[MarshalZhukov]

(04-07-2019 12:42 PM)croquet Wrote:  

This is a terrible question and here's why: It's mental masturbation. Woulda, coulda, shoulda.

Learn from your mistakes and move on. One cannot change the past, but one can make steps to change oneself now.

but its a great resource for young guys like me

I'll add these for myself:

start lifting sooner
be more careful not to injure myself: skateboarding
"gone alpha" sooner
not spent so much time on the computer
better time management
drank less alcohol
been more ballsy with the ladies
not been so easily swayed by others, stood up for myself more and sooner
learned to follow the good advice of others , while recognizing their bad advice and avoiding it
been more decisive

[nek]

(04-14-2019 01:24 PM)MarshalZhukov Wrote:  

(04-07-2019 12:42 PM)croquet Wrote:  

This is a terrible question and here's why: It's mental masturbation. Woulda, coulda, shoulda.

Learn from your mistakes and move on. One cannot change the past, but one can make steps to change oneself now.

but its a great resource for young guys like me

I'll add these for myself:

start lifting sooner
be more careful not to injure myself: skateboarding
"gone alpha" sooner
not spent so much time on the computer
better time management
drank less alcohol
been more ballsy with the ladies
not been so easily swayed by others, stood up for myself more and sooner
learned to follow the good advice of others , while recognizing their bad advice and avoiding it
been more decisive

And you know what the unifying theme to all of this is? Bravery. Most the world's problems could be solved through bravery. Most of the world's problems are a result of cowardice.

[Tex]

I would go back and have more fun. Fun is one of the ultimate ethics of life, if the not the ultimate.

Happiness is fleeting, fear is fleeting, lust is fleeting, Notre Dame was fleeting. Fun is forever.