[T1710A]

(06-10-2011 02:52 PM)Diablo Wrote:  

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And when she was leaving she said things like "You'll never find a woman like me that will pamper you and do all that I did for you". She may very well be right, because in this world who has the time to cook, clean and look after a man. However the service she was offering wasn't worth it.

Hey everyone. New here. Just HAD to register and comment on this.

You'll never find a woman like me that will pamper you and do all that I did for you"

Gee I've never heard that line before.
There's MILLIONS of women just like her. Tame another. I say F her!
She was using you and getting payed for it.
Huge "mistake" in my opinion was letting that bitch friend of hers into the picture, and worst of all letting the gf hang around HER place without control. That was trouble waiting to happen right there. I wouldn't be surprised at all if that bitch friend of hers wasn't the one "opening her eyes" (tempting her to screw you over).

Girlfriend/possible wife is PROPERTY, territory. You don't watch over it and keep it under control, it WILL get invaded.

I say cut your loses and move on. Spit that shit girl out of your system, like puking off disease, however you do it. Be strong as possible, and don't sweat it. You should be 'up and running' in no time.

"Broken hearts can always mend" sez some song. I'm forced to agree.
Sure it hurts. Bite the bullet. You're not alone.

[Jefferson]

If only OP had stopped his gf from hanging out with the mercenary girlfriend, things may have turned out differently.

One more example of how control is important in an LTR.

[TravelingBodybuilder]

(06-10-2011 04:51 AM)Diablo Wrote:  

I mentioned this somewhere in one of the threads that recently my girlfriend broke up with me approx 1 month ago. We'd been dating for like a year and seven months and I had planned to marry this chick as soon as I could get enough money to leave this place and get a bigger place. She used to pressure me on this marriage thing alot and asked me for a ring. She moved into my apartment around December 09'. She looked after me really well and pampered me as if I was a king, so I really loved her. She always had a meal ready before I got home from work, Always had my bath water ready, always cleaned my room, ironed my clothes, provided the sex whenever I needed it etc etc . Basically looking after the place but was a live in girlfriend. She had no job at the time so I was paying for most things she needed.

Anyway a friend of hers moved into my neighborhood and basically my girlfriend and her friend used to just hang out alot at her apartment instead of at my place. I was cool with that because I felt that her friendship with my girlfriend was benign, and her friend always made out to me that she was always on my side in arguments. So I felt as though her friend was more my friend then hers, even though she knew my girlfriend longer. So basically her friend moves in and meet these well off guys that are older and have alot of money. These men are buying my girlfriends friend things like blackberries, jewelry, money etc etc. I must admit at one point I got alittle insecure when her friend and my girl used to hand out with these moneyed guys. I used to get even more worried when her friend asked me if she could take my girlfriend to one of their parties. I flat out declined and told my girlfriend not to go.

So one day I go out to get something from the store. I come back and my girlfriend has packed all her stuff. I mean she has packed all her stuff from her T-shirts, jeans, all the jewelry I bought for her, etc etc

NOTE: For those of you thinking maybe we had an argument the answer is NO. If you think in any way I abused her the answer is NO. I have never in my life time raised my hand at a woman before. The story gets better though.

So I ask her why is she packing

She says she is taking her stuff to her friends place (only 15 mins walk from my place).

I ask why and she says she is leaving me.

So I take a deep breath and ask what I did could have possibly done wrong to cause her to want to leave my apartment. She tells me I did nothing wrong. (I'll bet at this point your as puzzled as I was...But wait it gets better)

She basically tells me she wants a real man that has a bigger car and a big house. (Yes you are reading this right, and no I am not bullshitting).

So I ask her what about all the money I spent on her. She never worked whilst she was with me and I took care of everything for her whenever she needed it. She said it wasn't enough.

At this point I became really worried and couldn't understand why this was happening. So I begged her to stay and I told her that I would fix it. She was having non of it.

She left me and started partying like mad with her friend. I was told by another guy that she is f**king this older, richer guy that lives like 30 mins away. What kills me is that she moved on SO FAST. She left me and 2 weeks later she is fucking someone else. So she is in between the sheets with this other guy whilst I'm here with my heart torn out of my chest. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't concentrate. I am a wreak right now.

That is why I hang out on forums like Roosh and others just to keep myself doing something to try and forget.

I need help because its really painful. So much so that I nearly cried. (No bullshit)

What can I do to get over this?

Will I ever meet someone better than her?

old thread but let this be a lesson . Woman and men cannot be friends.. Never have a girlfriend talking to other men. the men will seduce them and game them behind your back and sexual tension will build etc.
as soon as some guy bought your girlfriend some shit. that is a red flag... never have a girlfriend have guy friends that she texts etc.

men and woman are completely different.. they cant be friends. im not talkig about a guy commenting on her status once a month. but daily talking.. going out with them wtf. hell no. even if the guy is gay i still dont tolerate that shit.


i think they have meme's of this. "when you see your ex with the guy she said was just a friend when you 2 break up" lol.


a real girl would keep their message unread for 2 days before responding so they get the hint and so on.. but continuing conversations with them and saying they are just a friend. they call this monkey branching... and woman will move on FAST. woman are not independent... they need someone asap... if you get into a fight with your gf you need to dump her for good or be fast to make up because those bitches move on fast... bitches are savages bro

[rudebwoy]

^^Wrong

The relationship was doomed as soon as the girlfriends
friend showed up on the scene.

OP was powerless in this situation,

Amazing how fast and quickly women can move on.

[TravelingBodybuilder]

(11-15-2018 05:41 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

^^Wrong

The relationship was doomed as soon as the girlfriends
friend showed up on the scene.

OP was powerless in this situation,

Amazing how fast and quickly women can move on.

what am i wrong about? and he was not powerless. he let his girlfriend have guy friends and look what happened.

[NoMoreTO]

** A painful reminder to all of us of the slut friend influence effect **

Its painful, and almost impossible to beat a woman in a breakup, in terms of fucking new guys. But she will struggle emotionally trying to make a switch like that , she is not in a good place if she has any decency. The best you'll do is that she will silently recognize that this guy doesn't actually give a fuck about her, or will just pass her up for the next piece of ass that comes along. At this point she might come back to you, or reach out and hopefully you are in a place you can laugh in her face, or at least deny her.

In terms of the relationship, not sure why you are providing for her and paying for all her shit when you are not married and she is not pregnant. Sounds like a 'taker' to me. So of course she will just move up the ladder if she can.

I'll assume she is similar age to you, (26) in 5 years you wouldn't even want to fuck her, you will be up the food chain and this party girl will look like an emotional wreck, who has hit the tanning bed too many times, and been around the block. If she doesn't marry one of these playboys soon she will have a long way to fall.

All that said, for now you are the loser. Take your anger and hit the gym, you'd be amazed at the progress you can make if you can divert your frustration into forward motion. Be careful of booze and becoming a bum, things can slip in the other direction too. Its up to you to decide what you are going to do with this.

[NoMoreTO]

(11-15-2018 05:41 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

^^Wrong

The relationship was doomed as soon as the girlfriends
friend showed up on the scene.

OP was powerless in this situation, ….

Disagree with this part, when you see a slut friend you have to immediately undermine her. Influence your girl that she is not a good person, that she is filthy or degenerate. But if your gf would rather live that lifestyle you can't stop it.

[MarsBlacc]

(06-10-2011 04:51 AM)Diablo Wrote:  

I mentioned this somewhere in one of the threads that recently my girlfriend broke up with me approx 1 month ago. We'd been dating for like a year and seven months and I had planned to marry this chick as soon as I could get enough money to leave this place and get a bigger place. She used to pressure me on this marriage thing alot and asked me for a ring. She moved into my apartment around December 09'. She looked after me really well and pampered me as if I was a king, so I really loved her. She always had a meal ready before I got home from work, Always had my bath water ready, always cleaned my room, ironed my clothes, provided the sex whenever I needed it etc etc . Basically looking after the place but was a live in girlfriend. She had no job at the time so I was paying for most things she needed.

Anyway a friend of hers moved into my neighborhood and basically my girlfriend and her friend used to just hang out alot at her apartment instead of at my place. I was cool with that because I felt that her friendship with my girlfriend was benign, and her friend always made out to me that she was always on my side in arguments. So I felt as though her friend was more my friend then hers, even though she knew my girlfriend longer. So basically her friend moves in and meet these well off guys that are older and have alot of money. These men are buying my girlfriends friend things like blackberries, jewelry, money etc etc. I must admit at one point I got alittle insecure when her friend and my girl used to hand out with these moneyed guys. I used to get even more worried when her friend asked me if she could take my girlfriend to one of their parties. I flat out declined and told my girlfriend not to go.

So one day I go out to get something from the store. I come back and my girlfriend has packed all her stuff. I mean she has packed all her stuff from her T-shirts, jeans, all the jewelry I bought for her, etc etc

NOTE: For those of you thinking maybe we had an argument the answer is NO. If you think in any way I abused her the answer is NO. I have never in my life time raised my hand at a woman before. The story gets better though.

So I ask her why is she packing

She says she is taking her stuff to her friends place (only 15 mins walk from my place).

I ask why and she says she is leaving me.

So I take a deep breath and ask what I did could have possibly done wrong to cause her to want to leave my apartment. She tells me I did nothing wrong. (I'll bet at this point your as puzzled as I was...But wait it gets better)

She basically tells me she wants a real man that has a bigger car and a big house. (Yes you are reading this right, and no I am not bullshitting).

So I ask her what about all the money I spent on her. She never worked whilst she was with me and I took care of everything for her whenever she needed it. She said it wasn't enough.

At this point I became really worried and couldn't understand why this was happening. So I begged her to stay and I told her that I would fix it. She was having non of it.

She left me and started partying like mad with her friend. I was told by another guy that she is f**king this older, richer guy that lives like 30 mins away. What kills me is that she moved on SO FAST. She left me and 2 weeks later she is fucking someone else. So she is in between the sheets with this other guy whilst I'm here with my heart torn out of my chest. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't concentrate. I am a wreak right now.

That is why I hang out on forums like Roosh and others just to keep myself doing something to try and forget.

I need help because its really painful. So much so that I nearly cried. (No bullshit)

What can I do to get over this?

Will I ever meet someone better than her?

You dodged a bullet mate. Your girl is a leech and void. You want to lose girls like these fast and thankfully, she's not the mother of your child. Her biggest value in a mate is materialistic things provided so be it. Do you really want to have a girl who only values material possessions?

She'll get fucked and chucked by guys and once she's passed her prime her main value (looks) will fade. Move on and improve yourself. The fact you begged to have her stay is a big no. It's pathetic and you deserve to be slapped for that. It's time to grow up and get a girl who's worth her salt.

You need to vet your mates better.

By the way, her friend didn't ruin the relationship. She did. She was always a wolf but once her pack (the girlfriend) came, she felt comfortable to show her teeth. The friend did you a favour. Let some other chump wife up this hoe.

[MarsBlacc]

(11-15-2018 05:41 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

^^Wrong

The relationship was doomed as soon as the girlfriends
friend showed up on the scene.

OP was powerless in this situation,

Amazing how fast and quickly women can move on.

Not really.

They can move on quickly from men they don't care about. When you have a woman's soul, you have her for life. Even after a break-up.

[RoastBeefCurtains4Me]

This thread got bumped from 2011. Diablo has posted off and on in the 7 years since then, so he handled it and moved on.

If you read the thread, he came to realize she was living off some other guy before him, and was living off two different married guys after him, so that's just how she was.

She dazzled him with sweetness and sex, which is what most guys want from a girl, so he fell hard for her. It takes time to learn that a woman's character and loyalty matter as much as sweetness and sex. The sweetness and sex fool a man into thinking she will be loyal. Finding out otherwise for the first time can be brutal.

That's the lesson out of all of this. Learn to read the woman's character, and don't be caught by surprise.