[Nomad77]

It's actually a vicious cycle. The fatter they get the lower their self-esteem and physical abilities the worse the sex. I have never met a fat girl that really liked herself or sex. Sure, they will do whatever you want to try and please you but that's more into S&M territory...

(08-05-2012 12:56 PM)brianmark Wrote:  

The quality of sex in the US has been in a steady decline for a long time. Girls/women don’t give a damn how they fuck their guys. They certainly aren’t watching any porn to learn anything.

It is interesting to hear that some guys think girls under 25 don’t know how to fuck, because I would have said that girls in the US reach their peak in sexual energy and abilities at this time. After that women get worse as they get older until they slide into menopause at about 40 something and most are all dried up.

My favorite position is girl on top driving and most aren’t worth a shit at it. I’d have to agree that dancers are some of few horny girls that are in touch with their bodies. It is a sad state of affairs with sex in America: now girls can’t fuck and they’re fat too!

[xmlenigma]

(08-05-2012 01:36 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Good sex, like dancing, requires two things: passion and skill. The reason most girls can't fuck is because they are not comfortable with their sexuality which creates a lack of passion or they don't have the skills aka virgin. Good sex with a girl is like dancing. You have to be in sync and you have to grooving. She has to be coming back at you. For her to do that she's has to give into the moment and let herself go. Few girls are sexual enough to do this. They are too worried about different things. A girl that's really good in bed is as rare as a really good dancer both require you to give yourself up to the moment AND have to the skills to make it enjoyable.

My 2nd and 3rd gfs were really good and they spoiled it for me. Had I never known them the rest of the girls would have been much more enjoyable.

If she has good rhythm and can dance well.. how she moves her hips.. She will be good.

I think the same applies to guys as well. Girls will like I guy who can groove.. and have good movement in bed as well.

[plague]

good thread, I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I don't even like the girl on top (probably because I've given up since most girls suck at it). so I just need her to lay there.

the problem is, most girls don't even know how to fucking lay there correctly.

most recently, I turned the girl around on my couch in order to do her from behind. she's got her arms over the back of the couch and is basically vertical. I can't really get in from this angle. I say "arch your back". she does the exact opposite, curving her back so that her vagina is almost pointing away from me now. I pull her back, throw her face down on the couch, lift her ass up, now we are in business.

every time I do her from behind, she does the same stupid shit. every time, I throw her face down on the couch. why is this so challenging? it's harder than training a puppy.

[soup]

Sex is the only honest communication between men and women. Everything else that happens between men and women is a lie or essentially meaningless.

[silent_scope]

(08-28-2012 08:47 PM)soup Wrote:  

Sex is the only honest communication between men and women. Everything else that happens between men and women is a lie or essentially meaningless.

Well damn, that about sums up how I feel after breaking up with the last LTR.

[Nomad77]

Being good at sex is like being good at anything else. It requires two things: you've got to love what you do and you've got to acquire some skills. To find a woman that both loves sex and have some skills is essentially like winning the lottery. What I can say is that certain cultures/countries produces a greater number of them e.g. Brasil.

[Timoteo]

(12-11-2012 09:30 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Being good at sex is like being good at anything else. It requires two things: you've got to love what you do and you've got to acquire some skills. To find a woman that both loves sex and have some skills is essentially like winning the lottery. What I can say is that certain cultures/countries produces a greater number of them e.g. Brasil.

Yes. Brazilians embrace sexuality so that makes all the difference.

[Nomad77]

True, cultures that embrace and promote sexuality tends to produce better lovers. Puerto Rico and Hungary also produces some good stuff. In general, Europeans and Americans girls need to have to have some chemical assistance to reach their potential. Lots of guys are into Asian chicks and they are great if you are into subs (S&M). I usually can tell whether a girl will be good sexually or not before I have sex with her. I pay very close attention to how she react and respond to my touch. By the time we get to a heavy makeout I can be fairly sure of what she will be like in bed. A lot of times, I have turned down the notch because I didn't think the girl would be good. Sometimes, I've gone ahead anyway just to see if I was wrong but so far I've always been right.

[Doulos2Game]

What hurts the most is when you get a really hot girl, you are thinking "I am going to have the best sex in my life" then she turns out to be a fucking fish. Proceed with Bang, Bust, Get the fuck out of my house.

Now I do believe you can train a girl, I'm going to work on my next experiment with a 7 I am currently fucking. I will report back with techniques used and progress.

She is currently not that bad, but not a sex god either. I already taught her the proper doggy style position. She was not placing her legs correctly. She was placing her knees further back than her ass. It was hard to pound her doggy. I thought to myself, this girl has probably had anyone tell her how to do things because most guys will be intimidated and not wanting to piss her off. Well I am not most guys. I told her "put your legs up further more and your ass back a little more". Before you know it I went in and busted 5 minutes later all over her back. It was magical, the perfect ending to her first training section. Her future partners can thank me later.

[Timoteo]

(12-11-2012 10:00 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:  

What hurts the most is when you get a really hot girl, you are thinking "I am going to have the best sex in my life" then she turns out to be a fucking fish. Proceed with Bang, Bust, Get the fuck out of my house.

Now I do believe you can train a girl, I'm going to work on my next experiment with a 7 I am currently fucking. I will report back with techniques used and progress.

She is currently not that bad, but not a sex god either. I already taught her the proper doggy style position. She was not placing her legs correctly. She was placing her knees further back than her ass. It was hard to pound her doggy. I thought to myself, this girl has probably had anyone tell her how to do things because most guys will be intimidated and not wanting to piss her off. Well I am not most guys. I told her "put your legs up further more and your ass back a little more". Before you know it I went in and busted 5 minutes later all over her back. It was magical, the perfect ending to her first training section. Her future partners can thank me later.

If a woman truly likes sex, but is just inexperienced, you can open her up and teach her some things. As she gets more comfortable with you, she can let herself go. Some chicks aren't really into sex, so they just lay there and let you do your thing. Not a lot of hope for those. It's been said here before - many guys would rather have a very enthusiastic 6 or 7 than a hot looking 9 that can't fuck.

[Doulos2Game]

Oh this one is open to learning. She likes to swallow all the time.

I wouldn't waste my time on a chick I know is not into sex much. She will probably marry some beta guy that will have to jerk off or pay for better sex. Being alpha gives us the comfort to let go of a 8 or 9 simply because she is not good fucking.

[billy]

Very recently I kind of worked out that I only really enjoy fucking a girl who likes it rough, if I can't slap a girl HARD, pull her hair and call her a filthy slut etc its kind of boring. I can remember one girl who liked being punched choked and brutalised to a scary level and I loved it. For that reason the fact that most girls are shit in bed does not bother me as all I want to hear is that she likes to get hit hard. All this long drawn out hour long sex thing bores me I would rather bang 3 or 4 times for less than ten minutes each time than drag it out in two one hour long bang.

[TheMan]

(10-06-2011 07:53 PM)jariel Wrote:  

You can tell someone what to do, doesn't mean they'll do it correctly, so it's really not that simple.

Furthermore, number of partners doesn't correlate to being good at sex either.

Being good in bed starts with the right mentality, and that mentality is to be as animalistic and free-flowing as possible, people are aroused by all kinds of shit that don't necessarily arouse them in conscious thought -- lay in a bed with a latina and talk about "incesto" just once, you'll hear her pussy squeaking like the parque at the old Boston Garden in no time -- unfortunately, most girls don't even bother to tap into what really tuns us on.

Ultimately, that's why most are more slutty than sexy, they can't distinguish between the two.

Fact

[TheMan]

(10-12-2011 09:41 PM)houston Wrote:  

I'm telling y'all you need to talk dirty to these bitches and make them work on your dick. Say it like you mean it and watch what happens. You see how those porn stars talk to the sluts and ddemand things.

Got a post on how to?

[lush1]

In my very limited experience I have noticed that girls that do the whole raunchy dancing thing are the worst at fucking. Anyone else notice this?

[Screwston]

(12-12-2012 01:30 PM)TheMan Wrote:  

(10-12-2011 09:41 PM)houston Wrote:  

I'm telling y'all you need to talk dirty to these bitches and make them work on your dick. Say it like you mean it and watch what happens. You see how those porn stars talk to the sluts and ddemand things.

Got a post on how to?

Just say whatever nasty things on your mind but say it like you mean it. Pull the shit out of her hair if she starts laughing and ask her what the fuck she's laughing at.

[snoop]

The problem may not be that they aren't good at sex, but that they aren't good at sex with you.

Most of the best sexual experiences of my life invovled someone that was more than a one night/weekend thing. Sometimes you run into someone you have the right chemistry with immediately and it all clicks, but that is just random luck IMO and the result of a numbers game.

I think of it like playing a team sport. I tend to play my best with the people I have played with the most. Every once in a while I'll have someone new on my team and there is no drop off, but most of the time that isn't the case.

[_GQ_]

Most guys can't fuck either.

[TheMan]

(12-11-2012 10:00 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:  

What hurts the most is when you get a really hot girl, you are thinking "I am going to have the best sex in my life" then she turns out to be a fucking fish. Proceed with Bang, Bust, Get the fuck out of my house.

Now I do believe you can train a girl, I'm going to work on my next experiment with a 7 I am currently fucking. I will report back with techniques used and progress.

She is currently not that bad, but not a sex god either. I already taught her the proper doggy style position. She was not placing her legs correctly. She was placing her knees further back than her ass. It was hard to pound her doggy. I thought to myself, this girl has probably had anyone tell her how to do things because most guys will be intimidated and not wanting to piss her off. Well I am not most guys. I told her "put your legs up further more and your ass back a little more". Before you know it I went in and busted 5 minutes later all over her back. It was magical, the perfect ending to her first training section. Her future partners can thank me later.

Perfect thread idea

[thegmanifesto]

(12-19-2012 11:08 AM)_GQ_ Wrote:  

Most guys can't fuck either.

Whoa!

How many guys have you been with?

Actually, nevermind. Don't answer that.

---







(This was a joke).

[_GQ_]

Forgot to add no homo dammit.

[Prophylaxis]

A man who doesn't know how to properly dominate a submissive woman in bed, will think she's a starfish/can't fuck. Yes there ARE women who are horrible at fucking or lack energy, but I believe this number isn't as high as you guys are making it out to be. Women need to be controlled and trained - you don't like their style of head- fucking tell them! You want them to talk dirty - you initiate it! Work on completely dominating them and i'm sure you'll find most girls CAN fuck.

On a side-note - you have to be completely in lust with the girl to be unleashed. Without your inherent drive, you are leaving it in the woman's hands, and most girls certainly can't fuck if they are in charge.

[XXL]

You can't expect random girls to be all down for some shit with total stranger. It takes some work to bring the girl's adventurous side to the surface. That has to be done way before any intimacy happens.

I personally work the girl up by setting up honest expectations, being nonjudgmental and making her comfortable at the same time. For instance..

I express my tastes and views saying for example that a girl who's weird and uptight about sex feels like 14 years old little kid to me, that I know that every girl dreams about good spontaneous fucking, that girls are much more horny than guys are, that resistance doesn't upset me but it turns me off, etc. I talk about how I love horny nymphos, I tell very bluntly that my GF has to fuck me 2-3x day everyday, I tell that a girl has to be slutty bitchy nymphomaniac fucking whore in bed [this is no joke I tell exactly that] and I love that kind of girls the most, I tell that I love girls' fantasies and talk about a > BOOK < about it, etc.

First of all that kind of talk makes you a guy a different breed of a man instantly. No guy talks so openly being so chill and normal like that so you're the top 1% already. Second thing is that by appreciating/embracing her sexuality you give her a green light to act like that [carrot method, validating desired behavior makes a person act accordingly to get more of that validation]. Third thing is that you make her very comfortable with you as you let it out there first. She knows what to expect so there's no weird trying to feel each others out during sex. If you can be a little bit more patient and engage her in that conversation and let her process that then you set yourself up for some really good fucking, maybe not the first time [although it will be much better now] but the next ones are going to be great.

[akp55]

(10-07-2011 12:19 AM)pitt Wrote:  

And you forgot to mention that most of girls dont know how to suck a dick. This is the reason why i want to keep a girl as a long term fuck buddy when she knows how to suck a dick. The nastier she is, the better, specially when they will swallow your cum without any problem. I have only met two women that truly could suck a dick, one just sucked my dick, i didnt get to fuck her (she was 46 and she was really really good at it) and the other one was 17, she was really good too, this last one took me a while to fuck her and after i fucked her, she still only wanted to suck my dick when we met. I think the girls that suck good specialise themselves in sucking dick, they may not give you their pussy, but they will certainly suck you dick.

this depends the chick, i knew this one chick in college that would pretty much let anyone fuck her.... but she would only blow guys she really wanted to get with, kinda strange

[Ingocnito]

(10-05-2011 12:22 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

... Even the girl I'm seeing now... while better than 90% of the girls out there... still sucks in the sack comparatively. Women who really know what they're doing use their hips, arch their back, gyrate or move with your rhythm and give incredible blow jobs. I'd say close to 99% of the women out there don't know what the fuck they're doing when they're sucking your dick. There are a million things they do wrong... they don't use enough pressure, don't know what to do with their tongue, don't use their hands, can't deep throat (or don't try), only play with the tip, spend too much time on the balls...

Agreed. I was spoiled with my first GF in high school who the set the BJ benchmark for the rest of my live. She gave incredible blowjobs.. She could do all the above mentioned and it got to the point where I preferred BJ's to other sex with her.

She was no slacker fucking either, and took it real well from behind and rode on top with aggression and a snarled lip (lol), yet her shit talk was sub-par and not sure if it was something about the age or what put her pussy was kinda creamy a lot rather than watery wet. So I rarely went down on her even after telling her she need to address that shit.

She'd get yeast infections a few times a year and I think the overall creaminess was associated with that so too bad for her. I love fucking gymnasts.