[gework]

All the girls I've had sex with have wanted to stop after they orgasm, usually for a few minutes and then are ready again. As I became more confident and started to realise that "No" doesn't always mean "No" I tried just continuing, but they are pretty emphatic they don't want to continue.

1) Has anyone else experienced this?

2) If you keep going is that likely to take them to multiple orgasm? That's how it seems to me - as if they are in sensory overload. I've been thinking next time I should cover their mouth and carry on.

[questor70]

I think when women experience "sensory overload" it's limited to the clitoris. When you keep going just slow down and adjust your angle / depth to avoid the clitoris for a while.

[Cr33pin]

[torridon747]

All the women I've dated with the exception of one were multi orgasmic. The one that wasn't was still down to soldier on.

Is there a chance these girls aren't that sexually into you? - as much as that hurts to hear?

Do you have a huge dong that cant help but stimulate the clit?

Seems strange all of the women you've dated have not been multi-orgasmic. Got more stats and info? Race of girls, assumed notch count, etc?

Judging by your second question sounds like you're not having rough dominant sex with these women. Of course you cover their mouths and keep going. I used to be more of a people pleaser in bed, doesn't work. Paradoxically women tend to be into you enjoying yourself above them, makes them get off even harder knowing you're doing what you want.

[Laner]

(04-23-2019 08:53 PM)gework Wrote:  

All the girls I've had sex with have wanted to stop after they orgasm, usually for a few minutes and then are ready again. As I became more confident and started to realise that "No" doesn't always mean "No" I tried just continuing, but they are pretty emphatic they don't want to continue.

1) Has anyone else experienced this?

2) If you keep going is that likely to take them to multiple orgasm? That's how it seems to me - as if they are in sensory overload. I've been thinking next time I should cover their mouth and carry on.

Try covering their mound and putting pressure on it for 15 seconds or so. Adjust your palm properly and you should be able to feel the contractions ease off and when they do, hammer it home again. Rinse (ha) and repeat.

[Donfitz007]

Agreed above. Just slow it down, re angle and fix the depth. I’ve had a girl get a full body orgasm and faint (like legit unconscious) now if that happens I say stop.

Most of the women I’ve had sex with have been multiorgasmic. The ones that weren’t usually don’t want u to stop but instead letting u know they arrived to their destination

[aeroektar]

A lot of the time as soon as they cum I get super turned on and go as hard and deep as possible until I blow, this moment is like the grand finale to a fireworks show, they go into a crazy euphoric pleasure zone and orgasm multiple times. If I'm not close to the edge the first time they cum, I can pull this off a couple times in a session.

Sometimes they go into mini convulsions and lose all motor function when they cum. Like a flopping fish, it can be hard to keep a hold of them, so I stop and let them regain themselves before going again.

For some women the orgasms come in bunches, and with others they come in evenly timed waves.

Just keep going. She's at your mercy. Make her your fucktoy.

[nairobian]

(04-23-2019 08:53 PM)gework Wrote:  

All the girls I've had sex with have wanted to stop after they orgasm, usually for a few minutes and then are ready again. As I became more confident and started to realise that "No" doesn't always mean "No" I tried just continuing, but they are pretty emphatic they don't want to continue.

1) Has anyone else experienced this?

2) If you keep going is that likely to take them to multiple orgasm? That's how it seems to me - as if they are in sensory overload. I've been thinking next time I should cover their mouth and carry on.

Was going to reply but aeroektar said it all:

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A lot of the time as soon as they cum I get super turned on and go as hard and deep as possible until I blow, this moment is like the grand finale to a fireworks show, they go into a crazy euphoric pleasure zone and orgasm multiple times. If I'm not close to the edge the first time they cum, I can pull this off a couple times in a session.

Sometimes they go into mini convulsions and lose all motor function when they cum. Like a flopping fish, it can be hard to keep a hold of them, so I stop and let them regain themselves before going again.

For some women the orgasms come in bunches, and with others they come in evenly timed waves.

Just keep going. She's at your mercy. Make her your fucktoy.

All women,7s,8s,even the unicorn 9s are multiorgasmic! Just pound them with your dick,dude,it ain't complicated. After the first 20 mns waves emanate from their spine and they can continue coming continuously til tomorrow morning. All of them! Forget all that shit about G spots,clits,chick bullshit,the constantly explaining sexperts and the porn memes.
But she will be sore at the end of it!

[chvrches]

I have this with a girl im seeing right now. She has an easy time cumming, even multiple times in one session. One time i gave her such an orgasm that her body was shaking and she told me she "was dead" down there for the next 20 minutes. I am in the same boat as you, i don't know if i should just keep going just slower, or if i should stop completely.

Usually, it isn't that intense orgasms but she will still ask me for a minute or two break. I wonder if they tell you this because it's too powerful for them, if it gets too sensitive it starts to hurt? Or if it's like a reloading time before she's able to cum another round, so she asks you to wait for her to be ready again?

[Vill@in]

How can you tell if a woman is having an orgasm?

Who cares.

[Rocha]

(04-23-2019 09:06 PM)questor70 Wrote:  

I think when women experience "sensory overload" it's limited to the clitoris. When you keep going just slow down and adjust your angle / depth to avoid the clitoris for a while.

I used to do this when I was less experienced.

Nowadays I stop for her to recover, normally a few seconds or a minute or two. But when I say I stop, does not mean that I am getting outside of her. Unless she tells that she has really to stop for a few minutes.

[questor70]

(04-24-2019 08:46 AM)Vill@in Wrote:  

How can you tell if a woman is having an orgasm?
Who cares.

It may seem macho but I don't find it at all flattering to brag that you don't care about pleasing a woman. Seems rather immature to me, frankly. Sex is better when you give as well as receive. Considering that sex is what's on most guy's minds, it seems silly not to want to learn to be as good at it as possible.

[RatInTheWoods]

Despite what low self esteem dudes on here like to brag about, quite often a woman's capacity to enjoy sex has a lot more to do with her, than anything you do.

Some can have 52 off a session, others can not master a single orgasim after 2 hours of going down on her.

Issues like low self esteem, abuse when she was young, religious shaming etc can all impact on her where it hurts the most - in her head.

[kosko]

(04-30-2019 02:45 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

Despite what low self esteem dudes on here like to brag about, quite often a woman's capacity to enjoy sex has a lot more to do with her, than anything you do.

Some can have 52 off a session, others can not master a single orgasim after 2 hours of going down on her.

Issues like low self esteem, abuse when she was young, religious shaming etc can all impact on her where it hurts the most - in her head.

Yes, indeed. I made a girl squirt for her first time after she was convinced she could never do such thing. It took almost an hour of gspot and clit work while also making sure where head was in the right place so she could "release". Once she got her head settled she was fishing and got 5 squirts going before we both tapped out.

70% of the female orgasm is in her mind, once she syncs her mind to body she can cum very quickly.

[RatInTheWoods]

(05-01-2019 12:39 AM)kosko Wrote:  

Once she got her head settled she was fishing

70% of the female orgasm is in her mind, once she syncs her mind to body she can cum very quickly.

A massage is very good for that, as is a blindfold. Don't let her talk, make her put her arms above her head and not to move.


What are your tips for how you get her out of her head and into her body?

[questor70]

I've said this before but everyone has to develop their own style. What works for me might feel unnatural for someone else to do. But what I feel is most important is to become adept at body language. What I mean is, be able to read every little move she makes to know what is turning her on and what isn't. Then you start to build up a repertoir of moves that you spool out in an improvised way with ups and downs and head-fakes. It's a lot of work and the biggest risk is to become too focused on being the conductor and not getting into your OWN body.

[Noir]

(05-01-2019 04:58 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

(05-01-2019 12:39 AM)kosko Wrote:  

Once she got her head settled she was fishing

70% of the female orgasm is in her mind, once she syncs her mind to body she can cum very quickly.

A massage is very good for that, as is a blindfold. Don't let her talk, make her put her arms above her head and not to move.


What are your tips for how you get her out of her head and into her body?

Set up a dom/sub relationship (of which I am convinced all women want to an extent) and you tell/guide her on what to do, in the bedroom. I don't like to let this relationship come out of the bedroom either, less is more.

The guidance fluctuates between outright ordering her around and playful reinforcement depending on where you see her.

As such, when she orgasms, she will await instructions.

I would also start throwing out dirty talk under certain contexts, when she is nearing orgasm, to truly understand what gets her off and what doesn't without her rational mind interfering.

Again, anybody can control a woman's body- the key is to control her mind.

There's a reason 50 shades of grey is such a hit. Women want a guy who is a gentleman in public and a depraved fucker in private.

[dabu]

I've searched the forum, but this thread might a good place to ask you guys:

The thing is that one of the plates I bang laughs while having orgasm. Have you guys ever experienced anything similarly odd?

[DonnyGately]

Some girls can have 20 in one session others are lucky to get one after 2 hrs of intimacy and good sex and a vibrator too. It's usually all in her head.

The submissive ones usually come the fastest and the most.

[kosko]

Last week a new first as I made a girl gush the most volume I have ever seen in my life.

It was a good experience as she had great energy and is very vocal. I had to do a mixbag of teqnique.

She told me she does squirt prior so I transitioned to my hands after I busted to quicker than I wanted too fucking her. It was maybe 7-10 mins of work. For her it was a big focus on the clit. I would swap in my tounge when my hands were getting sore and needed a quick rest. I also did unconventional movements with my hands, inverting the classic "hook upwards" and did it downwards instead; I did this as I noticed her contractions were stronger doing this so I kept it going.

She was good as she is very vocal and and she was getting a big balloon. She was still tense to release so I kept coaching her up to let it go. She then squirts her first time and it was a gush. I could still sense she could do more. She then had an orgasm not long after after that first gush. After her orgasm she was completely relaxed and I could see white in her eyes. I knew she still has more so I kept going and then ... SPLASH. A huge fucking gush and then I swear... I swear ... she started squirting again but this time a gush and then a stream of magic. I would have guessed this was 2/3+ a liter of fluid. It just kept coming out nonstop with her moaning the whole time. I was turned on, amazed, and shocked all at the same time. After she is laying in a puddle and there is now liquid everywhere, on the floor, everything is saturated. She was VERY embarrassed but I quickly calmed her down and reassured her that she should be be embarrassed of her body. I told her I enjoyed doing that to her and it calmed her down.

(05-01-2019 04:58 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

(05-01-2019 12:39 AM)kosko Wrote:  

Once she got her head settled she was fishing

70% of the female orgasm is in her mind, once she syncs her mind to body she can cum very quickly.

A massage is very good for that, as is a blindfold. Don't let her talk, make her put her arms above her head and not to move.


What are your tips for how you get her out of her head and into her body?

Listen to the body. Her contractions will tell the story of what her body wants to do.

If she is doing a lot of fidgiting then I find she is still too wound up and then take the time to verbally remind her to relax. Give her a reassured touch on the upper chest or forehead and tell her to relax and focus on her breathing.

Again, with the verbal actions if you see her having contractions with her abdominal almost filling like a balloon, press it gently down and TELL HER that it is okay to release the tightness she is feeling, encourage her to let it out, as she is essentially being stiff to "hold on" to what feels like pee to her. If it is still taking time then yiu can try use a blindfold,/sleep mask/tower/pillow for her to cover her eyes so she can remove parts of herself from what is happening. Usually these steps all work and then once you feel her body is relaxed and you're still getting contractions then escalate your finger movements and clit work and you'll 100% get her to squirt.

[kosko]

(05-12-2019 06:52 AM)dabu Wrote:  

I've searched the forum, but this thread might a good place to ask you guys:

The thing is that one of the plates I bang laughs while having orgasm. Have you guys ever experienced anything similarly odd?

It is fine. My ex would do this as well. Women get goofy post orgasm and they get a big time high and head rush.

Each girl is going to be different but take her laughter as a good sign you laid it down properly. Be in tune with body language as she should (unless she is a cold soul) be affectionate and cuddly in this state as she is in her orgasm laugher. In that moment her actions are saying she is happy and wants to get close to you.

For real, be happy she didn't sound like a fuck donkey when she has an orgasm. I'll take a laugh any day over the weird noises I've heard over the years.

[Vill@in]

(04-29-2019 07:46 PM)questor70 Wrote:  

(04-24-2019 08:46 AM)Vill@in Wrote:  

How can you tell if a woman is having an orgasm?
Who cares.

It may seem macho but I don't find it at all flattering to brag that you don't care about pleasing a woman. Seems rather immature to me, frankly. Sex is better when you give as well as receive. Considering that sex is what's on most guy's minds, it seems silly not to want to learn to be as good at it as possible.

Lighten up, Francis. My comment was mostly tongue-in-cheek.

I used to obsess with giving a woman multiple orgasms. But after you have been with enough, you realize that most of it is in their head. You really have to master the mental part of it rather than pounding away at her pussy until the sun comes up.

But at the same time, don't obsess over it. You really tiptoe the line of being a sub servant pleaser if your main goal is just to get her off multiple times. She'll sense that and you chance losing dominance.

Master your comfort game, get her to relax and own her mentally and physically. She'll have multiple orgasms AND you get to keep your macho card. Win/win.

[Distant Light]

Can be clitoral overload, in past used to avoid clit for 1st orgasm as a result BUT following around in other ways is always good or stimulating something else.

Like other dude said majority is in mind, chick letting go & going primal...

Only met 1 girl who gave disclaimer she orgasms like typical dude and is done. (until they read for round 2) However, when we fucked we were super playful laughing and playing...Broke her bed.

That level of ease and play lead to playing around and fucking again and she had a vaginal orgasm which shocked her as she never orgasmed 2x in a row.

Sadly, it is girl to girl basis...Most chicks will have a hard time letting go and takes certain tone/experience. However, to this day female primal sexuality is what makes me love sex. It is like diving into a pit of instinctual sexuality and depths of creativity.

If chick is having sensory overload DONT IGNORE IT just stop with such physical stimulation. Sometimes her mind can go beyond it but then such a thought either won't register or she simply can't take anymore specific stimulation...

Reminds me of 1 girl, unbearably tight, no lube YET psychologically she could handle the pain. She stated she barely been with any men BUT things ended up being very rough..We never made it to bedroom and I recall getting rug burns banging her on the floor of her living room. (Something about pain & pleasure my knees were fucked up)

NOTE - I've never purposely cum inside a chick other than 1x like a drunk dumbass with ex. I can see how cumming inside a woman can psychologically induce orgasm but I'm unwilling to play in such territory.

Like other poster said, I wouldn't obsess over giving a woman multiple orgasms as "orgasm" is just one small aspect of sex in the range of things and it is more so a psychological realm. (There is a time & place in certain experiences where such a thing fits the moment/energy)

Keep in mind, I doubt ever gave ex vaginal orgasm far less multiple orgasms. (I can't recall) I do know amount of stress in mongashit lead to eating pussy being only true craving. I can only think of less than 5 moments in the on/off of 4 year span where I almost flipped wanting to "fuck the soul"...Sadly, it was almost never possible stress royally killed my sexuality & as weed amplified it with physical injury so it was crapshot if my cock could even be fully hard far less hard enough to have sustainable intercourse. (Thankfully someone sent me material to help physiological aspect weed had as for years felt as if I pulled a muscle and never be fully hard or maintain erection) Yet, with all that said the so called LOVE made sex different.

Book every human should read is " Sexual Intelligence" by Marty Klein...

Sexuality has so much dogma that most sexual encounters will never reach that psychological depth. People are too obsessed with "orgasms".

[BoiBoi]

(Yesterday 12:27 PM)Distant Light Wrote:  

Sadly, it was almost never possible stress royally killed my sexuality & as weed amplified it with physical injury so it was crapshot if my cock could even be fully hard far less hard enough to have sustainable intercourse. (Thankfully someone sent me material to help physiological aspect weed had as for years felt as if I pulled a muscle and never be fully hard or maintain erection) Yet, with all that said the so called LOVE made sex different.

Weed + Sex for me is the direct opposite, the best thing in the world. Weed is like a natural viagra for me.

[Distant Light]

@BoiBoi yep it does things totally different from me (story in and of itself)

The neuroscience answer an imbalance of glutamate & gaba was so skewed that neurons were becoming overexcited & dying. 1 time 100% felt like i pulled a muscle and never again. (Whole story is bizarre)

Nonetheless been seeing/feeling improvements haha