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Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?
#26

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote:Polniy_Sostav Wrote:

Why do you guys refuse to get married ?

Refuse? As if marriage is the ONE RIGHT way, determined by God himself.

Quote:Polniy_Sostav Wrote:

Refusing to get married looks more to me like a lack of responsibility.

Responsibility for what?

Quote:Polniy_Sostav Wrote:

I believe we have the role to keep the traditions of our civilisations and make them great again.

When was civilization great? When did it stop being great?

Quote:Polniy_Sostav Wrote:

and kid

Trust me. You do not want me to produce a kid. It will be a monster.

Only three ways to do something: "The right way. The wrong way. Or my way. Obviously my way is best."
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#27

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

The usual way is to never take her into your home country.
If she has no right of entry, she can't use the US legal system.

Never reveal your assets or income to her either, and don't leave copies of your passport lying around.
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#28

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote: (11-16-2018 07:16 AM)John Dodds Wrote:  

The usual way is to never take her into your home country.
If she has no right of entry, she can't use the US legal system.

Never reveal your assets or income to her either, and don't leave copies of your passport lying around.
Why can't you have copies of your passport lying around? What difference does it make if she already knows your name (we are talking about a wife or long term GF i presume, not some random bar slut).
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#29

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Well, the problem is America is the best place to make money. I am 33 so I need to make more money here before I retire anywhere else and yes I do want to retire part of the year outside the USA but that wont be for a least a decade.

So I need to bring her back, as linked in my OP, I am considering moving out of America for a year starting July 2019, so I haven't met the girl yet.

I love the player lifestyle now in my 30's I get quality pussy at much greater ease than ever before. Smashing different hotties in one weekend is a thrill and I do not want it to end but.....this is thinking in the short term, by the time I'm 40 I think Ill be tired of it and then what start look to settle down then and have a teenage at 50 and be an old husband...that is not for me

I gotta think in the long term, my parents had me at 20 and 23 had many kids..I boxed with my dad as a teen and played soccer with my mom...these are my best memories. I wanna go on crazy adventures with my wife not just walks in the park. I wanna have 3 or 4 kids because sometime one or two are dumb, lol.

So I am already late, yea I can still DL hundreds, have a good vertical....but my body has started to wear ...the colony of viruses that I am are saying you had your time we made you strong to reproduce to move us to the next body, now what made you strong we'll use to kill you.
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#30

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Interesting post. I'd love to do the "visit every so often" but that seems like it is asking for it ... and how do you raise a family like that, anyway.
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#31

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

If you want to "marry" a foreign girl but live in the USA the only way around divorce laws that I know of is for her to immigrate on her own merits and then you shack up in a non-common law marriage jurisdiction. In Canada, you are fucked because even without a wedding or whatever, if you act like you are married for two years then all the support and property division laws that go along with divorce kick in, although she would not actually file for a divorce per se.

Depending on the jurisdiction, there can be legal ways to "hide" assets such that they are not considered marital property. Certain business assets can be excluded as well as an inheritance. One gambit involves paying off your parent's mortgage or buying them a summer home for when they retire, with the unspoken and paperless understanding that you will inherit it when they die. Otherwise, you need a prenuptial just like any other marriage-like relationship.

If you are trying to hide assets illegally then what is at least as important is to hide your income. I'm not saying this as a how-to guide but I spent 4 years as a divorce attorney, reresented both men and women, and saw all sorts of shenanigans. The hardest guys to pin down in terms of income are independent contractors and entrepreneurs who do a lot of cash business. Where they get caught is on the spending end if there is a paper trail, either of receipts or credit card statement, or assets that seem out of line with their stated income. I had one guy who ran a cash business and admitted to taking some of the money under the table, and then going oUT to dinner or on vacation with the wife and kids using the slush fund. The thing is, wifey claimed that he was skimming about triple of what he was willing to admit to and that difference would have amounted to thousands in additional support payments. On the other side I had a lady whose husband was a subcontractor who owned vatius pieces of heavy equipment. He obviously did cash jobs but it was incredibly hard to pin down what they amounted to or where the money went. Mysteriously, he was unaffected by the recession until she filed for divorce, and then his workload and income dropped by a third.

If a guy skimmed 20% of his gross in cash, converted into a portable hard asset like gold, diamonds or even $1000 bills without a paper trail, and then squirrel it away in a secure physical location, there would be fuck all I could have done as an attorney to track that down. He might get caught after the divorce if he is spending way beyond his reported means (a trope in many a heist or gangster movie) but that is about it.

Again, these are just my observations and you have to consult a lawyer in your own jurisdiction.

As a side note, I live in Mainland China and married a Filipina in Hong Kong. I didn't do specific research because I was never fretting about divorce rape but as far as I know 1) We can't get divorced in Hong Kong or Canada because we are not residents 2) we can't get divorced in China because neither of us are citizens nor permanent residents 3) We can't get divorced in the Philipinnes because - along with Vatican City - it is the only country in the world where there are no divorce laws. That's about as airtight as you can be to get married but not divorced.
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#32

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote: (11-17-2018 01:12 PM)LivingFossil Wrote:  

Well, the problem is America is the best place to make money. I am 33 so I need to make more money here before I retire anywhere else and yes I do want to retire part of the year outside the USA but that wont be for a least a decade.

So I need to bring her back, as linked in my OP, I am considering moving out of America for a year starting July 2019, so I haven't met the girl yet.

I love the player lifestyle now in my 30's I get quality pussy at much greater ease than ever before. Smashing different hotties in one weekend is a thrill and I do not want it to end but.....this is thinking in the short term, by the time I'm 40 I think Ill be tired of it and then what start look to settle down then and have a teenage at 50 and be an old husband...that is not for me

I gotta think in the long term, my parents had me at 20 and 23 had many kids..I boxed with my dad as a teen and played soccer with my mom...these are my best memories. I wanna go on crazy adventures with my wife not just walks in the park. I wanna have 3 or 4 kids because sometime one or two are dumb, lol.

So I am already late, yea I can still DL hundreds, have a good vertical....but my body has started to wear ...the colony of viruses that I am are saying you had your time we made you strong to reproduce to move us to the next body, now what made you strong we'll use to kill you.

I'm curious, why do you feel that it's easier to get laid at 33? I have my own reasoning but I'm curious what it is for you. I'm 30 btw so it's interesting to hear others' experiences at a similar age.

Also, how have your looks/health treated you this far? Did you take care of yourself?
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#33

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote: (11-16-2018 07:54 AM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

Quote: (11-16-2018 07:16 AM)John Dodds Wrote:  

The usual way is to never take her into your home country.
If she has no right of entry, she can't use the US legal system.

Never reveal your assets or income to her either, and don't leave copies of your passport lying around.
Why can't you have copies of your passport lying around? What difference does it make if she already knows your name (we are talking about a wife or long term GF i presume, not some random bar slut).

I can only speak from an Asian perspective,
They don't generally know/remember or are able to write your name, as most of the Asian countries don't use Roman letters. So if they don't have something in front of them to copy they can't find you.
I also have a very common name, if my wife managed to actually remember my name, in a script she can't write, she would find about 2,000 Brits with my name to sort through.
A passport number is much more definitive.
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#34

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote: (11-18-2018 12:21 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

I'm curious, why do you feel that it's easier to get laid at 33? I have my own reasoning but I'm curious what it is for you. I'm 30 btw so it's interesting to hear others' experiences at a similar age.

Also, how have your looks/health treated you this far? Did you take care of yourself?

Don't know about 33, but at 53+ in Asia, I find it way easier to bed a 20-year-old than I did when I was I was 20 in the UK.
When I met my wife I was 53, and she was in high school, we had our first kid together when she was 2 years from graduation, she used to take him to school with her.
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#35

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote: (11-18-2018 12:21 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

Quote: (11-17-2018 01:12 PM)LivingFossil Wrote:  

Well, the problem is America is the best place to make money. I am 33 so I need to make more money here before I retire anywhere else and yes I do want to retire part of the year outside the USA but that wont be for a least a decade.

So I need to bring her back, as linked in my OP, I am considering moving out of America for a year starting July 2019, so I haven't met the girl yet.

I love the player lifestyle now in my 30's I get quality pussy at much greater ease than ever before. Smashing different hotties in one weekend is a thrill and I do not want it to end but.....this is thinking in the short term, by the time I'm 40 I think Ill be tired of it and then what start look to settle down then and have a teenage at 50 and be an old husband...that is not for me

I gotta think in the long term, my parents had me at 20 and 23 had many kids..I boxed with my dad as a teen and played soccer with my mom...these are my best memories. I wanna go on crazy adventures with my wife not just walks in the park. I wanna have 3 or 4 kids because sometime one or two are dumb, lol.

So I am already late, yea I can still DL hundreds, have a good vertical....but my body has started to wear ...the colony of viruses that I am are saying you had your time we made you strong to reproduce to move us to the next body, now what made you strong we'll use to kill you.

I'm curious, why do you feel that it's easier to get laid at 33? I have my own reasoning but I'm curious what it is for you. I'm 30 btw so it's interesting to hear others' experiences at a similar age.

Also, how have your looks/health treated you this far? Did you take care of yourself?

I don't care about impressing women, I quickly filter the women who cant handle my personality or aren't likely to put out. A lot of woman are very attracted to my I don't, confident personality because so many men are just too agreeable.

I'm starting to get a deeper widows peak but Rogain, collegen, and biotin shampoo stopped that, my hair is good now. I use sunscreen every day now [Image: sad.gif]

I a deadlift, squat, benchpress, play basketball and rockclimb every week. I think a mix of heavy weights, sprints type stuff, and streching is key for a good health.

I have more money than ever...not a lot, but enough, that really helps
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#36

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote: (11-17-2018 01:12 PM)LivingFossil Wrote:  

Well, the problem is America is the best place to make money. I am 33 so I need to make more money here before I retire anywhere else and yes I do want to retire part of the year outside the USA but that wont be for a least a decade.

So I need to bring her back, as linked in my OP, I am considering moving out of America for a year starting July 2019, so I haven't met the girl yet.

I love the player lifestyle now in my 30's I get quality pussy at much greater ease than ever before. Smashing different hotties in one weekend is a thrill and I do not want it to end but.....this is thinking in the short term, by the time I'm 40 I think Ill be tired of it and then what start look to settle down then and have a teenage at 50 and be an old husband...that is not for me

I gotta think in the long term, my parents had me at 20 and 23 had many kids..I boxed with my dad as a teen and played soccer with my mom...these are my best memories. I wanna go on crazy adventures with my wife not just walks in the park. I wanna have 3 or 4 kids because sometime one or two are dumb, lol.

Hey bro, I'm at a similar age and position. I earn good money and I'm going to create a family in a few years around age 35, because old fatherhood is not good in my opinion. I live in a western country for part of the year and I live overseas for the other part. I am European therefore for a baby mama I will be choosing a European woman from an eastern culture, approx 8-10 years younger. I'm also curious about the best way to create this family living arrangement with the future partner... I can't live in their country full-time because I think it's my duty to take care of my parents when they get old and also because I need to manage my business in my country for part/most of the year.

So I'm not quite sure of all the challenges that lay ahead in the next few years, it will take lots of careful thinking, but I'm choosing the clever path that's for sure. Anyway, good luck, hopefully you can give this thread the occasional update on your goal, as I'm sure there are many other RVFers who are in the same boat.
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#37

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote: (11-16-2018 07:16 AM)John Dodds Wrote:  

The usual way is to never take her into your home country.
If she has no right of entry, she can't use the US legal system.

Never reveal your assets or income to her either, and don't leave copies of your passport lying around.

this.

Never bring her back, that's the biggest mistake you can make.
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#38

Is there a way to marry a foreign woman without fear of divorce rape?

Quote: (11-16-2018 04:54 AM)BadBoyGamer Wrote:  

Quote:Polniy_Sostav Wrote:

Why do you guys refuse to get married ?

Refuse? As if marriage is the ONE RIGHT way, determined by God himself.

Quote:Polniy_Sostav Wrote:

Refusing to get married looks more to me like a lack of responsibility.

Responsibility for what?

Quote:Polniy_Sostav Wrote:

I believe we have the role to keep the traditions of our civilisations and make them great again.

When was civilization great? When did it stop being great?

Quote:Polniy_Sostav Wrote:

and kid

Trust me. You do not want me to produce a kid. It will be a monster.

Interesting to know how old you are ? I was thinking like you when I was 22/25 or so. I will answer point by point

1)Refuse? As if marriage is the ONE RIGHT way, determined by God himself.

It is.This is how we function for centuries. Until 3-4 decades ago all the western civilization was accepting wedding. Rejecting this is being progressist , just like pro-gay etc...

2)Responsibility for what?

Responsibility for keeping our civilization morally acceptable and a model. When you re not married , you can stop your relationship at any time without having to go through divorce. When you are married , you will do your best not to divorce. (the problem being that divorce rules are unfair these days towards men) . It means that you will fight to make sure that your couple will be stable and that by extension your kids will have a rather normal life without the cons of "my parents were divorced - life"

3)When was civilization great? When did it stop being great?
Almost every centuries , it stopped about 30/40 years ago. Moral decadence and full promotion of degeneracy + mass immigration have destroyed our beautiful civilizatin

4) Trust me. You do not want me to produce a kid. It will be a monster.

Already if you are on this forum , and you find a nice woman , this kid will not be in monster. Believe in yourself and don't be lethargic . society can change thanks to us. stop being individualistic.
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