Fight club anyone? xD
Live like you just got a "Get out of jail free card"
Live like you just got a "Get out of jail free card"
Quote: (12-13-2013 09:21 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:
I don't care how much Game one has, if he hits his 40's and 50's and doesn't have $$$, he will not be pulling 21yo models on the regular, nor will he be able to keep them around.
And besides the sluts, do it for yourself. Who wants to be 40 and broke?
Fuck that.
Quote: (12-14-2013 12:17 AM)WestCoast Wrote:
^ become bi-polar like me
Quote: (12-14-2013 12:40 AM)WestCoast Wrote:
I have a long ass post on this topic on a thread a guy started regarding gaming for intelligent people, forgot the exact name tho.
Quote: (12-13-2013 10:43 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
and less about how you deal with any particular girl
Mulling this statement around as of late....
There's a kernel of something there, but it's not quite right.
So why not put up a half-cocked idea and see if you guys can set me straight?
WIA
Quote: (12-14-2013 12:13 AM)Vitriol Wrote:
Quote: (12-13-2013 09:21 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:
I don't care how much Game one has, if he hits his 40's and 50's and doesn't have $$$, he will not be pulling 21yo models on the regular, nor will he be able to keep them around.
And besides the sluts, do it for yourself. Who wants to be 40 and broke?
Fuck that.
I agree. However, the thing that sucks about American culture is guys who are worried about things like careers, finance, and generally getting your shit together are pussy repellant to American women. Therefore, you end up being like a monk in your teenage and early 20s years so that you can get pussy for the rest of your life. It's a tradeoff that ends up working years down the line, but it seriously pisses you off when you're a young dude with hormones pumping and you see other guys getting the pussy.
It sucks that these bitches are so into guys who burn the candle at both ends and have no future time orientation, so they overlook the guys getting their shit together and only ride the gravy train with guys who are either 1. already there 2. guys who are too dumb to realize things change and you don't stay young forever.
The better long term solution is obvious, but it sucks missing out when you're younger.
Quote: (01-10-2014 09:06 AM)Kieran Wrote:
Interesting thread.
I have a lot of problems with this. I lived recklessly for years, going out nearly every night, drinking to excess, and burying my head in the sand with regards to my future. I got a lot of girls, and many were high quality (and some that were so ugly that thinking back actually gives me shivers haha). The drink, and the momentum of going out so much and constantly living in the moment, gave me an insanely cocky attitude, and girls that any rational person would say were out of my league were like moths to a flame at times. I'm about to be thirty though, with not much money left, and very little career options (I have a useless degree in sports science, and have hardly worked a job since I was 20 because I spent most of the last decade zig zagging between trying to get somewhere in the sport of boxing, or going on benders).
I'm now starting to see people in my social circle that toed the line over the years, begin to have a lot more success with women. And with a few old friends having become millionaires, I've been feeling a twinge of insecurity and bitterness lately. If I drink, then I'm still pretty much able to get into the right mood and bury all of them, but as I mentioned in another thread, I have a bit of a drink problem, some liver damage, and so have been trying to stay sober lately.
What I notice, is that I'm definitely a lot more able to stay on top of everything with regards to starting to get my shit together, training, nutrition, clothes, and I definitely look better than ever (my mental health is also much more consistent). However, these things have done very little for my results with women, and I actually think that the future time oriented frame that comes with working towards goals, means that I find it harder (pretty much impossible without drink) to get into that cocky, in the moment way of being, that actually gets the pussy wet.
Another thing I notice is that a couple of women that have been around for years that I thought I'd always be able to call, seem far less interested in me. It might just be that they are moving on with their lives, but I have my suspicions that they find me boring now with my regimented nutrition, training, etc, whereas before being around me was much more exciting as I was volatile, was in constant drama, and seemed like I needed fixing I guess. It's strange because on paper I'm much improved from what I was a year ago, and yet these women seem far less attracted to me.
Quote: (12-13-2013 09:21 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:
I don't care how much Game one has, if he hits his 40's and 50's and doesn't have $$$, he will not be pulling 21yo models on the regular, nor will he be able to keep them around.
And besides the sluts, do it for yourself. Who wants to be 40 and broke?