My LTR of 8 months asked me to take time because I didn’t give her enough attention. In reality I’m sure it’s because I acted beta the last three weeks.
The last few days I got my game back thanks to good decisions, I think exersice was the biggest factor (in my experience it’s basically a requirement to be able to bang multiple sluts.)
We FaceTimed and she started with the I need to tell you something, told me we need to take a time and her “reasoning” AKA hamster?
I started gaming her by
-taking frame
-non reactive / needy
After doing the above I started saying it was a great 8 months, thanked her for improving my life and told her I hoped she finds a man who can provide her what she needs and is Christian (she attends church 2-3x a week.)
After that I saw the shift from her facial expressions to her realizing she fucked up.
I asked her if she was talking to another person twice in a calm way and she said she wasn’t.
She started complimenting saying I was basically her first boyfriend because she treated all the previous ones like trash and manipulated them. That she never thought of cheating on me because she feared me in a way and reworded it into respecting me immediately after.
She said she wanted us to be friends and I could feel free to text her, I said dafuq? And she said she would like me to.
Blah blah blah she said she has to go (her mom got home and she has been seeing me behind her back for amount a month or so) I’m sure this was true.
I really wanted to find out the truth about her seeing other men so I texted her after she hung up that I had been with three other women in the eight months to see if she would cop to cheating and to permanently next her (I broke up with her 6 times before this and we lived together for 10 days)
Said to please not talk to her again because I had hurt her more than anyone else before.
What I learned
- Confirmed AWALT. You have to keep the Gina tingles flowing or it’s over
- Alpha fux beta bucks. I know for a fact she would have came over to get fucked later thanks to my last 5 mins of alpha
-Don’t ever feel pity for a woman and stay with her or be nice to her due to it because she will not reciprocate
-Not all women cheat (emotionally probably, almost surely, but not PiV)
Questions
-Anyone else ended things this way? (Cop yo cheating after break up)
-Could I have damaged her in a big way?
Closing thoughts
I somewhat regret copping to the cheating since I could have kept her as a side piece and had major leverage (she caused the breakup so she has to earn another relationship which I wouldn’t have done anyway) but felt it was necessary to burn the bridge and be forced to build my life separately because I did love her a bit (she was my first). Also wouldn’t have made her feel like shit which is the biggest cause of regret.
Thoughts? Sorry for the wall of text.
The last few days I got my game back thanks to good decisions, I think exersice was the biggest factor (in my experience it’s basically a requirement to be able to bang multiple sluts.)
We FaceTimed and she started with the I need to tell you something, told me we need to take a time and her “reasoning” AKA hamster?
I started gaming her by
-taking frame
-non reactive / needy
After doing the above I started saying it was a great 8 months, thanked her for improving my life and told her I hoped she finds a man who can provide her what she needs and is Christian (she attends church 2-3x a week.)
After that I saw the shift from her facial expressions to her realizing she fucked up.
I asked her if she was talking to another person twice in a calm way and she said she wasn’t.
She started complimenting saying I was basically her first boyfriend because she treated all the previous ones like trash and manipulated them. That she never thought of cheating on me because she feared me in a way and reworded it into respecting me immediately after.
She said she wanted us to be friends and I could feel free to text her, I said dafuq? And she said she would like me to.
Blah blah blah she said she has to go (her mom got home and she has been seeing me behind her back for amount a month or so) I’m sure this was true.
I really wanted to find out the truth about her seeing other men so I texted her after she hung up that I had been with three other women in the eight months to see if she would cop to cheating and to permanently next her (I broke up with her 6 times before this and we lived together for 10 days)
Said to please not talk to her again because I had hurt her more than anyone else before.
What I learned
- Confirmed AWALT. You have to keep the Gina tingles flowing or it’s over
- Alpha fux beta bucks. I know for a fact she would have came over to get fucked later thanks to my last 5 mins of alpha
-Don’t ever feel pity for a woman and stay with her or be nice to her due to it because she will not reciprocate
-Not all women cheat (emotionally probably, almost surely, but not PiV)
Questions
-Anyone else ended things this way? (Cop yo cheating after break up)
-Could I have damaged her in a big way?
Closing thoughts
I somewhat regret copping to the cheating since I could have kept her as a side piece and had major leverage (she caused the breakup so she has to earn another relationship which I wouldn’t have done anyway) but felt it was necessary to burn the bridge and be forced to build my life separately because I did love her a bit (she was my first). Also wouldn’t have made her feel like shit which is the biggest cause of regret.
Thoughts? Sorry for the wall of text.
