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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?
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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

So here's the deal fellas: Since arriving in Hamburg in June of this year, I've been sporadically running daygame, mostly in the city centre, but also when I've been travelling to and from work on the tram, racking up around 250 sets in that time. Until Friday evening, I'd pretty much gotten nothing but blowouts from these approaches, which were direct without being verbally sexual. OK, so far, so bleak, you might say. Needless to say, as a result I'd almost written Hamburg off as a city to game in - at least for me - and had just about resigned myself to signing up for an international dating site as my last chance at getting a woman again or, failing that, to move onto greener pussy pastures. Until Friday evening, that is.

Despite not getting much in the way of dates - or even numbers, for that matter - and having a little bit more free time from my work, I decided to open a few more sets in the centre, more for the sake of practice than anything else. On a side note, I'd noticed that I was having to take ever more counteractive measures against my depression, which as a result of an increasingly long dry spell and failure at daygame, had been creeping up on me and assuming a greater prominence in my life of late. My response has been to really up the intake of nutrients into my diet and to get back to fitness in the form of press ups (no gym membership, yet, though). Anyway, after a opening a few sets that go nowhere - as per usual - I get very obviously eye fucked by a passing girl with her hood up. She didn't seem all that good looking, but her body was pretty tight and she was quite tall, so I decided to hit it. She hooked quickly and I bounced her on an instadate to a coffee bar nearby, where she even paid for our drinks. She was from the former FSU (I don't want to be more specific than that), late 20s and with her hood down considerably better looking than I'd initially thought. Anyway, the date went well and I introduced a false time constraint and bailed to get something to eat, getting her contact details before I left. And it is after this point is where things start to get interesting ...

The next few sets that I open suddenly seemed ultra responsive to me. I open a girl from Cologne, must have only been around 25 and she hooks instantly, giving me an insanely feminine, fuck me tone of voice and eye sparkle as soon as I'd delivered my opener. Turns out she was only there for a few hours still, visiting her friend for her birthday bash, but after some insanely erotic eye-gazing with intermittent pauses, I started running my hands through her brunette locks, almost speechless at times but somehow reluctant to try and bounce her instantly to my pad. She took my number and told me she'd be in touch the next time she hit town, which I've learned to take with a very big pinch of salt. Still, it was a marked difference from the usual blowouts, even though I don't expect to hear from her again.

The next set I opened a was Polish girl - again, not older than 30 - and looking very good indeed. Again, the same type of response as the Cologne girl but without the kino. I ended up taking her out for coffee today and the buying temperature still seemed pretty high when we parted ways. Although I wasn't quite as audacious with the kino as with the Cologne set, she was responsive to every physical move I made and often moved in closer to me after I did this, which I took as a positive.

Buoyed by these highs, I hit the town after I'd dropped my Polish set off at the railway station and, again, the first set I opened - a young, blonde German around 25 - gives me intense eye sparkle that I'd received with the previous sets I've described. After vibing for around 5 minutes, she ends up confessing she's got a boyfriend, but she still gives me the number and even shouts to me as we're parting, "please contact me!". It would be easy for me to dismiss these as just women's words or flukes, but the body language - including her blushing, insanely strong fuck me eyes, responsiveness to kino, et.c. all pointed in the same direction, too. Anyway, it didn't stop there today, either. Ditto for another couple of German sets, both of whom told me that they were in a "complicated" relationship situation, but still wanted to exchange contact details. Again, the body language cues were really strong and it was easy for me to escalate with kino without any kind of resistance.

So, two dates with really hot girls, much younger than me, in 3 days with a bunch of numbers from equally attractive women who, even though they mentioned having a BF, still seemed keen to exchange contact details and backed up by a very sensual vibe with good kino responses in all cases. I'll be honest here: I can't fathom this shit at all, given how piss poor my results had been prior to this weekend. Could it all be just a fluke? The fact that this positive response has occurred in quite a few sets now in such as short period of time - practically one after the other - suggests otherwise. I'm left wondering what has happened with me to effect this change? Is it my nofap streak, currently totally 8 days? The fact that my beard has grown longer (didn't have this effect on women before, though, when I let it grow longer)? Maybe it's the autumn time and women are feeling a greater need for male company? A change in diet, especially my renewed intake of raw broccoli?

So, guys, my question to you: Can any of you on here relate to this? In other words, have any of you had a long period where your daygame results have been absolutely appalling and then, almost overnight, the reactions of women suddenly changed and you were able to pull bitches onto dates with ease? By the way, my dress or hairstyle hasn't changed recently. The only thing that I can honestly say is different from when I arrived is that I have a much greater sense of presence in these interactions, perhaps because I already felt pre-rejected before going in and so had absolutely zero expectations of a positive outcome until this very bizarre, yet positive change of fortune.

P.S. Literally, just within the last couple of minutes, one of the hotter sets, a 23 year-old cutie, has just texted me unsolicited saying how much she enjoyed our interaction earlier today. The irony is, she had initially declined my request for her fucking number, telling me that she wasn't up for dating guys at the moment. But I persisted and gave her my number anyway and told her it was up to her. You couldn't make this shit up if you tried.
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#2

Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Honestly, it's probably just chance – these things come in bunches. The real challenge will be to maintain this hot streak.

That said, your luck with the first girl probably gave you a modest confidence boost.
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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Situation is very familiar to me.

There are those times when everything is shit. And suddenly the sky breaks open and angels start pissing on your shoulders.

I guess it has to do with state (of mind). Somehow unconsciously you give a different vibe.

And sometimes the weather plays a role as well. When the sun shines everything seems to go smoother.

And then there is something called 'probability'.


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Anyway, the date went well and I introduced a false time constraint and bailed to get something to eat, getting her contact details before I left. And it is after this point is where things start to get interesting ...

The next few sets that I open suddenly seemed ultra responsive to me.

This date changed your state (of mind). You felt positive after?

One approach can make the difference. Sometimes just a girl smiling at you can change your fortune.

Only three ways to do something: "The right way. The wrong way. Or my way. Obviously my way is best."
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#4

Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Confidence from the first successful set launches you into “ZFG” altitude.
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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Quote: (11-04-2018 04:19 PM)BadBoyGamer Wrote:  

Situation is very familiar to me.

There are those times when everything is shit. And suddenly the sky breaks open and angels start pissing on your shoulders.

I guess it has to do with state (of mind). Somehow unconsciously you give a different vibe.

And sometimes the weather plays a role as well. When the sun shines everything seems to go smoother.

And then there is something called 'probability'.


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Anyway, the date went well and I introduced a false time constraint and bailed to get something to eat, getting her contact details before I left. And it is after this point is where things start to get interesting ...

The next few sets that I open suddenly seemed ultra responsive to me.

This date changed your state (of mind). You felt positive after?

One approach can make the difference. Sometimes just a girl smiling at you can change your fortune.

The knock-on effect that instadating the hot former FSU bitch had on me no doubt geed me up and put a spring in my step going into the next sets, but it just doesn't explain the whole of it. For me, the hardest part to fathom is the fact that - as I pointed out in the OP - my results over the previous 200 sets here had been, almost without exception, uniform blowouts. And now this, two dates in almost as many days, with younger and hotter women than I'd previously been aiming for and even one girl who'd refused to give me her number texting me first to say how much she enjoyed meeting me today. It's totally batshit crazy, giving the baseline failure rate that had established itself until a couple of days ago. It just makes no sense to me at all. On the one hand, I'm happy about it for sure, but on the other hand, also somewhat unnerved, since I can't account for it.
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#6

Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

My guess it's either a fluke, or you really should've gotten some level of success before but you weren't relaxed enough and the girlies just felt overwhelmed.

Or you actually did something seriously different you may not have been aware of.
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#7

Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Winter is coming, its cuffing season brotha
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#8

Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

State (of mind)

Proof is in the short string of success. After your state (of mind) changed multiple sets suddenly went well.

The whole of your reality only exist in your mind. Change your mind and your reality changes as well.

Sounds like hocus pocus.

Go to the gym and have an amazing workout. Approach a bunch of girls right after.

Approach a reasonable hot girl and cut the whole interaction short. Do not get a number. Just a positive response.

Only three ways to do something: "The right way. The wrong way. Or my way. Obviously my way is best."
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#9

Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clustering_illusion

"The clustering illusion is the tendency to erroneously consider the inevitable "streaks" or "clusters" arising in small samples from random distributions to be non-random."
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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Quote: (11-04-2018 05:07 PM)True Balla Wrote:  

Winter is coming, its cuffing season brotha

He beat me to it.

Strike now, forget about the small details.

Who cares about the signals, get them back to your pad to see if they are really interested.

Keep pushing!!!

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#11

Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

This happens in sales as well to me. I have a streak and all of a sudden, there are a few months when I can't even seem to close a single deal.
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#12

Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

In the night game there is similar thing. But my conclusion - it's not in your head.
There are some kinda cycles or waves in the nature. It's like a command for women to go out and spread their legs. When command is"on", you can almost feel it in the air -and clubs are full of girls. Couples kissing on dance floor and so. When the command is "off" - almost only fatties in clubs, nothing interesting happens. And it is NOT YOUR FAULT! It's just nature.
For us - man - nature gives different command. For us it's always, constantly "on". For women it's not the same. This is very very interesting topic for scientific research!
It's just like fishing - there is days when you can get a lot of fish, and there is days that are not successful.
Matting is not regulated by rational thinking - it's all natures commands.
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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Cliffs?
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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Same thing happened to me. I got 96 blowouts and the next target hooked beautifully. F closed on day 2. After dropping her off at her place, I opened a girl in a store and it hooked. Banged on day two.
We know that it is a numbers game. That is why persistence is key. Know that sooner or later you will slay.
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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

Quote: (11-04-2018 05:07 PM)True Balla Wrote:  

Winter is coming, its cuffing season brotha

Right on, it's like club closing time on a grander scale.
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Sudden shift in daygame fortunes: What gives?

I think Corsega makes excellent point. Just because a few low-probable events coincide in time, that doesn't have to mean much. If you do experiments tossing a coin, with enough trials, from time to time you'll have 10 tails in a row. It's just a statistical distribution, no particular meaning behind it. If you keep data, then every 100, 200, 500 sets plot the data, and if your open to number to date to lay begin to shift consistently towards more success, then it's not outliers and randomness but other variables - your game, different location (hence different SMV demographic distribution), and other key variables.

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