ex VS model only has 80k yet a random meh college chick who used to hang with one of my boys ending in word "selter" has 12m followers & female friend with big tits who dated some baseball player also blew up to maybe 100k (I can't recall name off top to verify and don't use my FB anymore)
NOW, there are millions of women who either doesn't use FB or has it private. My ex was perfect example, if recall she said her own was private. Tons of unknown girls who if decided to go IG modeling/promo route would have just as much followers.
Thing is...Social media isn't real life...Just an extension & wannabe "pop culture". The people behind the scenes of pop culture MOST <5k yet they are connected to fame/celebs/models/wealthy connects.
There is no downside to NOT being part of the herd...Yes you can socially leverage IG (back in 2012 tons of chicks used to tell me to use it but never listened...I did use snapchat in 2013 until I lost my phone 1 of the 12 times)
Now I have had old clients show me texts of IG girls texting them BUT again social media isn't real life. You want to know real life? Girl meets guy in ibiza having a blast she forgets to take her boring IG photo with some philosophical shit...And just sucks some cock on the beach.
This reminds me of an old video with some fake booty escort chick in a hotel hallway with security pissed that some guy kicked her out the room or didnt pay. (I forget backstory) Nonetheless just another lame chick.
Social media can't hide a lame chick in person. Only people getting caught are the people believing social media is real life.
While I personally don't care if chick I banging has IG following or not. You better believe I'm leaving behind some chick who feels the need to continually ask me to take photos. (You know how much time some of these chicks take to get a so called perfect shot)
I view it all as a time sink, IG maybe good for pipelining BUT I never experimented. There are TONS of unknowns who imo are far more attractive. BEYOND WOMEN, overall connecting is far better. Find some nightlife staff down in floripa brazil & let them know you are flying in day of event...Really there already meet 5-10 above average girls and go. (Or even use IG but in-person far better) Connect & boom access to a whole new realm.
The creativity to leverage is there BUT toddler consciousness is the majority so what is popular is promoting bang energy drinks (I can imagine myself if I was how I was " back in the day" being now asking certain chicks if they have a pack of bang energy drinks at home)
One thing for sure, as years go on more and more anti social traits. People lack to initiative to not only instigate fun but inspire others to do the same. As a result there will be more and more "clout" events with people vlogging/snapping moments rather than actually living.
P.S...I love the chicks who are hustling dudes to pay/spend/support the promotion of their bodies...Easy fucking $$$ for a chick with free time to do whatever. Although like all platforms it is all used for marketing, selling sex & entertainment. It is mindblowing the cultural contradictions. Thankfully my validation doesn't reside outside myself nor am I socially autistic I need to use social media to have a sex life...I just hope to live for the next 10 years when all the new 18-24 yr olds crop up & the diaper booty chicks regret sych a huge fake ass when internally they are still the meh consciousness and less men want to fap/fuck to them as many chicks are only good for a fuck or 2
Okay now
first of all. I am the Autistic Fucc Boi. Put some respec' on muh' name.
Secondly in all seriousness, I feel you might be putting forth a logical fallacy here.
Namely, that if you use social media that you necessarily don't have social skills or must rely on social media somehow.
I feel social media is a valuable tool in your arsenal.
I think you could lose opportunities due to not having it.
I think you have this idea that any girl who is on IG is some dumb, empty-headed slut.
It's way more than that.
Most attractive women in the world today, <25 have an instagram that they use to not only consume mindless content but also browse for and consume content from high value males.
And it is becoming increasingly weird for you to not have an IG.
That said, yes there are situational game contexts like a party island such as Ibiza...where hookups are presumed.
But what about when you daygame beautiful girls on the street?
I suppose you just maintain the mystery?
Are you quite sure it's coming off as "oh he's so confident in his own world and doesn't care about social media" and not "i see through his bullshit, he's a loser and doesn't live an interesting life with beautiful women and cool friends, or otherwise why wouldn't he at least have an instagram?"
In my younger days (like a week ago before I got temporarily suspended)...I used to think IG was crucial.
Now, I do think there are two sides. But don't pretend that you aren't missing out on opportunities with very attractive young women who you probably have a lot of chemistry with due to not being on IG.
And maybe for your lifestyle goals not being on IG is better. I think there will always be contexts and pockets of society where going with total mystery will work.
But why not A/B test it?
Try your normal game, and then try offering up an IG username instead of the number next time...or if she asks for it.
Create a simple little profile with 5-10 DHV pics...basically clone your tinder profile and put it on IG...
See how your results differ.
It's not so much what your IG will do for you (if you don't have mega high social status)...but what not having it might make you miss out on...
Now excuse me...but I have some "REEEEEEEE"ing to do.