Quote: (10-12-2018 06:03 AM)zatara Wrote:
An "average" 25 year old has far more options with prime women aged 18-29 than an "average" 35 year old. Money or no money, most men by 35 have aged horribly physically.
Without smoking, seriously debilitating levels of drug and alcohol consumption, or some other similar failure of self care... 35 isn't an age men usually show aging in a horrible way. In most sports male athletes peak between 30 and 37.
The big decline that will hit the "average" man between 25 and 35 is they will find "their lane" in life. Up through at least 40-50 most of what is going to hold a man back is:
- Social status.
- The psychological drive to find a defensible place in the tribal heirarchy.
- Consistently aggressing above their station and losing.
Picking a defensible place in the social hierarchy and defending it isn't the end of the world, but it also isn't going to get the best arm candy to show off. That probably accounts for 95% of your 35 year olds who can't manage to pull three dates and two bangs with a 21 year old. In a healthy society these are people following the priviledge their parents blessed them with and accepting things they can not change without risking ostracism.
People who consistently aggress above their station are your incels. These are the people who lack the ability to decipher social cues where they would die from hazing after being pressed into an army before the war started. In a healthy society their deaths reinforce to masculine values to other men, and today they just fed post and school shoot while the men who could have learned from their mistakes soy themselves to death.
In our triple post modern poz'd to hell society it has never been easier to avoid settling and ride social status that increases with age until you can draw a social security check, though girls are probably find your looks falling off when you hit 50 while the other guys will start calling you old man at 32.
Human sexual dimporphism is a thing and girl's disgust and arousal thresholds appear to be wired in a far more flexible way than men's in order to make the whole procreation thing possible. A man will fuck a hog of a girl with shame and regret the next day, but if all a girl has available is a sack of shit she will fell like an absolute queen so long as she can lock down the best, or at least a 10th percentile log of shit.
When older 35-50 year old men get in trouble with prime age girls is when the additional later information clarifies the social hierarchy and the girls realize they could have hooked more status. This is the root of instagram sterility disease, girls getting validated until they are dry Hillary prunes because dudes they don't have enough information to write off give them validation beyond their station.
