[pros80]

Ok so here is what happened , after my coed volleyball game a bunch of the group decided to go to a bar and have drinks.

I wasn't really gaming any of them or wanted to pursue them out right but there were two girls on the group. One was 30 years old had a fit body but a sorta manly face like a lot of DC american women.

She was loud the whole time, and even talked about dick sizes of guys she dated, mostly to get a rise out of people and get guys giving her attention.

She asked me about myself but then doesn't let me finish and cuts me off rudley to talk about other irrelevant stuff. One guy is glued to her getting all excited about her sexual comments.

I finally respond by saying she's too much for guys jokingly. Then she barks

"Thats me take it or leave it you can like the way I am or not I don't need to change for anyone".

I responded by saying "Its cool a lot of guys like u that way" sarcastically. She gave me a dirty look then the whole convo sorta died down.


Why does this 30 year old Dc woman who is single think she doesn't need to change and can continue to be the obnoxious woman she is? ?

What else could I have said to put her in her place???

[Caligula]

Don't even worry about it. She's a lost cause. What do you have to gain from putting her in her place?

[Chad Daring]

Because she's thirty, and single, and living in DC. As much of a bitch as she is with her man-face she's probably got a handful of lame ass dudes who take her shit with a smile just to have a chance to get her alone.

[el mechanico]

I'm going to torture them on POF for the next month and try to do my part to level the playing field for you guys.

New online game. All online game guys swamp one city at a time and shit talk and flake to make the actual guys there seem like good catches.

[Screwston]

Mechanico give me the DC zip code you're working with when u start that

[MikeCF]

(10-05-2011 06:14 PM)pros80 Wrote:  

She was loud the whole time, and even talked about dick sizes of guys she dated, mostly to get a rise out of people and get guys giving her attention.

I've made women like her cry.

How?

Easy. But if you have to ask, you're not the guy to pull it off.

I'd have said: "Wow. Sounds hot. SO which if these guys [gesturing] are you going to take home tonight?"

She wouldn't have given a straight answer. Then I'd have said, "You should have a competition. Make them compete for you."

This makes her look like a miserable slut, and it guts all of her beta orbiters. You've put them on the spot, exposing them as desperate fools.

[Magnum]

I finally respond by saying she's too much for guys jokingly. Then she barks

"Thats me take it or leave it you can like the way I am or not I don't need to change for anyone".

Just reply "Well,I see you are thirty and still single,how's being yourself working out?

[Deluge]

(10-05-2011 11:53 PM)Magnum Wrote:  

I finally respond by saying she's too much for guys jokingly. Then she barks

"Thats me take it or leave it you can like the way I am or not I don't need to change for anyone".

Just reply "Well,I see you are thirty and still single,how's being yourself working out?

That will just make you look like an asshole. MikeCF's is the better option.

[MikeCF]

(10-05-2011 11:53 PM)Magnum Wrote:  

I finally respond by saying she's too much for guys jokingly. Then she barks

"Thats me take it or leave it you can like the way I am or not I don't need to change for anyone".

Just reply "Well,I see you are thirty and still single,how's being yourself working out?

That's catty.

If you want to be alpha (and, truth is, I don't hang around people like the OP mentioned), then you need to take control of the situation.

How do you do that? You become the director, and the people become your actors/pawns.

This takes skill, but when you do it right, you end up in control of the situation, and able of manipulating it for your own amusement without seeming like a cunt.

If a girl is going on about sexual partners, another way is taking her all the way towards absurdity. Make her feel like a slut while grossing the betas out.

"Sounds awesome. So how many guys do you think you've been with?"

Throw in some feminist themes, "It's bullshit that women and men have a double standard about partners. It's cool that you're not ashamed of your notch count."

Be COOL when you say this. I can give a guy lines, but can't teach him the music.

She won't know if you're fucking with her or not. She'll also have dissonance between her conscious and unconscious minds. She'll answer your questions yet feel like a slut.

Mind fuck.

[vinman]

(10-05-2011 11:53 PM)Magnum Wrote:  

I finally respond by saying she's too much for guys jokingly. Then she barks

"Thats me take it or leave it you can like the way I am or not I don't need to change for anyone".

Just reply "Well,I see you are thirty and still single,how's being yourself working out?

BAM!!! That's the type of sarcastic dick move that I love to pull. It's like they got hit with a bucket of ice water. First there's the shock, then the justification, and finally anger all in a 3 second time frame.

[Magnum]

Being catty is the whole point Mike.High status men don't tolerate shit from old hags like the one the OP described.She'll think you're an asshole? That's exactly how you should want it.

[Deluge]

(10-06-2011 04:58 AM)Magnum Wrote:  

Being catty is the whole point Mike.High status men don't tolerate shit from old hags like the one the OP described.She'll think you're an asshole? That's exactly how you should want it.

Being catty is beta. Mike's suggestion was pure alpha.