So i have plans to visit kiev, ideally for wife hunting but if not, just ONS and daygame.
As some of you know i have complained about how pain in the ass is online game with ukrainien women, but have managed to do some selection and have a few candidates ready.
Theres one that is being a challenge for me to read her and that i like more than the others.
In my profile right now i say how im looking to meet someone for LTR. I start talking to this girl, hotter than the others and more interesting to me. Apparently shes looking for LTR too.
Girl looks very decent, good profession, doesnt show off like a slut in photos, speaks english really well and of course is beautiful. We can speak about anything, make jokes and is one of the few that keeps chatting after days. I add her on favorites and she adds me on hers too.
So fast forward some days after. I ask her to exchange phones and she replies "Yes I may add you also on instagram if you want. Because soon I think I will delete from this chat". Before this she used to come online frequently on the dating app, but since we exchanged numbers she barely uses it (from being online many times a day, to once every few days).
So, instagram is pretty clean. Low amount of followed/followers, very normal photos, not trying to pose like a model. Has housewife hobbies. My interest raises.
The thing is, i dont know if she is busy or "hot and cold". Sometimes she will keep talking and asking questions, and then she will randomly read and take hours to reply (sometimes whole day or until i write again hours later). We talk more specially at night, send photos of what we do or how the day went, some voice notes....
Things in my favor, she would like to move broad near the sea, like where i live. Also loves my language and tries to learn words (sometimes answers in short sentences in spanish), have things in common... but not sure if she sees me as a friend or like a ltr candidate. Its hard to test these things online because the physical part isnt there, so how can i know if im wasting time? Am i focusing too much on chat frequency as an indicator of interest?
Detail: she setup her profile as she is in Kiev, but is actually from far away. Initially she knows my plan is to go to Kiev, and she would go to visit her brother but doesnt know when. I could offer to visit her hometown in case she is hoping for it or sees it like some commitment on my side, but bringing it up would reveal my intentions maybe too fast... Traveling to her hometown would be way cheaper than Kiev for me but have no B plans.... yet.
As some of you know i have complained about how pain in the ass is online game with ukrainien women, but have managed to do some selection and have a few candidates ready.
Theres one that is being a challenge for me to read her and that i like more than the others.
In my profile right now i say how im looking to meet someone for LTR. I start talking to this girl, hotter than the others and more interesting to me. Apparently shes looking for LTR too.
Girl looks very decent, good profession, doesnt show off like a slut in photos, speaks english really well and of course is beautiful. We can speak about anything, make jokes and is one of the few that keeps chatting after days. I add her on favorites and she adds me on hers too.
So fast forward some days after. I ask her to exchange phones and she replies "Yes I may add you also on instagram if you want. Because soon I think I will delete from this chat". Before this she used to come online frequently on the dating app, but since we exchanged numbers she barely uses it (from being online many times a day, to once every few days).
So, instagram is pretty clean. Low amount of followed/followers, very normal photos, not trying to pose like a model. Has housewife hobbies. My interest raises.
The thing is, i dont know if she is busy or "hot and cold". Sometimes she will keep talking and asking questions, and then she will randomly read and take hours to reply (sometimes whole day or until i write again hours later). We talk more specially at night, send photos of what we do or how the day went, some voice notes....
Things in my favor, she would like to move broad near the sea, like where i live. Also loves my language and tries to learn words (sometimes answers in short sentences in spanish), have things in common... but not sure if she sees me as a friend or like a ltr candidate. Its hard to test these things online because the physical part isnt there, so how can i know if im wasting time? Am i focusing too much on chat frequency as an indicator of interest?
Detail: she setup her profile as she is in Kiev, but is actually from far away. Initially she knows my plan is to go to Kiev, and she would go to visit her brother but doesnt know when. I could offer to visit her hometown in case she is hoping for it or sees it like some commitment on my side, but bringing it up would reveal my intentions maybe too fast... Traveling to her hometown would be way cheaper than Kiev for me but have no B plans.... yet.