[regulardude7]

I randomly bumped into the lady who gave me a fake number this morning and said she was going to meet me tonight, what should I have done?

It was 5 minutes before our date, first she acted like she didn't know me, then she smiled sarcastically and said she was meeting her friends.


I thought to myself I can't kill her that will ruin my life .

I then thought to myself I can't beat her or smack her, people around might see a woman being attacked, and then attack me and save her.

then I thought how she wasted my time and effort and thought it's bullshit if she wasn't punished.


I had a water bottle in my hand, but alas I lacked the presence of mind to throw it at her.


If I threw it at her I wouldn't have risked too much, and it would've been a nice little punishment.


My question is: How can I punish a girl who maliciously and intentionally wasted my time, without risking too much?

[jselysianeagle]

> My question is: How can I punish a girl who maliciously and intentionally wasted my time, without risking too much?

You don't.

Instead you should focus on two things:

1) Building up yourself to a point where shit like this doesn't happen in the first place. ie, most women should be thrilled by the prospect of getting fucked by you.

2) Having enough options and things goin on in your life that shit like this doesn't prompt you to post on an internet forum. This means enough activities and hobbies that you're interested in, goals of your own, a harem of women you can call at any time so that if one flakes, it's no big deal etc.

Looks like it's time you got to work.

[regulardude7]

I mean most women show up and I have stuff going on in my life, but it's still very annoying.

[Jetset]

LOL, wut?

That all of this stuff would even go through your head is a serious impulse control and self-worth problem. Why would you need to "punish" anyone? You should be worried about building yourself up, not tearing some low-value woman down.

In any case, the most effective "punishment" for a woman is almost always withdrawing all attention and forgetting about her. Even when she cheats, just disappear from her world like she never meant a thing. Sticking around to battle it out in any way just validates her belief that she's the best you can do.

[regulardude7]

this actually bothers me a lot more than cheating, because when a girl cheats at least she get pleasure from it, whereas there's not apparent reason for a girl to intentionally do this unless she has a fucked up brain.

[gework]

Jack Smith IV has found a new home.

[Jetset]

(10-04-2018 01:01 PM)regulardude7 Wrote:  

this actually bothers me a lot more than cheating, because when a girl cheats at least she get pleasure from it, whereas there's not apparent reason for a girl to intentionally do this unless she has a fucked up brain.

Old joke from a movie. Kid is talking to an old gangster.

"This guy owes me twenty dollars and he's avoiding me. How do I make him pay me back?"

"What, do you like this guy or something?"

"No, he's an asshole."

"Stop. You just got rid of an asshole for twenty dollars. That's a great deal."

Maybe she's socially inept and can't say "no". Maybe she didn't like you or your approach. Maybe she really does have a fucked up brain and goes home to masturbate to all her lies.

Who cares? You win not wasting a night on her. Blast your other plates a generic message and see what they're doing. You have other plates, right?

[regulardude7]

nah she definitely has a fucked up brain.. she said it's good that Putin is killing political dissidents and destroying democracies.

[LeBeau]

Should be in Newbie Forum

[DarkTriad]

(10-04-2018 12:48 PM)regulardude7 Wrote:  

I randomly bumped into the lady who gave me a fake number this morning and said she was going to meet me tonight, what should I have done?

It was 5 minutes before our date, first she acted like she didn't know me, then she smiled sarcastically and said she was meeting her friends.


I thought to myself I can't kill her that will ruin my life .

I then thought to myself I can't beat her or smack her, people around might see a woman being attacked, and then attack me and save her.

then I thought how she wasted my time and effort and thought it's bullshit if she wasn't punished.


I had a water bottle in my hand, but alas I lacked the presence of mind to throw it at her.


If I threw it at her I wouldn't have risked too much, and it would've been a nice little punishment.


My question is: How can I punish a girl who maliciously and intentionally wasted my time, without risking too much?

You need to get on the next flight to Bangkok, walk right into the biggest night club district....and keep walking until you find a Buddhist Monastery. Then you're going to have to study there intensely until this crazy ass bullshit stops popping into your head.

This is like when we act like we're a little more into a girl than we are to get the bang, and her crazy ass head thinks that legitimizes horrifically evil false accusations because they think it's right for them to "punish" us. Hey, we "intentionally and maliciously wasted' her time, what else can she do?

If you don't think the Buddhism would be a solution for you, you could keep walking to the nearest Islamic country, and put together moped posse for acid attacks on women you want to punish.

Life ain't perfect, you aren't always going to get a fair one, but I suggest you choose civilization over barbarism.

[DarkTriad]

(10-04-2018 01:20 PM)LeBeau Wrote:  

Should be in Newbie Forum

Should be in the Agent Provocateur forum. He's got 9 posts, and his views reflect how a deranged feminazi would imagine our talks would sound like.

She thinks she's going to "get in with the guys" and at the same time come up with some screenshots to show her friends about what scumbags we are.

The tells -

Getting stood up is common, irritating, time wasting and disrespectful thing to do, but women are the ones that think bad romantic encounters deserve horrific punishments (like false accusations), not men. Men are looking at it more from the practical end, considering how many women you need to date in modern society to find a quality one, not looking for justifications for savage punishment when things don't work out in our favor.

[regulardude7]

It's not getting stood up. You make it sound like she changed her mind.



No, she intended this from the beginning.

[Jetset]

(10-04-2018 01:43 PM)regulardude7 Wrote:  

It's not getting stood up. You make it sound like she changed her mind.

No, she intended this from the beginning.

What difference does it make?

If you have a date with an 8, you should have at least one 6 on unconfirmed backup to "maybe meet for a drink" after your "business dinner". Whether the 8 flakes on you or just doesn't bang, or even if she does and you can shove her out of your apartment fast enough, you can keep your evening moving.

If it works out and she's good for a second nut, your "business dinner ran long and you have to cancel, sorry, let's make it tomorrow".

Forget the goofy bitch. Hit a taco truck and have a nice cheap night, do some cold approaches and get a couple numbers, then go make the backup plate's night.

Manage your schedule tightly. Sort plates efficiently. Think abundantly. Change the sheets regularly, or, whatever, don't. It'll be lulzy as hell if one complains about the other's wet spot.

[DimeBait]

. . . and you wonder why she gave you a fake number. SMH

[DarkTriad]

(10-04-2018 02:01 PM)Jetset Wrote:  

(10-04-2018 01:43 PM)regulardude7 Wrote:  

It's not getting stood up. You make it sound like she changed her mind.

No, she intended this from the beginning.

What difference does it make?

If you have a date with an 8, you should have at least one 6 on unconfirmed backup to "maybe meet for a drink" after your "business dinner". Whether the 8 flakes on you or just doesn't bang, or even if she does and you can shove her out of your apartment fast enough, you can keep your evening moving.

If it works out and she's good for a second nut, your "business dinner ran long and you have to cancel, sorry, let's make it tomorrow".

Forget the goofy bitch. Hit a taco truck and have a nice cheap night, do some cold approaches and get a couple numbers, then go make the backup plate's night.

Manage your schedule tightly. Sort plates efficiently. Think abundantly. Change the sheets regularly, or, whatever, don't. It'll be lulzy as hell if one complains about the other's wet spot.

Sadly enough, Jetset is 100% correct, double booking is the only practical defense to modern levels of flaking.

[Hippie Dippie]

You would hit her if there were no witnesses? That's pathetic.

[pitt]

(10-04-2018 01:18 PM)regulardude7 Wrote:  

nah she definitely has a fucked up brain.. she said it's good that Putin is killing political dissidents and destroying democracies.

The only person with a fucked up brain is you, you are taking this way too personal, there is no way you have that much options otherwise it wouldn't bother you like it does. No woman has the obligation to give you her number, that's her personal choice. Nobody owns you anything.

[MANic]

(10-04-2018 01:09 PM)Jetset Wrote:  

(10-04-2018 01:01 PM)regulardude7 Wrote:  

this actually bothers me a lot more than cheating, because when a girl cheats at least she get pleasure from it, whereas there's not apparent reason for a girl to intentionally do this unless she has a fucked up brain.

Old joke from a movie. Kid is talking to an old gangster.

"This guy owes me twenty dollars and he's avoiding me. How do I make him pay me back?"

"What, do you like this guy or something?"

"No, he's an asshole."

"Stop. You just got rid of an asshole for twenty dollars. That's a great deal."

^ Is that from A Bronx Tale? Really enjoyed that movie as a kid, well made and kinda makes you long for a simpler time. I always fancied myself living in 60's New York as a kid due to movies like that.

Of course some of the white nationalist folk here would consider it a race-mixing propoganda film (no shock De Niro loves dat der chocolate)...

[regulardude7]

Pitt I'm 100% ok if she doesn't give me her number, just don't say you're going to meet me at 8, give me a fake number etc and waste my time.

[regulardude7]

ugh... it turns out it wasn't fake coz I just called her...she didn't speak but the phone was answered...

[kirdiesel]

Women do not like confrontation and rather do anything in the world not to explain to you why they aren't interested.

Thus you get a fake number and fake commitment.

I don't understand why a flake should be bothering you this much.

[regulardude7]

No she's not German to the German guy, she was 100% a confident Russian who would've...would've just said no if she wanted to.

[Tercio viejo]

If one girl gives you a fake number or lies to you, it's okay. Just don't waste your time with her childish games and focus on girls who appreciate you. you won't win anything getting your own back. Just quite the opposite, sadly, she can fuck you up as she want.

Would you get mad if a little kid lied to you, or if they were a nuisance? No, you would simply understand that they are kids, and that's what they are suppose to do. You have a good grasp of the nature of kids and you have internalized that they are acting according to the way the evolved

Same with women. Women hate confrontation, above all with males since this could have cost her life a while back. Therefore, women will lie to you without even blinking for the sake of avoiding conflicts. Just accept it and get it over.

My piece of advice: You should look for more girls and forget about that one.

[kaotic]

OP has some issues he was to work through, especially if he wants to harm a woman for being....a woman.

Time to step back and chill out.

Women flake and bullshit guys all the time, it's your job to filter out shitty girls.

The less of a shit you give, the more you'll be better off when it comes to women.


The best revenge on a stupid bitch like that is her seeing you with a hotter girl having fun.

[kirdiesel]

(10-04-2018 03:16 PM)regulardude7 Wrote:  

No she's not German to the German guy, she was 100% a confident Russian who would've...would've just said no if she wanted to.

Not German. Just live in Germany.

Lastly. Why in the hell are you asking a women out during the day for the same night?

You are supposed to be already booked up and busy with other women or other things. High value men already have plans before the weekend hits.

By asking a woman out for the same day looks like you got nothing else going on in your life and are thirsty.

"if he was a high value and in demand man why does he have so much time on his hands?" Im sure that feeling ran through her.

A fake number also means that your overall pull was trash cause that never happens to me. I don't remember the last time I got a fake number and I am not by any means a guru.