I believe we all have a deep seated need to give to the world around us, as the more value we give, the more we can love and respect ourselves. Giving no value can only lead to self hatred, because we know what a waste of space we are, how useless are existence is.
That being said, if a girl subconsciously knows that her ability to give is limited (bad intellect, limited ability to love, trauma that broke her femininity etc.) she will resort to giving the only thing she can--her body.
I believe this applies to everything; we all give back to the world what we can; whatever we have as talents and virtues.
If a woman has a worthless office job where she works for 2 hours a day, then pretends to be busy for the next 6, her need to give to the world is not even close to being satisfied... and because of her deficiencies as a nurturer and lover, having a family will not satisfy her either.
She is left with her body as her only source of value, and proceeds to give it to who she can respect the most that shows interest.
This is relevant because I was thinking about what I do, what I enjoy, and it's the same psychology though on a different level--I love giving a great experience to women, a unique experience--this is what makes being a lover worth it--yet I'm found avoiding these sluts completely, and seeking a completely different type of woman. The university girl working at a cafe shop, the innocent librarian, the very sensitive shy girl etc.
I seek women that I can improve, that have features that I like, that are incomplete, but not completely broken. Women that have something else to give but their body. What I give them is my talents as a lover, and hopefully guide them towards have a family later on, by realizing how fleeting what I can give them is, though it will stay with them forever, hopefully fill that need permanently, and free them to mature, be mothers.
If we take the romantic-idealistic element out of the equation all we are left with is sex addiction, and I've learned my lesson.
That being said, if a girl subconsciously knows that her ability to give is limited (bad intellect, limited ability to love, trauma that broke her femininity etc.) she will resort to giving the only thing she can--her body.
I believe this applies to everything; we all give back to the world what we can; whatever we have as talents and virtues.
If a woman has a worthless office job where she works for 2 hours a day, then pretends to be busy for the next 6, her need to give to the world is not even close to being satisfied... and because of her deficiencies as a nurturer and lover, having a family will not satisfy her either.
She is left with her body as her only source of value, and proceeds to give it to who she can respect the most that shows interest.
This is relevant because I was thinking about what I do, what I enjoy, and it's the same psychology though on a different level--I love giving a great experience to women, a unique experience--this is what makes being a lover worth it--yet I'm found avoiding these sluts completely, and seeking a completely different type of woman. The university girl working at a cafe shop, the innocent librarian, the very sensitive shy girl etc.
I seek women that I can improve, that have features that I like, that are incomplete, but not completely broken. Women that have something else to give but their body. What I give them is my talents as a lover, and hopefully guide them towards have a family later on, by realizing how fleeting what I can give them is, though it will stay with them forever, hopefully fill that need permanently, and free them to mature, be mothers.
If we take the romantic-idealistic element out of the equation all we are left with is sex addiction, and I've learned my lesson.