[Hegemon1984]

Alright, so I was day gaming and on my second approach I met this girl... and I mean girl in the literal sense. I thought she was a babyfaced college student. She looked up at me and I said "Hey I saw you from a distance and I thought you were cute. What's your name?"

She was unusually quiet and blushed. I was a bit confused since most women at least acknowledge me. As I excused myself I smiled and walked out the door of the local community college I haunt.

Out of nowhere, I hear a fat Mexican woman scream, "SHE'S 12." I paused momentarily... then I rushed my ass outta there faster than you can believe.

Scary shit, fam.

[Agrippa]

Was she 12?

[wi30]

Sounds like she was too old anyway.

[Beyond Borders]

[Hegemon1984]

(02-12-2019 11:35 PM)Agrippa Wrote:  

Was she 12?

I dunno, but I didn't want to find out lol

[Donfitz007]

So one day I was playing basketball with the bros, here comes in this little girl. I knew her because I train her from time to time in basketball so I knew she was actually pretty good. So after the game all my friends come over and ask who she is. One guy actually came up to me and said "dude she has a fat ass bro you hitting that" My cousin asked why I never brought her by the house.

So after the game another one of my friends tried to flirt with her and she said "you must not remember me" and he said " no where do I know you from" she said "from childcare, I went there last year.....I'm 13" (which she really is 13) all my friends hated me after that.

[Windom Earle]

Maybe she was her 12th child?

[crazyguy]

Welcome to day game, brother.

When I have enough posts I am gonna make a post on the whole age identification problem.

It is VERY hard to tell, especially when you can't "observe" you're target for too long without looking creepy.

I was in a community college last week for a job interview (not for a job at the college but the college was the location where they were holding interviews) and although the AOC in England is 16 and community college is 16-19 in the majority, I still prefer my targets to be 18, or 17 at a push, I myself am turning 30 this year.

It pains me, when I attended a similar institution 11 years ago, back in good ole 2008, I didn't know about day game. I've never had a girlfriend, never had a "youth" so to speak. It's really sad, but that is for another topic.

I only did two approaches on students before I felt the heat and left (if you aren't a student there you have to sign in as a visitor to look around).

One girl was in a pair of girls, you know, the pairs that seem to do everything together? I approached her in the library as they were going to sit at the computers and I said "Excuse me, I must say, I love you're figure" then she was like "thanks" and then I go and sit down and heard her say "That was really weird". They leave the library 5 minutes later.

Then there was another one sitting in a communal area on a couch and I opened the interaction with "I don't know how old you are but I love you're legs" she replied "I'm 18" I think to myself "perfect".

What followed was an awkward conversation until she went off to "meet her friends" (or, in other words, get away from the creepy weirdo who complimented her legs).

After these two awkward approaches I felt the heat and decided to leave the area before I got a visit from campus security.

You have to be really careful with these younger girls, even if they are "legal" they are extra sensitive to being creeped out, so I never aggressively pursue an interaction with them.

But yeah, I've had a few street encounters where they've turned out to be underaged, one replied with "I'm a child" after my conversation opener, another was 14, I approached a 15 year old at a bus stop full of strangers where I heard tuts of disapproval after she said her age. A 16 year old shouted out in the street "I'm 16" when I approached.

On the other hand, I have passed up approaches on legal aged women where I couldn't tell their ages, or I've passed up an approach and then seen them going into a pub or holding car keys in their hands and I've thought "damn it".

Like yesterday for instance, I kept seeing this pair whom I thought were "borderline" so I ignored them a few times, then I see them enter a shop. So I decide I'll get in their proximity and try to overhear some of their conversation to help verify age. I follow them into the shop and I hear them talking about uni, green light. so I go in and say "Excuse me ladies, what are you doing on valentine's day" and it turns out they both say they have boyfriends anyway.

Also, I am unclear on the law on piercings? The girl yesterday had a few piercings, do they require a woman to be over 16 or over 18 to have piercings? I've seen a few who looked really young who still had piercings, but I've always seen piercings as a green light to approach.

Hell, I remember when I was 18 and before I knew about approaching, I was afraid of even interacting with girls under 18, as I wasn't sure what the law/society's view was. Because I had no friends and no one to refer to for guidance, I've missed out on hundreds of opportunities over the last 11 years.

There really is nothing worse than having missed out on one's youth. No one tells you one day you aren't going to be the same age as the girls you are attracted to anymore.

Edit: Another pet hate. Why do the majority of young women from their early teens up, have to wear friggin ripped jeans!? This is something else that makes it really hard to filter based on age.

[fmman]

Wow, that sounds rough. I would add 10 years to the women yes women you approach or try it in SE Asia if you still want an 18 year old.

Back when I was 28 I met a 15/16 year old who was well into me. I went around town with her and I felt I was being stared at by people as she was grabbing onto my arm. Hated that. Later I found out that her Dad worked high up in the big company that I worked for so I got away from her asap. And no I never even kissed her, was very wrong that age gap. She looked young.

Piercings I don't know but they can have their ears done at 5, so I wouldn't go by that if I were you!!!!!!!!!!

[Hammerhead]

(02-13-2019 05:12 AM)crazyguy Wrote:  

"Excuse me, I must say, I love you're figure" then she was like "thanks" and then I go and sit down and heard her say "That was really weird". They leave the library 5 minutes later.

Then there was another one sitting in a communal area on a couch and I opened the interaction with "I don't know how old you are but I love you're legs" she replied "I'm 18" I think to myself "perfect".

You are creeping them out because you are commenting on their physical appearance. In general, people (men and women) don't like to be treated like objects. You should comment on non-physical characteristics that they had some choice about and you will have a much better response. Things like style, their clothing or handbag, nail color, or even their hair style. All these things they chose to do.

[Beirut]

Do you have to start a new thread for every single approach and idea OP. No offense but you already have a game log thread yet you keep creating new ones. Your thread/posts ratio is wack.

There was a guy a while back who fell in love with forum attention and it didnt end well for him.

[womanapproacher]

(02-13-2019 06:41 AM)fmman Wrote:  

Wow, that sounds rough. I would add 10 years to the women yes women you approach or try it in SE Asia if you still want an 18 year old.

Back when I was 28 I met a 15/16 year old who was well into me. I went around town with her and I felt I was being stared at by people as she was grabbing onto my arm. Hated that. Later I found out that her Dad worked high up in the big company that I worked for so I got away from her asap. And no I never even kissed her, was very wrong that age gap. She looked young.

Piercings I don't know but they can have their ears done at 5, so I wouldn't go by that if I were you!!!!!!!!!!

I'm not referring to ear piercings, I am talking nose piercings or belly button if they are wearing a crop top.

(02-13-2019 04:42 PM)Hammerhead Wrote:  

(02-13-2019 05:12 AM)crazyguy Wrote:  

"Excuse me, I must say, I love you're figure" then she was like "thanks" and then I go and sit down and heard her say "That was really weird". They leave the library 5 minutes later.

Then there was another one sitting in a communal area on a couch and I opened the interaction with "I don't know how old you are but I love you're legs" she replied "I'm 18" I think to myself "perfect".

You are creeping them out because you are commenting on their physical appearance. In general, people (men and women) don't like to be treated like objects. You should comment on non-physical characteristics that they had some choice about and you will have a much better response. Things like style, their clothing or handbag, nail color, or even their hair style. All these things they chose to do.

Yeah but how do you "go direct" then rather than just having a platonic conversation? I need to make it man to woman, it's not about her clothes and accessories, it's about her.

[Atlanta Man]

Telltale signs of a girl being too young:
1)Way too responsive to your approach considering her attractiveness(an 18 year old 9/10 will be well aware of how she looks due to year of men trying to sleep with her, a 15 year old 9/10 has not been approached a lot by adult men)
2) She does not get sarcasm (This goes for all young people, the ability to detect sarcasm is only attained by age and experience)
3) She is not wearing make up, or has overused or incorrectly applied make up( again , experience)
4) She stumbles when you ask how old she is (THIS IS HUGE, PAY ATTENTION-young girls may want to hang out with an older man, they will lie about their age-press them-what year were you born?What is your sign?When did you graduate?)

Needless to say if you meet an underage girl-RUN THE OTHER WAY!!!!!

[Hammerhead]

(02-15-2019 04:32 PM)womanapproacher Wrote:  

Yeah but how do you "go direct" then rather than just having a platonic conversation? I need to make it man to woman, it's not about her clothes and accessories, it's about her.

For direct I usually say "You seemed interesting so I figured I would come say hi." I prefer indirect though.

[womanapproacher]

(02-15-2019 04:59 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

Telltale signs of a girl being too young:
1)Way too responsive to your approach considering her attractiveness(an 18 year old 9/10 will be well aware of how she looks due to year of men trying to sleep with her, a 15 year old 9/10 has not been approached a lot by adult men)
2) She does not get sarcasm (This goes for all young people, the ability to detect sarcasm is only attained by age and experience)
3) She is not wearing make up, or has overused or incorrectly applied make up( again , experience)
4) She stumbles when you ask how old she is (THIS IS HUGE, PAY ATTENTION-young girls may want to hang out with an older man, they will lie about their age-press them-what year were you born?What is your sign?When did you graduate?)

Needless to say if you meet an underage girl-RUN THE OTHER WAY!!!!!

1. Not really encountered this, but I am only 8 months in

2. Not sure I agree with this, I got sarcasm from at least my mid teens, maybe a little earlier

3. I prefer chicks without makeup, but then I have also approached chicks with makeup who have turned out to be underaged

4. Mostly if I suspected age I would try to establish that early on by assumption stacking "You must go to college/uni, huh"

I have had it both ways. I've gone in thinking "You must be at least 17/18" and they've turned out to be 16 but then I've had "Shit, don't know how old but I've gotta say hi cause she's hot" and it turns out they are 24.

It's really, really hard to tell age in day game unless you want to "stalk" you're target for awhile, which is bad in itself.

(02-15-2019 08:38 PM)Hammerhead Wrote:  

(02-15-2019 04:32 PM)womanapproacher Wrote:  

Yeah but how do you "go direct" then rather than just having a platonic conversation? I need to make it man to woman, it's not about her clothes and accessories, it's about her.

For direct I usually say "You seemed interesting so I figured I would come say hi." I prefer indirect though.

I have never been quite sure what qualifies for "direct" but I always associated it with physical compliments.

I did used to use that opener but I felt it was somewhat lacking in boldness.

Indirect just doesn't sit well with me, I'd prefer to be clear with my intentions.