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I have a long dryspell--I'm breaking this streak!
02-03-2019, 07:08 AM
I actually had the time of my life tonight, I'm a bit tired so I'll keep it brief.
I got promoted at work so I was celebrating... I have not celebrated and partied this much in about half a year or so. It was so much fun, as cliched as it may sound. I was not focusing on pickup at all. I believe it's counter-productive to think cognizant of pick up too much on night out.Summary follows:
I left the first daygame spot having only done several sets. I went to another coffee shop, and talked to some girls. No results, but that's ok. I had a nice glass of wine and worked on my instagram, which is getting really good.
To celebrate my success at work, I went barhopping.
Bar 1: Had a shot, looked in terror at the meth addict bartender/ tranny, and hoped I wouldn't get shot-- fun.
Bar 2: Had one rum and ate dinner. Hope I don't get sick.
Bar 3: Had a nice half-bottle of Spanish wine, and took a moment to enjoy the simple things in life, and the beautiful tattooed bartender.
Club 1: Show up decently buzzed, and decide to smoke. I'm just having fun.. Talk to several sets, and eject because of bad vibes... Have so much fun dancing with several pretty girls. One of the girls was just grinding all over me while dancing to country western, and I just had so much fun living in the moment... Pickup doesn't have to become an obsession. I just had so much fun, but I was acting outcome independent. I don't know if you guys have heard of dancefloor jealousy game (basically where you have one or several targets you talked to, and you danced with them one, or none times and moved on) but, holy shit is it powerful. You get so many IOIs when you start having fun.
Club 2: Get some drinks in me. Approach several sets. I feel so fucking positive. Dance on the dancefloor. Enjoy conversation with friends. Talk shit. Great, even though I have no results. Dancing on the dancefloor and even the bad vibes of the girls can't get me down.
Bar 4: Run into all these old friends I know, feels like a mixture of Fight Club and Cheers. One of those types of bars. Have the time of my life connecting with all these people I know. I'm just so fucking elated... I have all the time in the world for daygame.
Strip club: I'm still happy and I go to the strip club. I meet this beautiful black girl (I'm white and not normally into black girls), and I'm just amazed by all the beauty God put on this earth. I know this sounds beta, but I told her she was beautiful, not normally my type, but I fucking love her because she is an artist by her training. I actually believe her and her story checks out from my knowledge of the world.
This is where it gets funny: I'm digging this black girl so much I see these two black guys, and I decide I want to cockblock (maybe not the right word) them, because I'm really attracted to this girl. Anyway, I'm not a bad person so I take this dude a beer and introduce myself to him, and say, hey, I'm really attracted to this girl because it's a big day for me. I just shoot the shit with this random guy and his buddy and find out we all have these similar interests. I end up chilling with them, and then going to get some dances from the black girl. They end up taking me home, and I'm just elated. I'm outcome independent and happy. This black girl I took her info and even if it doesn't materialize into a date, I'm happy.
God's green earth is freaking beautiful and I don't have to game consciously every night.
This is what I needed. This guy is a minor instagram star/ actor in decent roles. The reason I met him is just because I was having fun. Need to be more spontaneous from now on.
edit: ran into a stripper I knew at second club, she greeted me by name. Shoot, I should have taken her number at that point... She remembered all the details of our last interaction. I don't want to call myself racist, but normally not into black girls. But, I have stopped looking at porn and jerking off for about a full week. I don't know about forum opinions of other races, not trying to start a flame war, but after stopping porn and jerking off, black girls are fucking beautiful. Beautiful human beings. I will text the stripper tom. because I got her number and try to meet up with her. Great night!. I'm starting to believe all vagina is beautiful. Maybe that makes me a philanthropist. I'm blessed with all these beautiful women whether they are at coffee shops, bars, clubs, restaurants, or strip clubs. I'm starting to understand what abundance mentality means. I'm not even picturing these women in sexual ways, despite no fap... It's just so much more fun to talk with them and connect with them... Note: also worked on my kino and shit talking tonight.
I will daygame tomorrow if I'm not hungover... I just feel so freaking positive. Fuck porn, live life.
I don't know if strip clubs are a sensitive subject on the forum or not, but I just notice so many positive improvements in my life from going to the strip club and talking to these girls, shooting the shit and complimenting them. This has been so helpful to my game, even though i know they kinda work there, and have to listen. In the past month or two, I just feel so much more confident, but it is difficult to quantify it. As someone somewhere between beginner-intermediate gaming, it has eased so much of my anxiety and helped me with real world approaches. I'm not trying to get in the habit of going to strip clubs, but holy shit, i know exactly what the endgame of women is there.
I'm still young and crazy so I wouldn't mind dating a stripper if it happens naturally. Finally, any advise on stripper game guys-- I'm still pretty green at game, but having the time of my life I really like strippers, but then again I've never dated one.
Apologies if I muddled my thoughts or my approach log.
Namaste bitches!