[XThrax]

When I think about approaching women I noticed there are circumstances that make the approach harder(Buff) or easier(Debuff). Name your top 5 Buffs and Debuffs. For example:

Buffs
•Girl is looking at phone for long periods of time
•Girl is moving faster than people around her
•Girl is currently doing an activity that requires concentration
•Girl is sitting down
•Girl is wearing shades
Debuffs:
•In a group girl is doing an interactive activity such as taking a selfy.
•Girl locked eyes with you for a second or more
•Girl walking slower then people around her
•Girl smiles at you
•Girl waves at you

[kinjutsu]

When i first l saw the thread title i thought you were talking about video game buffs and debuffs.

Back to the topic...

Depending on the environment determines how/if you approach.
The list you gave, at least to me, aren't exclusively no approach or 100% approach.

Try to think of approaches as situational. What could be the "perfect approach" might not be apparent to you if you're tired or running late or in a shitty mood because the last few girls shut you down.

[Batman_]

All of my buffs and debuffs are a matter of my internal states of mind, with very little to do with the external environment. That said, I never do "dancefloor game" or ever attempt to open girls in that area.

[MaceTyrell]

My top debuff is when a girl is wearing something I legitimately like. Makes the opener come across as authentic. Have never had a bad reaction to it.

The key is to legitimately like it. Not just "oh I find this girl pretty, if I compliment her shoes then maybe she will talk to me."

[XThrax]

(02-17-2019 04:43 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

Depending on the environment determines how/if you approach.
The list you gave, at least to me, aren't exclusively no approach or 100% approach.

Try to think of approaches as situational. What could be the "perfect approach" might not be apparent to you if you're tired or running late or in a shitty mood because the last few girls shut you down.

Not saying an approach will or will not work. It all depends on your confidence level. I mean situations where you think "Oh man she just walked in the X store, I love that store. I am going to go talk to her." Confidence boost.
So you could say a common situation where you benefit or the approach becomes harder (but maybe not impossible)

[kinjutsu]

From my perspective, I dont have those confidence issues when approaching a girl. Its more of an energy issue.
Am i tired from work and school all day?
Did i get a good nights sleep?
Did i have a solid meal and felt satisfied?

Keep in mind this is coming from a guy that's been approaching girls in public for nearly 10 years. I don't have "confidence issues" in my game. If anything i have time/enery limitations that prevent approaches. Ir the environment is some place i frequent and don't want a bad reputation if the girl rejects me.