So I've got a cousin who's 3 years younger than me.
The cousin:
1) I lost my mom when I was young and he laughed when he's dad said to my dad "do you see your wife's ghost at night".
2) At a sports match somebody said I'm going to graduate with a good degree and he got angry and told me to "give his jacket to his dad".
3) At a practice session he said "I'm useless to others".
4) He started looking at me and laughing to others outside the practice session.
5) He said during the sports game sarcastically "I've finally started talking".
6) He said to others "I don't talk" loudly and rudely in the public.
7) He cut me out and ignored me when I came to his house to visit his parents in October.
8) Did the same thing in November.
9) Last three Christmas parties in 2015, 2016 and 2017 he acknowledge others but ignored me quite ruthlessly.
10) At a party he acted big towards me and told a lie.
11) called me a prat
12) hasn't bothered to acknowledge me properly for the last 5 years.
13) behind my back he says sarcastic things.
14) He says look how he looks sarcastically.
15) He also shouted at my father for no reason before and tried to criticise him.
16) Looked into my wallet which I set him up and I was watching behind the door on the gap.
He's someone who will do a quick sarcasm or be very critical of someone.
There is honestly a lot, lot more.
He acts like I'm not there and literally for the last 5 years at family parties and events he would only acknowledge others and not me.
If he sits next to me, he would just sit there for hours and not even say a word to me and talk to every other person.
I feel he's also doing this to deflect this. It may not be the reason.
But he knows I will earn more, do better and he won't. I'm already doing it and he knew this for some time ago and will never want to see me doing better.
He just doesn't want me to/see me do better.
He acts very smart, he acts like it's no big deal that I'm doing well now and acts cool like "oh, whatever" in his body language.
He's a full on bully, anything positive happens to me, he talks to his other cousin to put me down and that's what happened, they found a loophole to put me down.
He's game plan is simply act loud, ostracise me at the entire day and try to put me down in front of me. It's not going to work now because everybody else knows I'm successful. I've countered this by ignoring him.
He'll think of another way, another way to bully me, put me down in a passive way. Try to make me look like a tool. HE'LL TRY.
So how do I deal with this situation? How can I get some power back?
The cousin:
1) I lost my mom when I was young and he laughed when he's dad said to my dad "do you see your wife's ghost at night".
2) At a sports match somebody said I'm going to graduate with a good degree and he got angry and told me to "give his jacket to his dad".
3) At a practice session he said "I'm useless to others".
4) He started looking at me and laughing to others outside the practice session.
5) He said during the sports game sarcastically "I've finally started talking".
6) He said to others "I don't talk" loudly and rudely in the public.
7) He cut me out and ignored me when I came to his house to visit his parents in October.
8) Did the same thing in November.
9) Last three Christmas parties in 2015, 2016 and 2017 he acknowledge others but ignored me quite ruthlessly.
10) At a party he acted big towards me and told a lie.
11) called me a prat
12) hasn't bothered to acknowledge me properly for the last 5 years.
13) behind my back he says sarcastic things.
14) He says look how he looks sarcastically.
15) He also shouted at my father for no reason before and tried to criticise him.
16) Looked into my wallet which I set him up and I was watching behind the door on the gap.
He's someone who will do a quick sarcasm or be very critical of someone.
There is honestly a lot, lot more.
He acts like I'm not there and literally for the last 5 years at family parties and events he would only acknowledge others and not me.
If he sits next to me, he would just sit there for hours and not even say a word to me and talk to every other person.
I feel he's also doing this to deflect this. It may not be the reason.
But he knows I will earn more, do better and he won't. I'm already doing it and he knew this for some time ago and will never want to see me doing better.
He just doesn't want me to/see me do better.
He acts very smart, he acts like it's no big deal that I'm doing well now and acts cool like "oh, whatever" in his body language.
He's a full on bully, anything positive happens to me, he talks to his other cousin to put me down and that's what happened, they found a loophole to put me down.
He's game plan is simply act loud, ostracise me at the entire day and try to put me down in front of me. It's not going to work now because everybody else knows I'm successful. I've countered this by ignoring him.
He'll think of another way, another way to bully me, put me down in a passive way. Try to make me look like a tool. HE'LL TRY.
So how do I deal with this situation? How can I get some power back?
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