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Why do girls makeout with guys
#1

Why do girls makeout with guys

That they dont like? I mean I've had lots of passionate makeout sessions with girls in bars and dancefloors that never respond to my messages. I dont understand why they even bother to makeout with me if they dont like me enough to even respond? Is it just a spur of the moment thing, right place right time?..also most of the girls aren't even drunk so it's not the alcohol. Anyone else have the same issues.
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#2

Why do girls makeout with guys

Girls get testosterone from the saliva when they kiss guys, and it makes them feel excited--like a rush, or roller coaster ride.

They're just using you man, stop kissing them, and get your game better.

Improve yourself.
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#3

Why do girls makeout with guys

In my experience it's enough attraction but not enough comfort/trust/rapport built if they're making out but flaking afterwards. In the moment they make out because it's fun. It's an emotional decision. Responding to plans is both emotional and logical. They have to convince themselves its worth their time to hang out with you.

Take the time to genuinely qualify them, build commonality, build a story together.

Sit down and write what you're looking for in a woman and start qualifying based on that criteria.

You gotta make it feel like it's her decision without making her feel like a slut. Lead and steer.
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#4

Why do girls makeout with guys

Get it out of your head that kissing is a big deal to girls. It isn't.

On a date I can just about always escalate things to kissing if I choose to. I've literally never had a kiss attempt rejected or non-reciprocated in my entire life. But the majority of those girls end up being 'super busy' in the following days/weeks and I typically never see them again. Because kissing is not a big deal to the modern woman.

Only time you should bank on seeing a girl again is if you fucked her. Until then, she's evaluating you [not entirely consciously] with a level of scrutiny you couldn't imagine.
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#5

Why do girls makeout with guys

Because they like a tasty little free sample but they don't wanna buy a whole bag. You're like costco to them.
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#6

Why do girls makeout with guys

I think it's a different time nowadays. Getting a number or a make out used to mean something back in the day and that's why you can see that they used terms like "number close" and "kiss close" because back in 2005ish there was actually somewhat of a decent chance that you could get the girl out on a date afterwards.

But it's not even like a bang matters much anymore to many of these modern girls, it's not seldom they won't reply after sex either. Some of these girls are even more players than some guys I know.

I've noticed a big difference in this just in the last 4 years and I guess it has to do with women's options through especially Tinder.

Night club make outs are more about validation than anything else for women.
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#7

Why do girls makeout with guys

It's just validation. The makeout proves that they are attractive and that's all they were interested in.

Your just a pawn in their selfish game of proving to themselves that they're attractive on the outside because they're dead on the inside.
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#8

Why do girls makeout with guys

Maybe improve your kissing skills...

...Just kidding.

Kiss only as a last resort, only when atrraction and comfort are well placed, and don't kiss/makeout too much, go for the bang instead, play with her head not with her tongue, put her crazy and craving for more from you.

If not possible to bang that night, get her contact and meet her some other day. No point in wasting your night with a makeout that will lead nowhere.
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#9

Why do girls makeout with guys

These days girls that you meet in clubs and at parties are probably out doing it every weekend.

If you're on the dance floor and get a make-out with a girl with relatively little effort, she has most likely made out with guys with little to no investment hundreds if not thousands of times.

These girls like the attention of a guy trying to bang them, they get dressed up and go to clubs with their friends to drink and have a good time basking in the almost unlimited supply of male thirst.

If you're an average guy who passes her initial attraction assessment, she'll let you approach her, she'll entertain some action on the dance floor and might even move somewhere with you and let you get a little bit more.

At the end of the night if all you are getting with a girl you met while doing night-game is a make-out session, her chances of increasing her investment in following up with you over the phone is very low.

If you aren't moving her somewhere else and escalating past the public make-out, don't expect the initial attraction she had for you to keep the seduction alive past that night. If you have a girl engaged, keep on trying to escalate and strike while the iron is hot to increase your chances.

Even if you venue change her and only progress to some fingering before logistics get in the way, you are still exponentially increasing the chances that you will be able to game her more past that night.
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#10

Why do girls makeout with guys

Quote: (11-19-2018 09:13 AM)Rocha Wrote:  

Maybe improve your kissing skills...

...Just kidding.

Kiss only as a last resort, only when atrraction and comfort are well placed, and don't kiss/makeout too much, go for the bang instead, play with her head not with her tongue, put her crazy and craving for more from you.

If not possible to bang that night, get her contact and meet her some other day. No point in wasting your night with a makeout that will lead nowhere.

Rocha is dead on here as well and something I was trying to touch on.

If you aren't able to progress with a girl during night game, number close and move on. This is a numbers game and you don't want to waste too much time on a girl that is clearly out there just for validation.

Once you get the makeout, progress to trying to fuck her by building rapport/comfort, venue changing and showing her that you are a dominant guy that is in control.

If she just wants to stay around the dance floor, hang out near her friends or sit around and drink at the bar... she's there for the validation and you should number-close and move on to some more receptive pussy.
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#11

Why do girls makeout with guys

^Agreed until the fingering part.

Don't ever do that, is low class, thirsty, desperate, no pleasure involved for the guy, and kills her sex drive most of the time. You want that pussy wet for your dick to get in, not for your fingers.
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#12

Why do girls makeout with guys

Quote: (11-18-2018 09:36 PM)Axel99 Wrote:  

That they dont like? I mean I've had lots of passionate makeout sessions with girls in bars and dancefloors that never respond to my messages. I dont understand why they even bother to makeout with me if they dont like me enough to even respond? Is it just a spur of the moment thing, right place right time?..also most of the girls aren't even drunk so it's not the alcohol. Anyone else have the same issues.

Because it's safe and fun. You don't have to confirm because it's just a makeout. Don't take it personally. Girls want to be stimulated when they go out. They'll make out with multiple guys sometimes. It's just their nature in the west.

You're better off not taking this personally because it's going to eat at you. This has nothing to do with you personally. Just better your game and treat it like a business. You lose some girls, you win some.
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#13

Why do girls makeout with guys

You’re lucky to get a text reply after first date anal these days. Kissing is meaningless.

Team Nachos
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#14

Why do girls makeout with guys

It's not a new thing and Mystery explained it very well almost 20 years ago. It's a common newbie mistake.
You're basically trying to skip the comfort stage. Heavy kissing has its place in the bedroom when you start undressing her, not in the attraction stage at the club.
After the make-out session her hamster starts spinning and she gets buyer's remorse, thinks that she's a slut and cuts all contact with you. Before you get her in bed, kissing should be brief and you should always be the one who ends it. Keep her wanting for more and she will chase you instead.
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#15

Why do girls makeout with guys

Quote: (11-19-2018 09:41 AM)Rocha Wrote:  

^Agreed until the fingering part.

Don't ever do that, is low class, thirsty, desperate, no pleasure involved for the guy, and kills her sex drive most of the time. You want that pussy wet for your dick to get in, not for your fingers.

I'm a fan of it in a pretty limited capacity because I like it for a stepping stone in my first time escalation with a girl... let me explain.

I try to funnel from making out to getting skin to skin contact (pulling up her shirt, playing with her tits while pulling her in to me), to sliding my hand between her panties and jeans, which is when I'll get a firm grip on her panties and pull her in to me (i sort of grab the waistline of her panties and twist them some to pull them tighter, while grabbing her pants in my fist and pulling her hip into mine).

At that point, she's sexually excited by the dominance displayed in escalating in a physically dominating way (i try to escalate in a way that conveys I am taking what I want, not like a kid trying to sneak from the cookie jar without mom noticing).

When I'm passionately making out with a girl I am keeping a firm grip on either the front inside of her hip (like move mentioned above) or her ass while pulling her into me, while pulling her hair or holding her jawline/neck with my other hand. Don't misinterpret this as aggressively pulling a girl in, but more of keeping firm, dominant grips on her that subconsciously tell her you're the masculine and she's the feminine.

I progress my way into making out with her and sliding my hand toward the front of her pants (usually while keeping my thumb or ring & middle fingers inside her panties) and then into her panties to rub her pussy. When you're at that point and she is not resisting you, you are game to unbutton her pants and unzip them while still working on rubbing the pussy. At this point, it is time for reciprocal removal of clothes and transitioning into fucking her.

Too many guys have a habit of pussyfooting around when escalating with a girl... A girl wants to give in to a strong guy, not a guy who gingerly tries to feel his way around to doing what he thinks is gonna be accepted by her.

If you're making out and trying to jam your hand into her pants to finger her pussy as a means of giving her pleasure to convince her to fuck you, you're doing it wrong. When it's just a small part of the larger process (i may play with her pussy for about 30 seconds - 2 minutes), it is a good and reliable transition that primes her for sex.
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#16

Why do girls makeout with guys

First thing that came to mind:

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On a serious note, I agree with everybody saying that it's just not such a big deal for many women. They think you're cute, they've had a bit to drink, it's their "wild thing" for the night. That's my speculation.

As for whether to kiss or not, I've only had one instance where I made out and didn't get the bang the same night. And even there it could have ended differently if I played it right after we left the club. In any case, you have to read the situation, is she playing or is she interested?

As a reference, Todd says in a video that if you're a newbie it's a good idea to go all in but once you get to the advanced stage you should hold back.

If it won't matter in 30 years, it doesn't matter now.

My thoughts and memoirs: yourfriendtrent.wordpress.com
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#17

Why do girls makeout with guys

To ask the question is to answer it; you already know that kissing means nothing to a bitch and is not even an indicator that you've got a good chance at banging her. So the only question you should be asking yourself if what you're going to do with that information.

As an aside, you should be able to tell by the making out itself if it's going to go anywhere or not.

Cold, not a lot of tongue, not pressing against your body or touching you?

Not into it.

This shit aint rocket surgery.

"Does PUA say that I just need to get to f-close base first here and some weird chemicals will be released in her brain to make her a better person?"
-Wonitis
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#18

Why do girls makeout with guys

Reminds me of my thread from a while back, concerning a certain date where I finally had to tackle that reality where such a thing as a makeout simply doesn't mean anything to her, yet occurred for what could've been several reasons. For so many dudes it's so easy and natural to append too high a value to these 'passionate' events, so the best one can do is to train oneself to appraise the makeout, etc. the same way she does.
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#19

Why do girls makeout with guys

If a makeout isnt a true ioi, then What would you guys say is the best indicator that shes really likes you and is down to meet up for a date.
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#20

Why do girls makeout with guys

If I got sex for every makeout at the club I would have hundreds and hundreds of sexual partners. Go to Brazil if you really want to be confused by girls making out with you then ghosting.

I have met a woman (She was an Miami 8.5)at a nightclub, taken her home that night , fucked her like a madman in every hole, spent the night with her and let her sleep over, woke up and fucked her all day , smoked out and chilled before sending her home in an Uber- She never returned my text.

I met a hot bitch in Wynwood (a solid Miami 7 with a fake ass) with her own place. She took me there and we had sex as soon as we got there. After a couple hours she had to "meet friends" at club E11even at 5 am so I took Uber home. She did not return my text.

I was with two RVF members in Atlanta last year in Buckhead on a Saturday, a cute little 6.5-7/10 bought me shots and took advantage of me later in her friends apartment....... She did not text me back, I am so ashamed (#RVFtoo)

EDIT:I am not Iron Man Dark Triad, I am not ashamed to admit that I really wanted that Miami 8.5 to answer my text-That bitch was bad as hell.

The point is it is not the 1990's anymore-women are bigger whores than ever giving anal sex out like candy, making out is like shaking hands.

Delicious Tacos is the voice of my generation....
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#21

Why do girls makeout with guys

It's not a big deal for women and even less of a deal for men. It's FUN. Have FUN. If all you're after is the 5 second feel of blowing your load in an overly tight condom then you don't even need the company of women for that.

p.s. most of the girls ARE drunk, or at least tipsy, because this doesn't happen in the daytime (when it's not part of something more).
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#22

Why do girls makeout with guys

@Trent W. I think it has something to do with newbies not knowing other ways of showing interest/escalating else than kissing, while advanced players can stimulate her sexually by alternating between turning her on verbally/non-verbally.

A wise man once said, open her mind first, then open her legs. So if you play it right and know how to keep eye contact a certain way and touch her a certain way, you will make that pussy wet before even touching it. You will be fucking her twice. Once at the club and once at your place.

But i agree with most people here, nowadays kissing doesn't mean anything. I've had a 8/10 girl on a date. Brunette, dancer only had one boyfriend. We had a fantastic time, one of the best dates ever, we were vibing and had a strong connection. She said all the right things. Sometimes i see dates as a chore to screen for girls, and it gets repetitive and boring, but i genuinely enjoyed this one because it felt natural and we had a lot in common. We walked and talked for 2 hours and right before the date was about to end she looked at me with a sad face and said "You know...im really sad you had to come into my life at this bad timing, i wish we could have met earlier, you're one of the most interesting guys i've ever met". She was going to China for 6 months to work at a dance school, as a teacher. It was a Wednesday, and i knew i had 2 days before she was flying out in the weekend. So by playing it "safe" and not wanting to scare the cat away by pushing for sex on the first date i let a good opportunity slip. Back then i thought you were a gentleman for waiting, but i learned a valuable lesson now, that you have to strike while the iron is hot. If she's sexually attracted at this certain moment, take your chances and escalate the furthest you can.

Instead, i was a fool and settled with a kiss, hoping i would invite her over for another date Friday night and seal the day, because i thought "she isn't that kind of girl, she would never put out on a first date". I texted her to set up a second date but unfortunately, she never returned my text. The next thing i see on her social media profile is that she's on the plane to her 6 months adventure somewhere on the other side of the world. It's a shame, but i always saw it as she was just in a busy stage in life and didn't have time for any commitment, hence why she said it was a bad timing i got into her life and i missed the clue to move it to the next level right there and then. You live and learn, right?
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#23

Why do girls makeout with guys

Quote: (11-19-2018 11:30 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

If I got sex for every makeout at the club I would have hundreds and hundreds of sexual partners. Go to Brazil if you really want to be confused by girls making out with you then ghosting.

I have met a woman (She was an Miami 8.5)at a nightclub, taken her home that night , fucked her like a madman in every hole, spent the night with her and let her sleep over, woke up and fucked her all day , smoked out and chilled before sending her home in an Uber- She never returned my text.

I met a hot bitch in Wynwood (a solid Miami 7 with a fake ass) with her own place. She took me there and we had sex as soon as we got there. After a couple hours she had to "meet friends" at club E11even at 5 am so I took Uber home. She did not return my text.

I was with two RVF members in Atlanta last year in Buckhead on a Saturday, a cute little 6.5-7/10 bought me shots and took advantage of me later in her friends apartment....... She did not text me back, I am so ashamed (#RVFtoo)

EDIT:I am not Iron Man Dark Triad, I am not ashamed to admit that I really wanted that Miami 8.5 to answer my text-That bitch was bad as hell.

The point is it is not the 1990's anymore-women are bigger whores than ever giving anal sex out like candy, making out is like shaking hands.

#RVFToo

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#24

Why do girls makeout with guys

Quote: (11-20-2018 06:55 AM)firat113 Wrote:  

Brunette, dancer only had one boyfriend.

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#25

Why do girls makeout with guys

Quote: (11-21-2018 06:45 AM)JackinMelbourne Wrote:  

Quote: (11-20-2018 06:55 AM)firat113 Wrote:  

Brunette, dancer only had one boyfriend.

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Not an exotic dancer haha, she does ballet
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