I just finished watching this video after randomly stumbling upon it and it had me thinking a whole lot. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YuSPF69Evk
Basically, this PUA/redpill game guy talks about how women love opportunistically and men love idealistically. I've been reading this statement a lot since i took the red pill, but i never quite fully understood it. It basically says women don't love you as a person, they love the way you make them feel, the way you turn on her emotions, they love the sex etc. They aren't in love with you, they are in love with what you can provide them. Psychologically, emotionally, physically, financially etc.
It's a hard pill to swallow. Could someone explain to me how this is true? Does this mean you'll never find a woman that will be in love in you for YOU? Do you have to keep up making her feel a certain way for her to maintain her attraction to you?
I've read that this explains how women can move on almost right away from a relationship and in the wink of an eye they're onto another guy. Yet, if the guy was in love, he could be ruined for a year or more before he can get over it.
Does this mean a woman can never love you unconditional? AWALT? She will only love you for what you provide either physically or emotionally for her?
Is it a blue pill ideology and Hollywood fantasy that you will be able to find a woman that will love you no matter what? Does this mean that your current LTR/wife is only with you because of how you make her feel?
Basically, this PUA/redpill game guy talks about how women love opportunistically and men love idealistically. I've been reading this statement a lot since i took the red pill, but i never quite fully understood it. It basically says women don't love you as a person, they love the way you make them feel, the way you turn on her emotions, they love the sex etc. They aren't in love with you, they are in love with what you can provide them. Psychologically, emotionally, physically, financially etc.
It's a hard pill to swallow. Could someone explain to me how this is true? Does this mean you'll never find a woman that will be in love in you for YOU? Do you have to keep up making her feel a certain way for her to maintain her attraction to you?
I've read that this explains how women can move on almost right away from a relationship and in the wink of an eye they're onto another guy. Yet, if the guy was in love, he could be ruined for a year or more before he can get over it.
Does this mean a woman can never love you unconditional? AWALT? She will only love you for what you provide either physically or emotionally for her?
Is it a blue pill ideology and Hollywood fantasy that you will be able to find a woman that will love you no matter what? Does this mean that your current LTR/wife is only with you because of how you make her feel?