[bantersmyth]

I started seeing a new plate, we've been meeting up once a week.

Invariably whenever we start fucking, 20/30 minutes in she taps out and says she needs a break. She usually jokes that she's worn out.

Starting to think she's serious... Do I take it "easy" on her? Curious how more experience guys here have/would handle this.

I'm 28, she's 22. We're both in good shape, but she has diabetes.

[torridon747]

Diabetes can do some weird shit. Is her pussy sore? Is she out of breath? Is she overstimulated?

Ask her whats going on. I'm a half hour to an hour guy myself I love fucking so I try to make it last but a 30 minutes can be considered a long fuck sesh. I'd be hesitant to take it "easy" on any girl for any reason. If you find out for some reason she has a legit reason for tapping out maybe just try to go really intense for 15m? Try some new positions. Maybe paradoxically get her to do MORE work.

How's your dick game? Is there a chance she's getting to that 20-30m mark and her arousal is going down? Sex for girls doesn't feel good when they're not turned on. From what I understand it just tickles a lot and feels like a weird over stimulation.

Also I mean there's also the obvious. If she's not fulfilling you sexually you can always game more women and keep her on the side. Nothing wrong with that. As an anecdote. For 1 girl to satisfy me she's gotta be willing to fuck at least 3 times a day, every day, pussy soreness or not, period or not. I absolutely will not consider exclusivity for anything less.

[Windom Earle]

Are you on a porn set? 10 to 15 mins (of dick in vagina) is more than ample for most humans.

Any more and you’re likely to wear her out, as OP has experienced.

[torridon747]

Was that directed at me? I'm not most humans. I like fucking for an hour, girls love it, I love it, fuck them if they don't.

[bantersmyth]

(10-19-2018 12:38 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  

Diabetes can do some weird shit. Is her pussy sore? Is she out of breath? Is she overstimulated?

Ask her whats going on. I'm a half hour to an hour guy myself I love fucking so I try to make it last but a 30 minutes can be considered a long fuck sesh. I'd be hesitant to take it "easy" on any girl for any reason. If you find out for some reason she has a legit reason for tapping out maybe just try to go really intense for 15m? Try some new positions. Maybe paradoxically get her to do MORE work.

How's your dick game? Is there a chance she's getting to that 20-30m mark and her arousal is going down? Sex for girls doesn't feel good when they're not turned on. From what I understand it just tickles a lot and feels like a weird over stimulation.

Also I mean there's also the obvious. If she's not fulfilling you sexually you can always game more women and keep her on the side. Nothing wrong with that. As an anecdote. For 1 girl to satisfy me she's gotta be willing to fuck at least 3 times a day, every day, pussy soreness or not, period or not. I absolutely will not consider exclusivity for anything less.

I don't really get into her shit and ask for details. Maybe I should?

I think you're right, she just gets overstimulated... a couple days ago when she called for a timeout. I asked her if she really wanted to stop. And she said she honestly didn't know, I could tell she was conflicted.

I don't have any doubt about my dick game, she definitely really enjoys it.

She's my only plate, I had another but she tried to DTR. I'm not actively approaching. Focusing on work and myself. I use tinder occasionally, treat it like passive income.

I would be open to exclusivity with her... if she could make me cum. Not really fair to blame her, though, it might be me. I have no problem blowing loads with some random tinder slut but for some reason can't get there when I'm with this girl. Make of that what you will

[bantersmyth]

(10-19-2018 01:04 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  

Are you on a porn set? 10 to 15 mins (of dick in vagina) is more than ample for most humans.

Any more and you’re likely to wear her out, as OP has experienced.

I'm realizing that perhaps less is more. It's not a conscious choice though.

[Montrose]

Good sexual intercourse lasts minutes, not hours

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/20...145115.htm

1-2 minutes: ‘too short’
3-7 minutes: ‘adequate’
7-13 minutes: ‘desirable’
10-30 minutes: ‘too long’

[blck]

(10-19-2018 12:32 AM)bantersmyth Wrote:  

I'm 28, she's 22. We're both in good shape... but she has diabetes.
...but she has diabetes.
...but she has diabetes.

[Montrose]

She likely has Type 1 diabetes which is in no way linked to obesity

[JackinMelbourne]

I know exactly how annoying this is for you and the worst part, there may be nothing that can be done about it. It's how sex with this chick might always be.

But... what you can do to help is communicate with her more. Tell her what you're going to do to her and get her to tell you what she wants you to do to her, and how to do it (dirty talk it if you need to). Try out her tips or directions and see if the session plays out differently.

If she still keeps tapping out then yeah, that's how it's going to be. Chicks have their quirks...

[redbeard]

(10-19-2018 01:13 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  

Was that directed at me? I'm not most humans. I like fucking for an hour, girls love it, I love it, fuck them if they don't.

If girls love it, you wouldn't have written this post.

[redbeard]

(10-19-2018 01:47 AM)Montrose Wrote:  

Good sexual intercourse lasts minutes, not hours

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/20...145115.htm

1-2 minutes: ‘too short’
3-7 minutes: ‘adequate’
7-13 minutes: ‘desirable’
10-30 minutes: ‘too long’

This reflects my experience.

Women don't actually know how long sex lasts. I've timed it and sometimes what they think is 20 minutes is actually 7.

Duration isn't everything. When a woman is insanely attracted to you, she doesn't care. The mere act of having sex with you is enough to make her go googoo. I used to date this girl who was so crazy about me that she would orgasm within the first minute of us having sex.

Sometimes I'll finish having sex and think "hmm, that wasn't very long" (thanks NoFap). However afterwards, the girl will be panting, telling me how she loved every second of it.

What's interesting about this study as well is that it's a survey, not a measured study. You'd think that most respondents would say "oh yeah 30 minutes is awesome!" even though their sex is actually 10 minutes, but their answers seem to reflect reality.

[Montrose]

Quote:

what they think is 20 minutes is actually 7

and what they think is 8 inches is actually 5

[Captain Gh]

(10-19-2018 01:47 AM)Montrose Wrote:  

Good sexual intercourse lasts minutes, not hours

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/20...145115.htm

1-2 minutes: ‘too short’
3-7 minutes: ‘adequate’
7-13 minutes: ‘desirable’
10-30 minutes: ‘too long’

DGAF What that study says! Don't Believe It! When you lay Pipe on a New Chick for a Hour +... that will set you apart..no matter your Size! Now Going an Hour Ain't Easy... but when you do and You're Good... that's when You Become HER Booty Call!

[questor70]

First, get the terms down. A sex session can and should be more than just "intercourse". An entire sex session that only lasts 5 minutes, IMHO, is juice that isn't worth the squeeze. Whether it's extending the intercourse phase or mixing it up with other activities, it better the hell last longer.

I also think that women who say they get bored when sex takes too long aren't being dicked properly. There's more to it than simple endurance on the part of the man. It's a dance. It's no fun to do the hustle for a half hour straight just shuffling robotically back and forth like a metronome. You have to mix it up.

Any pleasurable experience that goes by really quickly, is not going to be as memorable as one that you draw out longer. It's like downing a snickers bar and getting a quick sugar rush as opposed to sitting down for a multi-course meal. So if guys want to lock women down for repeat service, don't rush it, but also know how to draw it out long that won't bore her either.

[Flux]

They always do this shit... when you go hard on them doggy it really wears them out. I wonder if it’s painful.

It’s interesting how the ones with the biggest slut tells always like it gently and lovingly, while the innocent looking ones enjoy a good pounding, slapping, choking.

I guess they get bored of always getting it the same way, or maybe they want to feel different from who they are.

I would suggest you keep doing your thing, either she adapts or you move on.

I’ve timed it, and can last 45 min to an hour with a few breaks here and there. Of course the girl is going to be sore, but it’s an experience.

Does she deny you more sex completely after the 20-30min? That’s a red flag.

[Cr33pin]

Maybe you're just toooooo sweet and its spiking her insulin

An then shes is all......

[DimeBait]

Maybe you think you're killing it, but in actuality, it's increasingly uncomfortable for her. Is the poosy drying out, are you going slow at first or full on pass rush? You should be able to read a women's body. I often stop long before I bust because I can see it may be causing some discomfort. Then again, I have a huge cock so that may not be your problem at all, lol

[Player_1337]

Quality lube is a game changer and often enhances the entire experience.

[gmoneysauce]

(10-19-2018 01:13 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  

Was that directed at me? I'm not most humans. I like fucking for an hour, girls love it, I love it, fuck them if they don't.

Hey Eugenics, how have you been?

So, in my 20's I could literally fuck for an hour to 1.5 hours. At almost 50 I'm down to a 15 min fuck but I have been trying to get to the point where I can wear out a girl again. I can do a 10/15 minute fuck and be fine most of the time. But if a girl is seriously turning me on then I want to do the hour thing. I have to be in really good cardio shape to do that. I can tell based on the amount and intensity of cardio and lifting and saunas I have been doing. and I have yet to take any dick pills.......yet.

[torridon747]

Good man how about yourself? Damn I didnt know you was that old, hope I'm killin it like you at 50.

I don't know why everybody is hating, sounds like hamstering to me. If you like fuckin for 15m and your girl is happy, chill. Ya'll pullin up stats accusing me of not knowing or fibbing that girls like it. I have never had 1 complaint, sub-communication, or even a hint of dissatisfaction after an hour long dicking. Also I'm on phone and not gonna check but I'd be willing to bet those stats were taken in America. Half our population is fat and most are out of shape, why you gonna let them set standards like that for you. And furthermore, if I like fucking for an hour, why the fuck can't I do that? Now if the girl is dissatisfied and I've ignored her pleas and requests to stop earlier I won't be surprised if she doesn't come back. But as it is it's all repeat customers over here.

My current girls pussy is broke as fuck, always sore. She still begs for it all the way up until about 45m in. Most girls I've been with are similar. I'm suspicious about half ya'lls dick game if 15m in your girl is getting "tired" or asks "please finish"

[RatInTheWoods]

People like sex to last different amounts of time.

I like to fuck a long time, but several women have said "that was great but when on a bit long".

Find a chick whos fuck-duration matches your own.

[ksbms]

(10-19-2018 11:27 AM)Flux Wrote:  

I’ve timed it, and can last 45 min to an hour with a few breaks here and there. Of course the girl is going to be sore, but it’s an experience.

- Hey Joe, how's things?
- Oh man, I just finished a marathon!
- Really, why then are you wearing a suit?
- I was doing half a mile per day, didn't sweat much so you know...