[AneroidOcean]

(02-13-2019 04:16 AM)Thot____Patroller Wrote:  

Thanks, this was definitely one of the best responses. It's definitely more for myself than for other people, I just don't feel normal with it, and like you, it's one of those that was hard to ignore. I realised how much of a problem it was when I started working out for a good 3 months around 2 years ago, I actually got some decent gains and my body was looking good. I stopped working out 3 months in because there was a 2-way mirror in the gym and I saw my nose from the side, I thought to myself why bother working out with such a deformity on my face? I just feel like I haven't fully started living life yet, and this could be the first step I can take. What age did you do yours by the way?

It concerns me that you haven't worked out in 2 years and you only worked out for 3 months but quit because of your nose. The amount of disgust people would have for you in the gym vs. when picking up girls especially in a bar/club setting is FAR, far less. Nearly non-existent.

For this reason I'm not advising you to not change your nose, but you damn better be ready to spend far more effort on improving yourself in other ways and most importantly in your psyche. You don't have a problem with just your nose, you have an internal problem that is holding you back as well. Improving one will not eradicate the other, so keep that in mind. Your mind is the most powerful thing in the world that you have control over, start to sharpen it into a tool that cuts through all the bullshit, right to where you want to go.

Good luck.

[Rorogue]

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[Al O'Peesha]

I can sympathise, because I grew up with jug ears. I was your age when I got them fixed.

Until I was twelve years old I had a seventies-style haircut to cover them; this was in the mid-eighties. I then decided to own it and got a proper haircut. Cue years of 'Jumbo', 'FA Cup', 'Big ears' and every variant of said insults. It's amazing how everybody seems to think they're the first to notice...

I used to tell myself that I could just live with it, though it seemed that everybody else had an issue.
The final straw was when I was on Dublin on a mini-break and some Irish slut I tried to pick up called me Prince Charles.
Fuck this for a game of soldiers, I thought.

OP, I can't read your mind so I don't know whether getting your nose fixed will improve matters. All I can say is that it was life-changing for me in the best possible way.
The insults stopped overnight.

Did it translate into success with women? To be honest, I'm nowhere near the level I want to be in that respect, but that's nothing to do with my ears; it's more to do with remnants of blue-pill thinking and an outlook that I'm slowly starting to shake off, thanks mainly to this forum.
The main thing is that I had a real issue with this aspect of my appearance. It was always at the back of my mind when talking to people, let alone women. Now - and this is the main thing - it never crosses my mind anymore. Whatever I'm doing, it's not a millstone round my neck, dragging me down.

Do your homework and make sure you have every confidence in the clinic you choose if you decide to take action. All the best.

[subterfuge]

(02-15-2019 10:03 AM)Al OPeesha Wrote:  

The final straw was when I was on Dublin on a mini-break and some Irish slut I tried to pick up called me Prince Charles.
Fuck this for a game of soldiers, I thought.

lol, it's rough isn't it.
I can think of tonnes of instances like this where either my skin (was cursed with cystic acne as a kid) or my big nose or something else was to blame where I got the rudest rejections after just trying to make conversation with a hot young girl in a bar. ''What's wrong with your face?'' I reply with some PUA line or something and she just walks away. Or she comments on me having a big nose and I laugh it off and agree/amplify etc and then try to talk to her and she just basically ignores me lol. It stings a little haha

No matter how much 'game' I learned and 'agreed an amplified' with their comments on my face after I opened them either directly or indirectly (night game) or whatever, if a girl was put off by my looks/didn't find me attractive, it always resulted in rejection. 'Game' isn't some sort of black magic unfortunately lol. She needs to find you physically attractive on some level. In the same way my handsome friends can get away with doing everything 'wrong' in terms of game, but still get laid. We live in a very superficial world. Just the way it is.
Game certainly exists, but it can only be played on 'maybe' girls (turning them from a maybe too a yes) and on 'yes' girls (get the lay faster)

OP - What I will say in regards to noses though, it that just having a bit of a big nose is not necessarily bad. It can look masculine, especially if the rest of your features are strong. How is the general shape and 'width' and stuff? And the rest of you face?

The worst kind is what i have (i'm looking to get surgery too). Big 'fat' nose whilst also NOT having other strong facial features.

[Swordfish1010]

(02-12-2019 02:35 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

(02-12-2019 02:29 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  

REAL MEN ARE UGLY AF.

And where did you come up with that philosophy?

When people say things like that (looks don't matter at all!!!), I assume they can't get laid without paying for it.

[kazz]

My advice, if your nose is as bad as you say save up find a good doc and do it.

I had a rhinoplasty after I was KO'd square in the schnoz and then kicked a few times in the same place.

It surprisingly didnt look that bad considering the trauma when It healed. But I Im kind of vain so I got it done anyway, it ended up looking great much better than even before I got clocked.

[Atomic Lush]

Lots of good advice in here. Thanks to the OP for starting the thread. You have helped many people. Don't worry about what your family thinks. You have to live your life on your terms. If they have a problem with it they will get over it.

I have some advice for you: Change your Tinder location to Tehran. Many women have nose jobs. It's very common there. Women wear their post-op bandage as a status symbol.

We all need to work on our inner game. In other words, your nose or relations with random females will not bring happiness.

The women you meet during night game can be harsh. I'm guessing if you spent more time at a community college or University you would find some sympathetic females. I don't know you but you might be isolating. Maybe you spend too much time alone obsessing about your nose. Hopefully you can develop a social circle of people who care about you despite your nose.

[womanapproacher]

I spent most of my youth from 16-24 obsessing about my semi hook nose. I thought it was the worst curse a man could possibly have. Now I know it really isn't worth halting the rest of you're life for.

If you can afford rhino then go for it without hesitation, if I could have had it at 18 I would have done, but I was still at college with no job back then.

The mistake I made was that I didn't approach the whole time, now at 30 I am still broke and have only lost out on time, since it turned out that I wasn't able to have my nose done after all.

[The Stronger Sex]

(02-13-2019 03:07 AM)Blue Bayou Wrote:  

A friend of mine from high school had a big nose. He was bullied mercilessly..was called big nose, banana nose, nose boy, etc. He was otherwise a good looking guy but the nose thing destroyed his confidence. He got a nose job and fixed the physical problem, but the confidence problem was still there. To this day he still doesn't like to approach women because of the memories of being called big nose.

So, you need to get the nose fixed and you also need to find a way to renew your confidence and shake off the negative self image that might be holding you back.

Yeah, and I can offer a counterexample to compliment yours. The biggest pussy slayer I know has a big nose. And women become waterfalls in his presence.

[bigbootyboy]

(02-12-2019 03:53 PM)eradicator Wrote:  

This reminds me of that dude who came onto the forum who wanted to get chin surgery, like he said he would be getting laid nonstop if he just got chin surgery.

I got chin surgery and it was totally worth it. I simply get better results for the same effort, about one point better than before. So it probably improved myself by a point.

That said you still need game obviously. It's like with lifting and style, it improves your results but game is instrumental to bring it all together. Still, I absolutely recommend plastic surgery to anyone that has an obvious physical flaw.

[Jeptomf]

If you want any information on facial reconstruction just PM me. I've had my face reconstructed 3 times in my life due to a congenital birth defect. Surgery sucks but it is temporary with life long results. All the advice everyone has given in the thread is valid. Without knowing your specifics it is impossible to advice. Your location, desired results, family and job will determine you course of action in choosing the right surgeon if you decide to do the surgery. Choosing the right surgeon is the most critical decision which will be made with limited information on the surgeon. However there are a few things you can do.