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Going Redpilll Today
12-02-2018, 01:16 AM
Pretty depressed with how my life is going.
I've decided to try some new things, going to try to force/robot myself because a lot of these go against my lazy urges:
1. Sleep earlier
2. Get up and workout first thing
3. Quite using social media and my phone in general so much
4. In free time work on work, cleaning, etc (instead of gaming and stuff)
5. Be more confident/outgoing/put up with bullshit less
6. Stop masturbating
7. Eat less+eat healthier
Got any other suggestions? Wish me luck.
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Going Redpilll Today
12-02-2018, 01:22 AM
Pace yourself with the self improvement, all that is good stuff but this shit doesn't happen overnight. It is a long term struggle, you will slip from time to time, be ready for it, good luck
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Going Redpilll Today
12-02-2018, 02:05 AM
That’s good stuff, buddy. I was there for a few years for myself, but luckily I’ve been out of it and doing really well for about 5 years now. Hang in there. In my experience consistent effort was the key. Make yourself do these things for 6 months and one day you will realize that something like NOT going to the gym with fuck your day up. If I can do it then so can you. And #5 usually comes along with the rest.
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Going Redpilll Today
12-02-2018, 05:26 AM
Good luck on this new road bro.
I wouldn't go all in since the first moment because usually people stop doing it in 2-3 weeks, when lack of motivation appears
I would start doing one or two things on the list and whenever you feel totally ok doing it (1 month or so) you add one or two more. If you do this you can focus totally in change some areas of your mindset and when you don't feel like doing it you can force yourself easily. This is like diet, if suddenly you change totally your habits probably you will fail. That is why most of the people fail dieting, they start so motivated but in 1-2 months (or even less) they eat bad again because the discipline is the key and if you change your whole world...most likely you wont be able to force yourself to do everything.
However is just my opinion and how would i do that
Good luck
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Going Redpilll Today
12-02-2018, 06:46 AM
Read "Awaken The Giant Within". It really helps in trying to re-wire your mind to have positive values and references that help you achieve your goals consistently. The idea of using pain & pleasure as motivation can also give you ideas on how to keep up with your list until all the things become habits.
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Going Redpilll Today
12-02-2018, 07:32 AM
Your forget about most important part: Learning Game and approaching girls.
Only three ways to do something: "The right way. The wrong way. Or my way. Obviously my way is best."
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Going Redpilll Today
12-02-2018, 11:40 AM
Inner Game , Inner Game . here list of books for inner game :
1- The Rational Male
2-The Rational Male-Positive Musicality
3- The manual
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Going Redpilll Today
12-10-2018, 02:40 PM
Also - Every day do one thing that you usually procrastinate:
Approach, work out, read, walk, see a place you haven't seen, call someone you wanted to talk to.
Or write.
"I love a fulfilling and sexual relationship. That is why I make the effort to have many of those" - TheMaleBrain
"Now you see that evil will always triumph because good is dumb." - Spaceballs
"If you strike me down, I shall become more powerful than you could possibly imagine" - Obi-Wan Kenobi
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Going Redpilll Today
12-11-2018, 01:49 AM
1) As others have alluded to...Don't beat yourself up when you fail, accept it happened, learn what you can from it, and continue on in the right direction.
2) YOU HAVE TO TAKE CHANCES. Get out of your comfort zone and feel some pain.
3) Get into some sort of martial art. More specifically, get into something MMAish, be it MMA itself, boxing, Muay Thai, bjj, wrestling, judo. It's an uncomfortable opinion for some, but there's nothing more that identifies with masculine essence than violent capacity. Not only will it get you physically where you need to be at, there's nothing that gives you the proper mindset for life than a little violence. I'll even take this a step further and be more specific, you can choose whichever you want to do, but at the very least, you must do 1 striking art with sparring AND wrestling. While you don't get punched in the face with wrestling, it's grueling in its own right, and in a lot of ways it's the most grueling. But you need to do something with striking (with actual sparring) to get these mental benefits. I love jiu-jitsu, it's fun, but if you ever go to a MMA gym or any gym that has striking vs. BJJ there is definitely a different mentality with the guys that do striking. In most these gyms, pretty much all the guys that do striking have also done or currently do some grappling (wrestling, BJJ). The reverse is not true.
4) Go to Boldanddetermined.com. He's got some good stuff on good habits for men.
5) In essence, don't fixate on the mental stuff too much. DO the things that you need to do and the mental stuff will happen naturally. After all, being a man isn't about spending all your time in self philosophical debate, it's about taking action. DO, DO, DO, FAIL, ASSESS WITHOUT OVERDOING IT, DO, DO, FAIL, REASSESS, DO, FAIL, REASSESS, DO, DO, DO, DO, DO, SUCCEED.
Civilize the mind but make savage the body.