[The Catalyst]

Was watching this earlier.

The tldw is that there are three kinds of girls, the party girl, bookworm and prom queen. Each of them wants drama/excitement, chilling out at home/connection, and socialising respectively. Thus you would be the archetypes of the guys they want, which are bad boy, nice guy, and (social) leader respectively.

From my experience this broad categorisation/framework seems mostly accurate. If this is true though, there's quite a lot of hurdles for me- I'd mostly prefer the bookworm archetype and the vanishingly small # of attractive girls in NZ aren't bookwormy, or at least the bookworms aren't reliably available for me to approach in daygame(can't find them). At the same time, I really don't like the idea of being overly dramatic or social.

[MarshalZhukov]

all three of them want the bad boy

[HustleNomad]

Get out of NZ man. Best choice I ever made. It sucks because I love a lot of things about it... but you won't find what you're looking for in a woman there. Get to central/east Europe and meet a bunch of girls, you'll see what I mean.

No matter who she is you must still keep gaming her and inserting drama when needed though. You will still lose "that" girl if you don't.

[BeardedMastodon]

What about a 4th type. The girls that’s hot that doesn’t have much interests... or passions...
Doesently like go drink or party particularly, does not read much and has so few friends drama is not a problem. This is real.

I met a girl, she had no specific interests or hobbies and introverted, and did not go out of her way to make friends. Just plays video games, watches Netflix, goes to the gym, school... and repeat. Does not even need to hang out with people.

[chvrches]

What if i told you there's no "one type of girl" locked and you limit yourself for thinking like that?

The bookworm can be extroverted as fuck once you open her up and she'd want to fuck all the time. The prom queen might have some deep underlying insecurities when you get to know her better and the party girl is tired of fucking chads and probably want to settle down for a beta that treats her well in the end.

[Trent W.]

I think in broad terms this categorization works. However in my opinion, the most thorough classification of personality types when it comes to women and sex/dating comes from Vin Dicarlo's Pandora's Box.

According to his model there are 8 personality types. I won't go into detail here, but I would recommend checking it out. It gives you an idea on how to read what a woman expects when it comes to sex, relationships and how much time she needs. It can help you tailor your approach.

[BlackFriar]

@BeardedMastadon:


That chick is a dude. She might have a dick. Watch out!



BeardedMastodon
What about a 4th type. The girls that’s hot that doesn’t have much interests... or passions...
Doesently like go drink or party particularly, does not read much and has so few friends drama is not a problem. This is real.

I met a girl, she had no specific interests or hobbies and introverted, and did not go out of her way to make friends. Just plays video games, watches Netflix, goes to the gym, school... and repeat. Does not even need to hang out with people.

[Batman_]

(08-30-2018 10:34 PM)The Catalyst Wrote:  

Almost all women want drama/excitement, chilling out at home/connection, and socialising. Thus you would be the archetypes of the guys they want, which are the bad boy, leader, and "nice guy" if they've hit the wall/have kids and want a provider they can control.

Fixed it for you. Women of all types generally want the same things. I think most differences boil down to how old they are and how much dicking they've had.