A friend of mine invited me to a gathering at the beach on Saturday, it was cool to be social with a bunch of people during the day, I haven't done that in a LONG time. There was some nice looking girls but it was more of a friendly gathering and I didnt want to game especially since i was a new and didnt know anyone. I was content just being there and chatting with people.
So my friend and i decided to hit up the clubs at night, first club we went to I talked to this girl that was apparently alone at the table next to us, she was receptive but we only talked for a while since they moved her table. We went to some other clubs and I did at least one approach at every spot, I was feeling really good and had zero approach anxiety, my friend would just point out girls to me and id go talk to them. Unfortunately none of the 8 or 9 approaches i made were successful, i didnt get any harsh rejections but none of the girls were interested and one even left her brand new drink on the bar to get away from me. I was surprised that my confidence and mood wasnt being lowered, I honestly didnt give a shit i and my energy was still high despite the rejections. Being with a wingman made ALL the difference, like you dont have a chance to internalize bad shit since your busy being social with your wing. I also havent approached this many girls in years so i was proud of myself, even my wing complimented me on my energy.
So my friend and i decided to hit up the clubs at night, first club we went to I talked to this girl that was apparently alone at the table next to us, she was receptive but we only talked for a while since they moved her table. We went to some other clubs and I did at least one approach at every spot, I was feeling really good and had zero approach anxiety, my friend would just point out girls to me and id go talk to them. Unfortunately none of the 8 or 9 approaches i made were successful, i didnt get any harsh rejections but none of the girls were interested and one even left her brand new drink on the bar to get away from me. I was surprised that my confidence and mood wasnt being lowered, I honestly didnt give a shit i and my energy was still high despite the rejections. Being with a wingman made ALL the difference, like you dont have a chance to internalize bad shit since your busy being social with your wing. I also havent approached this many girls in years so i was proud of myself, even my wing complimented me on my energy.
