[Lightwalker]

Hey All,

I just got out of a 10 year relationship, and have read Bang, Day Bang, The Game, and all the online information I have been able to get my hands on regarding the PUA family. This means I am an extreme newbie. But, I am lacking the outgoing experience and I don't have anyone to go out with (nor do I know the venues to go to in the area) to see how things actually work and put everything together. So, if anyone would like a Wingman in Northern Virginia (Alexandria, Fairfax Area) and DC, I'm the guy.

Open almost every day except Tuesdays. Hit me up if anyone here would like to have a wingman that will not interfere with his game. Also, if it would be beneficial, we can orchestrate a professional video about your game (I do video productions), free of charge for personal use.

ROOSH V, if you would like to develop a Video Production, I would like to sort out a game plan to work on that project with you.

Lightwalker

[Hades]

My advice is roll dolo for a few weeks. Even if you just go out and only do three or four approaches, or none at all, any experience in going out alone will do more for you game wise than a wingman™.

[teh_skeeze]

I agree with Hades. You should start out by just hitting the town. Hit several venues a night until you find a few that fit your vibe. Do you have any friends you can go out with. I usually go out with friends, but do my own thing when it comes to the ladies.

[Lightwalker]

I really appreciate the prompt comments, and I agree to go out alone see the scene, I know that Father ROOSH, recommends it, but for me, I understand that it would be good to go out with someone with experience to see all the parts fit together.

[teh_skeeze]

You don't make it to the Major Leagues by sitting in the dugout. You need to get into the batter's box and face some live pitching. What works for one man may not necessarily work for you. Go make 100 approaches and take notes.

[Lightwalker]

Guys, thanks for pushing. Sometimes that is all it takes!! It really maybe that I don't feel comfortable. But its true, we have to face the pitcher in order to hit the ball.

[Harbinger]

(04-01-2013 08:42 PM)Lightwalker Wrote:  

Guys, thanks for pushing. Sometimes that is all it takes!! It really maybe that I don't feel comfortable. But its true, we have to face the pitcher in order to hit the ball.

If you ever in scotland I'll come out with you.

[edtf]

Lightwalker, don't give up going out alone. Last year I was completely new to game. I went out 4 times alone and made 0 approaches, and then the 5th time I ended up grinding and making out with a cute blonde girl. Get your feet wet first, your comfort zone will gradually adjust. Going out and making 0 approaches is still better than staying indoors waiting for a wingman. You have to be in charge of your own destiny.

[Travesty]

Going out alone forces you to find the most interesting venues with the most chicks you are attracted to because you have no other choice but complete boredom. Your standards for where you go out, what time, and for how long rise dramatically. You have no friendly banter to fallback on. In game terms it increases your efficiency like a motherfucker.

[Sebastian]

People go out of their way to help you online (eg: give you detailed instruction on how to fix a car) but in person is totally different. I doubt someone is willing to help you even if you offer something. Its like i dont know about rock climbing and ask someone give me some guidance. Maybe you will find someone naturally later. I never had good experiences with 'hey man lets meet up and hit on some bitches' type meetups.

[Philosopher]

(04-01-2013 08:42 PM)Lightwalker Wrote:  

Guys, thanks for pushing. Sometimes that is all it takes!! It really maybe that I don't feel comfortable. But its true, we have to face the pitcher in order to hit the ball.

Try daygame in a coffeeshop first. Just take your laptop to a cafe next time you want to post here and do an approach if an attractive girl appears. Minimum 2 hours. Hell, you can do your video stuff first. I started daygame by myself and after a year and a half- I was teaching it. Granted it was in a better environment than yours...