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The truth about the Philippines
#76

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-13-2018 02:17 PM)fuckboy_horny_facesitting Wrote:  

You mean this food on their video ? https://youtu.be/-02Qj6z_RaY?t=275

If nobody told me what it was, I'd assume it was some kind of modelling clay for children to play, or maybe some kind of shit wrapped in cardboard that they took from their slums. A friendly gift from the hospitable filipinos i guess...

Don't tell me our old pal from the Philippines, pussy-sniffer, is now into face-sitting? That's gross, but consistent and logical, as face-sitting is certainly beneficial to concomitant pussy-sniffing, one might even say they walk hand in hand.

Face-sitting enters alongside pussy-sniffery:

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#77

The truth about the Philippines

I honestly never got the hype with this place. For years I salivated over innumerable posts throughout the manosphere touting the Philippines as the pussy paradise to end all pussy paradises. I wasn't much into Asian chicks back then but I figured I'd swing by when I was in the region and check it out.

Fast forward to 2016: I arrived in Manila and couldn't help but feel as though I'd fallen victim to some kind of practical joke. I hit up Tinder and got one date with a 1 (and she made it clear beforehand that there would be no sex). In Cebu I got another 1 to come straight to my hotel and bang (I felt physically ill afterwards). Also banged some fat 2 in a hostel dorm (easiest lay ever) and the owner of a guesthouse I stayed at in Palawan (seriously busted).

Overall, in terms of both quality and quantity I found the Philippines to be one of the worst places I've been in Asia. Thailand, Indonesia and even Malaysia all blow it out of the water. Sorry, but for the life of me I just don't see why it's so hyped up.

Others have noted that the average Filapina is ugly, the food sucks, poverty is highly visible, etc. All true, but for me the worst thing of all is the attitude I get from Filipinas. Every girl there seems to think she's hot shit. They all have this prima donna vibe and every interaction seemed to have a passive-aggressive undertone. One word responses were the norm, even from fat 35 year old single moms.

Actually, I get this from Filipinas here in Bangkok, too. I match with Filipinas, they message me first and reply promptly but they're always very careful to never text anything other than yes, no or cool. It's as if the only reason they matched with me and initiated texting was to give themselves an ego boost by treating a guy like shit. I rarely get this kind of attitude from other Asian girls but with Filipinas I've come to expect it.

Where the fuck does this attitude come from? Don't they know they're the ugliest, dumbest, most annoying bitches in Asia? Why do fat, ugly, post-wall Pinays act like such divas when their Thai or Indonesian equivalents will come straight to my condo to bang with no fuss?

My pet theory is that - deep down - they're well aware of their inferiority and their shitty attitude is a kind of defense mechanism. They want to convince themselves that men reject them for their bad attitude, not their aesthetic shortcomings. Kinda like "fattitude".

Anyway, rant over. Just wanted to vent as I think the Philippines and Filipinas are massively overhyped here and elsewhere. I get the feeling that they're coasting on their reputation as a pussy paradise (which it supposedly really was 5+ years ago). I have every intention of returning to the Phils. But it won't be for the women, it will be for the beautiful islands (which is where the country really shines IMO).
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#78

The truth about the Philippines

@J-Roc: all very true. And all true because you came here after 2014.

2013 and before it truly was all it was hyped up to be and so much more... but, we do need that time machine Malo has been promising us.

Malo... we're waiting!
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#79

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-16-2018 10:18 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

Also planning an indefinite stay, unless another foreign country draws me away.

That said, some guys are just not about giving value, they're simply about extracting value, and if all you do is extract value, you're only going to get girls that don't have much to lose, so they're desperately willing to take a chance on a highly speculative, negative ROI play by dating/sleeping with men in that bracket. This refusal to give value will also affect the kind of men these guys attract around themselves, and will also affect their interactions with society in general, and will therefore color their impressions of a place/environment, be it the Anglosphere or some other country.

There's also racial hangups as well, folks with very low self esteem will use race as a way to blow out the candles of others to make theirs shine brighter without actually having to do any work/put in any effort. You hear those folks bandy about terms like "monkeys" and "slum-rodents" to refer to others. When you have an inferiority complex in life, you can put in the hard work required to improve your situation and your mental state, or you can resort to calling other groups of people lazy, monkeys, idiots, etc., and instantly make yourself feel superior, even though nothing about you has improved at all.

On the other hand, if you're legitimately bringing value to the table, value you're willing to share with girls and guys that form healthy relationships with you, then the world can be a very open, friendly place.

Then on top of that, the male brain takes a long time to mature. Guys can read these ideas at 18 years of age and get nothing from them, and then they might come across them at 28 years of age and get a little bit more from them. Then at 38 years of age, things may finally click, and these ideas can become actionable.

It does feel like as men, we're often laying the train tracks as the train is moving forward at a high speed. It's surprising more of us don't derail completely. Perhaps a lot of us do and life just goes on regardless.

No need to try to justify your staying in this ultra low-value place for the rest of your life.

Philippines sucks and talking about it never gets old.
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#80

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-16-2018 08:44 AM)Duke.33 Wrote:  

I think it is silly for us to come to country, not respect their customs, act like the locals are stupid, not even bother to integrate and expect 9s and 10s to suck our dicks.

why should a 9 or 10 choose someone that arrogant? sure if their your average poor girl you might be the best option even if you are a raging cunt bag.

Can someone tell this autist to stop talking about "9s and 10s" in the Philippines?
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#81

The truth about the Philippines

Okay, I been to the Ph twice.
I bang 5 to 8s here in Europe (Belgium mostly) and I am 31 years old. Rate my self a 8 on good days.
Stayed about 6 weeks total in Ph.
First time was in 2017. Met up with a 8 in Laguna. Met her from Tinder stayed at her appartement for a week and had the greatest time of my fucking life. Travelling, drinking. Thightest, squirting pussy ever.

Than in 2018. Met 3 girls. 6-7s. Best fucks ever hands down all 3 of them squirt.
1st girl is a 6 but from the upper middle class, her gay bf (all of them the coolest and most outgoing people I ever met!) has a private driver. Left wing Anti-Duterte people. Even though I fuck hotter girls here in Europe this girl took it for hours every day from friday to sunday. She paid for motels and my drinks, barely felt a culture barrier. Took it her in ass, as much as I wanted (super rare in the Ph!).
2nd (6, 7 in Europe). Had the craziest date (fear and loathing in Manila lol)ever and fucked her after 1h. Speaks perfect English and works for a international pharma company.
3th one is a helper or manager in a high end hotel and pretty much violated me while I was knock out sleeping in a now closed techno club. Wasnt the best fuck but never have I been pulled by a girl after being 21.

My tips:

Where to meet the cool people:
Go to the bars near Z Hostel (Wild Poppy, I forgot the names, crowd is 21 to 35, upper middle class)
Clubs;
Black Market in Makati
Time Bar (closed?)
Hang Around in the Z-Hostel roof top during evenings and just go with the flow).
Only date girls from the top universities (De La Salle, Santo Thomas, UP etc....)
Normal Filipinas will never ask you to buy shit.
Honestly I love The Ph and it's crazy outgoing culture.
Learn to use the public transport, their is nothing scary about it really.
Make friends with Europeans as Filipinos like EUs way more than Americans, British or Australians (I'm sorry).
I used Tinder most of the time and ended up in the semi alternative scene of Manila so I never had to deal with what they call "Makati Social Climbers".
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#82

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-16-2018 08:46 PM)J-Roc Wrote:  

I honestly never got the hype with this place. For years I salivated over innumerable posts throughout the manosphere touting the Philippines as the pussy paradise to end all pussy paradises. I wasn't much into Asian chicks back then but I figured I'd swing by when I was in the region and check it out.

Fast forward to 2016: I arrived in Manila and couldn't help but feel as though I'd fallen victim to some kind of practical joke. I hit up Tinder and got one date with a 1 (and she made it clear beforehand that there would be no sex). In Cebu I got another 1 to come straight to my hotel and bang (I felt physically ill afterwards). Also banged some fat 2 in a hostel dorm (easiest lay ever) and the owner of a guesthouse I stayed at in Palawan (seriously busted).

Overall, in terms of both quality and quantity I found the Philippines to be one of the worst places I've been in Asia. Thailand, Indonesia and even Malaysia all blow it out of the water. Sorry, but for the life of me I just don't see why it's so hyped up.

Others have noted that the average Filapina is ugly, the food sucks, poverty is highly visible, etc. All true, but for me the worst thing of all is the attitude I get from Filipinas. Every girl there seems to think she's hot shit. They all have this prima donna vibe and every interaction seemed to have a passive-aggressive undertone. One word responses were the norm, even from fat 35 year old single moms.

Actually, I get this from Filipinas here in Bangkok, too. I match with Filipinas, they message me first and reply promptly but they're always very careful to never text anything other than yes, no or cool. It's as if the only reason they matched with me and initiated texting was to give themselves an ego boost by treating a guy like shit. I rarely get this kind of attitude from other Asian girls but with Filipinas I've come to expect it.

Where the fuck does this attitude come from? Don't they know they're the ugliest, dumbest, most annoying bitches in Asia? Why do fat, ugly, post-wall Pinays act like such divas when their Thai or Indonesian equivalents will come straight to my condo to bang with no fuss?

My pet theory is that - deep down - they're well aware of their inferiority and their shitty attitude is a kind of defense mechanism. They want to convince themselves that men reject them for their bad attitude, not their aesthetic shortcomings. Kinda like "fattitude".

Anyway, rant over. Just wanted to vent as I think the Philippines and Filipinas are massively overhyped here and elsewhere. I get the feeling that they're coasting on their reputation as a pussy paradise (which it supposedly really was 5+ years ago). I have every intention of returning to the Phils. But it won't be for the women, it will be for the beautiful islands (which is where the country really shines IMO).

Their entire society acts like that. Incredibly narcissistic and arrogant dickheads and I guess that's how they cope with their surroundings. What more is they are always advertising themselves as good, benevolent, hospitable, welcoming people when I'm certain they don't know what any of that means.

It's a degenerate, drama filled, self-indulgent, selfish, vain culture and people who glorify it the most are the ones who pay the highest price. From the guy that builds a house in the province and gets whacked in a land dispute to foolish 2-week wife hunters who think their bar girl is beyond reproach.

Fool's paradise for sure.

Maine and Canadian lobsters are the same animal. Prove me wrong.
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#83

The truth about the Philippines

Funny how dudes think of themselves as 8s and funny how they think they look younger "I'm in my fifties but I look 32". GTFOOH.
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#84

The truth about the Philippines

The Philippines is now definitely ground zero for sponsoring, girls I banged in the past few years have become snotty as fuck. Now, almost every girl here seems to be all about oneupping everyone else on Facebook with beach pics, iPhones, braces, car pics, Starbucks, etc. Some are with foreign sponsors (esp Arab/Indian) the rest with local sponsors, many of these guys are beyond busted, 3-6 points below the majority of the girls, goomba tier. If you’re into money game or pseudo P4P, it’s still a great option, you can still date up considerably. Otherwise, your chances aren’t too great.
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#85

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-16-2018 08:46 PM)J-Roc Wrote:  

I honestly never got the hype with this place. For years I salivated over innumerable posts throughout the manosphere touting the Philippines as the pussy paradise to end all pussy paradises. I wasn't much into Asian chicks back then but I figured I'd swing by when I was in the region and check it out.

Fast forward to 2016: I arrived in Manila and couldn't help but feel as though I'd fallen victim to some kind of practical joke. I hit up Tinder and got one date with a 1 (and she made it clear beforehand that there would be no sex). In Cebu I got another 1 to come straight to my hotel and bang (I felt physically ill afterwards). Also banged some fat 2 in a hostel dorm (easiest lay ever) and the owner of a guesthouse I stayed at in Palawan (seriously busted).

Overall, in terms of both quality and quantity I found the Philippines to be one of the worst places I've been in Asia. Thailand, Indonesia and even Malaysia all blow it out of the water. Sorry, but for the life of me I just don't see why it's so hyped up.

Tell me more about you, age, level game, past results, lay count, height, etc.

are you saying you came here for, I assume a month and only banged a fat girl and few other ugly girls?
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#86

The truth about the Philippines

I have a few asian friends (Chinese, Vietnamese, Filipino) and it's pretty much universally accepted that Filipinos are on the bottom end of the Asian hierarchy, or that they aren't even asian at all.
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#87

The truth about the Philippines

^ I'm early thirties, White (but kinda Arab looking), 3/10 looks (but profile pics are as flattering as possible), novice game, have Aspergers and social anxiety, 6' 2'', blue eyes, dark hair, skinnyfat. Lay count of 33, all Asian and mostly in the 2-4 range with the occasional 5-6 (mostly mid-20s with the odd milf).

I do online exclusively (except for a couple of opportunistic bangs in the Phils) and tend to run indirect game focused on building rapport rather than just saying "my dick is hard, come over" (although I have had results with the latter approach). Having said that, I'm very firm about not spending much money on girls - I'm not interested in being a beta provider and I always make that clear to the girls.

I've been to the Phils twice for a total of 7 weeks. However, almost all of that time was spent in the provinces. I spent a week in Manila (in total) and two nights in Cebu City. I wouldn't rate any of my Pinay bangs higher than a 2.5 whereas I can usually score at least one or two 4s or better in Thailand or Indonesia in a similar time frame.

What really annoyed me was not so much my poor results as the attitude of the girls. Pinays are incredibly rude in my experience whereas other Asian girls tend to be mostly polite even if they're not interested. I got so many snarky, bitchy comments from girls both online and in real life that I would never receive elsewhere in Asia. Considering how the Phils gets so hyped up on sites like this I was more than a little disappointed. So if it seems like I have a chip on my shoulder about the Philippines and Pinays, that's why.
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#88

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-16-2018 09:06 PM)fuckboy_horny_facesitting Wrote:  

Quote: (10-16-2018 10:18 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

Also planning an indefinite stay, unless another foreign country draws me away.

That said, some guys are just not about giving value, they're simply about extracting value, and if all you do is extract value, you're only going to get girls that don't have much to lose, so they're desperately willing to take a chance on a highly speculative, negative ROI play by dating/sleeping with men in that bracket. This refusal to give value will also affect the kind of men these guys attract around themselves, and will also affect their interactions with society in general, and will therefore color their impressions of a place/environment, be it the Anglosphere or some other country.

There's also racial hangups as well, folks with very low self esteem will use race as a way to blow out the candles of others to make theirs shine brighter without actually having to do any work/put in any effort. You hear those folks bandy about terms like "monkeys" and "slum-rodents" to refer to others. When you have an inferiority complex in life, you can put in the hard work required to improve your situation and your mental state, or you can resort to calling other groups of people lazy, monkeys, idiots, etc., and instantly make yourself feel superior, even though nothing about you has improved at all.

On the other hand, if you're legitimately bringing value to the table, value you're willing to share with girls and guys that form healthy relationships with you, then the world can be a very open, friendly place.

Then on top of that, the male brain takes a long time to mature. Guys can read these ideas at 18 years of age and get nothing from them, and then they might come across them at 28 years of age and get a little bit more from them. Then at 38 years of age, things may finally click, and these ideas can become actionable.

It does feel like as men, we're often laying the train tracks as the train is moving forward at a high speed. It's surprising more of us don't derail completely. Perhaps a lot of us do and life just goes on regardless.

No need to try to justify your staying in this ultra low-value place for the rest of your life.

Philippines sucks and talking about it never gets old.

No place I'm at is low value.

Even the dingiest dump gets raised to at least average value by my mere presence there.
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#89

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-17-2018 12:32 AM)J-Roc Wrote:  

^ I'm early thirties, White (but kinda Arab looking), 3/10 looks (but profile pics are as flattering as possible), novice game, have Aspergers and social anxiety, 6' 2'', blue eyes, dark hair, skinnyfat. Lay count of 33, all Asian and mostly in the 2-4 range with the occasional 5-6 (mostly mid-20s with the odd milf).

I do online exclusively (except for a couple of opportunistic bangs in the Phils) and tend to run indirect game focused on building rapport rather than just saying "my dick is hard, come over" (although I have had results with the latter approach). Having said that, I'm very firm about not spending much money on girls - I'm not interested in being a beta provider and I always make that clear to the girls.

I've been to the Phils twice for a total of 7 weeks. However, almost all of that time was spent in the provinces. I spent a week in Manila (in total) and two nights in Cebu City. I wouldn't rate any of my Pinay bangs higher than a 2.5 whereas I can usually score at least one or two 4s or better in Thailand or Indonesia in a similar time frame.

What really annoyed me was not so much my poor results as the attitude of the girls. Pinays are incredibly rude in my experience whereas other Asian girls tend to be mostly polite even if they're not interested. I got so many snarky, bitchy comments from girls both online and in real life that I would never receive elsewhere in Asia. Considering how the Phils gets so hyped up on sites like this I was more than a little disappointed. So if it seems like I have a chip on my shoulder about the Philippines and Pinays, that's why.

Some girls here can be extremely rude, its not because they are rude they are just insensitive and think its funny pointing out other peoples flaws. Some people that have very low self esteem want others to treat them poorly. I noticed that some of the girls I talked to who were the rudest here also would complain how people are rude to them. Its a self fulfilling prophesy. You have to learn to not take these things personally.

I imagine some girls here pointed out you come off socially weird? (I'm not calling you socially weird, I'm just going off of what you are saying that you have social anxiety and Aspergers).

most people here are polite, but it can be easy to remember only the ones who were dicks. I've had a few girls openly say things to me that I never hear in the west. (We Americans have better manners then people want to give us credit for, women included). I could see why you would be upset.

though sometimes this can be a good thing, some of the girls I hooked up with gave me blunt feedback, usually not asked for but it was very helpful.

One of the things about the Philippines is that some people are so sensitive yet can be so insensitive to others.

Every country will have its dick bags and jerk offs, you just have to learn to avoid these people.

Sounds like the Philippines is just not for you. That's okay! Thailand might be your country to chill. Whatever makes you happy.
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#90

The truth about the Philippines

Reading through this thread makes me think of Scott Adam's theory about 2 movies. The guys who love the Phils and those who hate it are seeing the same material through different lenses. No minds will be changed. If you hate it, feel free to stop going on and on about it. It's a big world out there.
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#91

The truth about the Philippines

It's not just him, Filipinas have developed a really sassy and in some cases downright bitchy attitude. They used to be sweet and submissive and in many cases visibly nervous to even be on a date with a young white guy. Now they are overly confident, have an over inflated sense of their own value and shit test frequently. It's complete newbies who have been here for a mere month or two that don't see this obvious difference.

It didn't use to be like this... it's a new thing and it's not hard to guess why it has developed. This is THE most hyped place in the world to go for women now and men from all across the planet are hitting on these girls. Men from the Middle East, East Asia, the West, plus increasingly wealthy locals. Add to that Manila's reputation and the kind of man it attracts, and the girls are bound to have made plenty of sleazy experiences that put them on guard.

But even without that, Filipinas have always been difficult in situations where their relative SMV is high... try picking them up in Sydney or California (the ones who've lived there for a while, not the FOBs)... see how well you do.

Even back when I was a rock star here, I saw the super hot pinays treat local men they perceived as lower value like trash. The natural pinays that you might still find in the provinces (especially where there is no internet access) are hands down the sweetest girls I've ever met in my life, no contest... Many pinays who perceive themselves to be high value though have been the biggest pain in the ass chicks I've come across also.
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#92

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-17-2018 01:55 AM)Duke Main Wrote:  

Reading through this thread makes me think of Scott Adam's theory about 2 movies. The guys who love the Phils and those who hate it are seeing the same material through different lenses. No minds will be changed. If you hate it, feel free to stop going on and on about it. It's a big world out there.
These lenses are easily explained.

1. The looks lense

If you're actually a pretty good looking guy, yeah you'll still get the kind of results everyone has read about or at least similar. Every young white guy used to get these results years ago, which is what made the place famous.

I'm not classically good looking... I'm okay but don't get described as handsome very often, but I got the top girls that were available here, and I got them very, very easily... now I don't. Even when I use the same pictures from back then.

2. The experience lense

If you have been here for years, you are now experiencing the current Filipino SMP as a massive step down. If you just arrived from the West, you will still experience the Filipino SMP as a step up.

I'm sure we can add a few lenses to this list but it's not that some guys are right and some guys are wrong. It's simply different relative SMV, different past experience, etc.
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#93

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-17-2018 01:38 AM)Duke.33 Wrote:  

Some girls here can be extremely rude, its not because they are rude they are just insensitive and think its funny pointing out other peoples flaws. Some people that have very low self esteem want others to treat them poorly. I noticed that some of the girls I talked to who were the rudest here also would complain how people are rude to them. Its a self fulfilling prophesy. You have to learn to not take these things personally.

I imagine some girls here pointed out you come off socially weird? (I'm not calling you socially weird, I'm just going off of what you are saying that you have social anxiety and Aspergers).

most people here are polite, but it can be easy to remember only the ones who were dicks. I've had a few girls openly say things to me that I never hear in the west. (We Americans have better manners then people want to give us credit for, women included). I could see why you would be upset.

though sometimes this can be a good thing, some of the girls I hooked up with gave me blunt feedback, usually not asked for but it was very helpful.

One of the things about the Philippines is that some people are so sensitive yet can be so insensitive to others.

Every country will have its dick bags and jerk offs, you just have to learn to avoid these people.

Sounds like the Philippines is just not for you. That's okay! Thailand might be your country to chill. Whatever makes you happy.

They lack any sort of class or grace. One of the first things I noticed at the airport.

And they're constantly talking down to you. I was at a Korean/Japanese spot recently, and a damn good one at that, while getting some lunch. The moment I walked in staff started doing that stupid OA (overacting) nonsense where they're laughing and trying to chum around with you to gain your trust and seem likable. I get seated and they start crowding me and explaining what individual menu items are in some goofy babytalk until I snapped at them and said I completely understand that Yakisoba is 'Japanese pancit'. I can see the fucking pictures on the fucking menu.

If you observe their interaction with locals, it's all even-keeled and levelheaded for the most part. Then they turn to you and start mimicking a fake American accent. "Hi, I'm Rick from Daly City and I just moved in right next door to you. What's poppin, bro!" [Image: tard.gif]

Quote: (10-17-2018 01:55 AM)Duke Main Wrote:  

Reading through this thread makes me think of Scott Adam's theory about 2 movies. The guys who love the Phils and those who hate it are seeing the same material through different lenses. No minds will be changed. If you hate it, feel free to stop going on and on about it. It's a big world out there.

Noticed that from such a rift in the vlogging and expat community here. Say a single negative thing about their newly adopted country and they're all in arms and ready to fight. No one notices the truth here until it turns bloody red or black and blue.

Maine and Canadian lobsters are the same animal. Prove me wrong.
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#94

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-17-2018 02:16 AM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  

Quote: (10-17-2018 01:38 AM)Duke.33 Wrote:  

Some girls here can be extremely rude, its not because they are rude they are just insensitive and think its funny pointing out other peoples flaws. Some people that have very low self esteem want others to treat them poorly. I noticed that some of the girls I talked to who were the rudest here also would complain how people are rude to them. Its a self fulfilling prophesy. You have to learn to not take these things personally.

I imagine some girls here pointed out you come off socially weird? (I'm not calling you socially weird, I'm just going off of what you are saying that you have social anxiety and Aspergers).

most people here are polite, but it can be easy to remember only the ones who were dicks. I've had a few girls openly say things to me that I never hear in the west. (We Americans have better manners then people want to give us credit for, women included). I could see why you would be upset.

though sometimes this can be a good thing, some of the girls I hooked up with gave me blunt feedback, usually not asked for but it was very helpful.

One of the things about the Philippines is that some people are so sensitive yet can be so insensitive to others.

Every country will have its dick bags and jerk offs, you just have to learn to avoid these people.

Sounds like the Philippines is just not for you. That's okay! Thailand might be your country to chill. Whatever makes you happy.

They lack any sort of class or grace. One of the first things I noticed at the airport.

And they're constantly talking down to you. I was at a Korean/Japanese spot recently, and a damn good one at that, while getting some lunch. The moment I walked in staff started doing that stupid OA (overacting) nonsense where they're laughing and trying to chum around with you to gain your trust seem likable. I get seated and they start crowding me and explaining what individual menu items are in some goofy, babytalk until I snapped at them and said I completely understand that Yakisoba is 'Japanese pancit'. I can see the fucking pictures on the fucking menu.

If you observe their interaction with locals, it's all even-keeled and levelheaded for the most part. Then they turn to you and start mimicking a fake American accent. "Hi, I'm Rick from Daly City and I just moved in right next door to you. What's poppin, bro!" [Image: tard.gif]

Quote: (10-17-2018 01:55 AM)Duke Main Wrote:  

Reading through this thread makes me think of Scott Adam's theory about 2 movies. The guys who love the Phils and those who hate it are seeing the same material through different lenses. No minds will be changed. If you hate it, feel free to stop going on and on about it. It's a big world out there.

Noticed that from such a rift in the vlogging and expat community here. Say a single negative thing about their newly adopted country and they're all in arms and ready to fight. No one notices the truth here until it turns bloody red or black and blue.

Not really...

We've got 4 pages now with plenty of negatives and no one's up in arms. I'd say the positive side has actually been fairly quiet on this one.

I'm going with Duke Main's lenses theory.
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#95

The truth about the Philippines

Quote: (10-17-2018 02:23 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

Quote: (10-17-2018 02:16 AM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  

Quote: (10-17-2018 01:38 AM)Duke.33 Wrote:  

Some girls here can be extremely rude, its not because they are rude they are just insensitive and think its funny pointing out other peoples flaws. Some people that have very low self esteem want others to treat them poorly. I noticed that some of the girls I talked to who were the rudest here also would complain how people are rude to them. Its a self fulfilling prophesy. You have to learn to not take these things personally.

I imagine some girls here pointed out you come off socially weird? (I'm not calling you socially weird, I'm just going off of what you are saying that you have social anxiety and Aspergers).

most people here are polite, but it can be easy to remember only the ones who were dicks. I've had a few girls openly say things to me that I never hear in the west. (We Americans have better manners then people want to give us credit for, women included). I could see why you would be upset.

though sometimes this can be a good thing, some of the girls I hooked up with gave me blunt feedback, usually not asked for but it was very helpful.

One of the things about the Philippines is that some people are so sensitive yet can be so insensitive to others.

Every country will have its dick bags and jerk offs, you just have to learn to avoid these people.

Sounds like the Philippines is just not for you. That's okay! Thailand might be your country to chill. Whatever makes you happy.

They lack any sort of class or grace. One of the first things I noticed at the airport.

And they're constantly talking down to you. I was at a Korean/Japanese spot recently, and a damn good one at that, while getting some lunch. The moment I walked in staff started doing that stupid OA (overacting) nonsense where they're laughing and trying to chum around with you to gain your trust seem likable. I get seated and they start crowding me and explaining what individual menu items are in some goofy, babytalk until I snapped at them and said I completely understand that Yakisoba is 'Japanese pancit'. I can see the fucking pictures on the fucking menu.

If you observe their interaction with locals, it's all even-keeled and levelheaded for the most part. Then they turn to you and start mimicking a fake American accent. "Hi, I'm Rick from Daly City and I just moved in right next door to you. What's poppin, bro!" [Image: tard.gif]

Quote: (10-17-2018 01:55 AM)Duke Main Wrote:  

Reading through this thread makes me think of Scott Adam's theory about 2 movies. The guys who love the Phils and those who hate it are seeing the same material through different lenses. No minds will be changed. If you hate it, feel free to stop going on and on about it. It's a big world out there.

Noticed that from such a rift in the vlogging and expat community here. Say a single negative thing about their newly adopted country and they're all in arms and ready to fight. No one notices the truth here until it turns bloody red or black and blue.

Not really...

We've got 4 pages now with plenty of negatives and no one's up in arms. I'd say the positive side has actually been fairly quiet on this one.

I'm going with Duke Main's lenses theory.

Talking about expats living in the country, not RVF people.

Maine and Canadian lobsters are the same animal. Prove me wrong.
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Quote: (10-17-2018 02:08 AM)Enhanced Eddie Wrote:  

These lenses are easily explained.

1. The looks lense

If you're actually a pretty good looking guy, yeah you'll still get the kind of results everyone has read about or at least similar. Every young white guy used to get these results years ago, which is what made the place famous.

I'm not classically good looking... I'm okay but don't get described as handsome very often, but I got the top girls that were available here, and I got them very, very easily... now I don't. Even when I use the same pictures from back then.

2. The experience lense

If you have been here for years, you are now experiencing the current Filipino SMP as a massive step down. If you just arrived from the West, you will still experience the Filipino SMP as a step up.

I'm sure we can add a few lenses to this list but it's not that some guys are right and some guys are wrong. It's simply different relative SMV, different past experience, etc.

As for looks, I'm a rather good-looking guy and young. I simply get better results in other SEA countries, while investing less time into chasing girls. Sexually Filipinas are hit or miss. I got some of my best lays there with horny bubbly girls that love semen, but also many bad lays with a lot of LMR.

But that's not the main point. The main point, as other members have well explained, is that I don't go into a 3rd-world shithole full of IQ-deficit NPCs to, on top of that, have to tolerate the shitty attitude from the locals. I simply don't get the same treatment in other SEA countries, where they are for the most part likeable although there will always be a minority of less likeable ones. In the Philippines, the majority of the people behave badly towards us foreign fuckboys.
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i got more matches in poland than in manila with the same profile pictures
no joke
we all know phillipines is starting to get overrated
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"I don't go into a 3rd-world shithole full of IQ-deficit NPCs to, on top of that, have to tolerate the shitty attitude from the locals. I simply don't get the same treatment in other SEA countries, where they are for the most part likeable although there will always be a minority of less likeable ones. In the Philippines, the majority of the people behave badly towards us foreign fuckboys."

Nailed it. The constant glares get annoying. Plus the personalities of the girls are very spotty. All of the above posts nail it. You can get laid, just depends on what you're willing to tolerate.

Manila didn't feel any better or easier than Thailand to me--and Thailand has vastly better personalities, both the girls and day to day.

Cebu Tinder remains the easiest I've seen. I found it notably better than Manila, if all you're interested in is gritting your teeth for a week to get some easy lays, just get ready for a real fourth world attitude and surroundings.
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I lived in Manila for a year recently left to other SEA countries, and then Europe, the attitudes are far better, even in Poland i felt it was more friendy and genuine than phillipines, filipinos are not friendly, curious maybe, polite yes, but most will not be your best friends or even want to be friends with you at all, it doesnt mean all are bad theres still some nice people but not enough thats for sure, i think people confuse true friendliness with politeness, the constant bad comments, attention, hey Joe etc got on my nerves , i dont even respond to these comments anymore,

hey joe where u from ? Annoying and not even worth replying to
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Thats interesting, I find Cebu tinder not great,Manila felt stronger. I also do way better in Manila, so many girls are open to my player lifestyle alot of them are cool with it. And they sleep around too which I'm cool with.

Cebu the girls I sleep with seem less open to my lifestyle maybe I'm wrong.

In Manila I have a roster, here I'm down to 1 girl in Cebu.

I also noticed alot of girls have Western attitudes. So what, I call girls out for being like that, if a girls a bitch tell her to back off, no need to take that shit. Most are chill.

Can't say glaring is really that common. Usually the guys in my hotel smile at me. I once told a taxi driver I banged my date already we high fived.

There's some serious fuckboy locals we even shared photos of girls we tapped here.

Haven't been to Thailand yet but from what I hear they aren't in love with Foreigners.
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