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Handling rejection properly
#26

Handling rejection properly

Guys, chill out on the wiseass snarky responses if you get rejected. Be cool and move on.... And you guys wonder why women have bitch shields?
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#27

Handling rejection properly

Quote: (09-30-2011 12:11 PM)houston Wrote:  

Gmac gave some great advice a while back. It's stuck with me.

When a girl says she has a bf, say "we just met and you're already telling me about your problems?" Or just keep talking and completely ignore that part.

Or, "So do I!"

Or, "dear, I think you have the wrong idea." (nuclear disqualification)

Or, "do you think every handsome guy that talks to you is hitting on you?"

Or, "are you the kind of girl who thinks every guy is trying to hit on her?"

Or the Solomon II special, "I don't care about your boyfriend, and you shouldn't either."

The conventional game wisdom is right, it's usually a shit test and should be ignored. If she IHAB's on close, she's either being honest (nothing you can do) or really doesn't want to go further (tweak your game) so you need to accept a failed approach.

Roosh said recently that almost every hot girl will have a boyfriend at all times, so it's worth it to learn how to run the slow-roll express. Keep in touch with her while you bang others.

Nonetheless, if you're getting a lot of IHAB, you might be coming on too strong at the start - if she's enjoying the interaction and you aren't putting any performance pressure on her (i.e. overly flirty/sexual talk) there's no reason for her to shoo you away. Chicks hold it as their prerogative to have conversations with interesting, attractive guys, and if their boyfriends protest their flirting around town they'll accuse them of being jealous. It's quite brilliant, actually, except that they think jealousy makes men hotter for them when it really just makes us think about dating a chick who will give us less shit.
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#28

Handling rejection properly

"Handling rejection properly consists of moving on to the next girl. "

+1. When I get bounced out of a set, my first instinct is to immediately open an adjacent woman. Half the time I catch the first girl looking at me, surprised and disappointed as she watches me flirt it up with another babe.

BTW, I didn't design it that way but that shit is straight out of Pride and Prejudice (Mr Collins).
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#29

Handling rejection properly

Quote: (09-30-2011 11:06 AM)PDX Wrote:  

Quote: (09-30-2011 09:40 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

And she drops ...I have a boyfriend. We live together.

I've been noticing how girls qualify their relationship status at the moment of closing lately. As if, they need to let you know how serious it is, because otherwise, you might have a shot.
See also: "I'm married, I have a 4 y/o daughter." "I'm engaged, we're getting married next month." Etc. I have no conclusions for this, just find it interesting.

As far as post-rejection, I usually just ramp down the conversation rather than just cutting it off. Feels more natural, plus, you never know when you might see her again, so best to keep the cool vibe on.

Also, getting her on Facebook is a good fallback if she won't give her #. At least then you have a means of contact or monitoring her relationship status.

It's funny you say that. I just got hit with that engaged and getting married next month line recently.

I started talking to a girl from high school again though facebook and she threw that at me. I talked through it like she didn't even say it. I invited her out for drinks at a nice lounge I frequent. She said yes. So we shall see. At the very least I can scam on her hot friends.

Team Nachos
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Handling rejection properly

Quote: (10-02-2011 12:38 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  

"Handling rejection properly consists of moving on to the next girl. "

+1. When I get bounced out of a set, my first instinct is to immediately open an adjacent woman. Half the time I catch the first girl looking at me, surprised and disappointed as she watches me flirt it up with another babe.

BTW, I didn't design it that way but that shit is straight out of Pride and Prejudice (Mr Collins).

I'm going to start putting this into practice. Assuming of course, that the new woman isn't a part of the former's group.

Vice-Captain - #TeamWaitAndSee
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#31

Handling rejection properly

Quote: (10-02-2011 12:30 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  

Quote: (09-30-2011 12:11 PM)houston Wrote:  

Gmac gave some great advice a while back. It's stuck with me.

When a girl says she has a bf, say "we just met and you're already telling me about your problems?" Or just keep talking and completely ignore that part.

Or, "So do I!"

That's pretty funny. I'm gonna start using my own version of that and see how it goes.

How's this?:
Yeah I had a boyfriend for a while when I was in prison, It didn't really work out. You know how possessive men can be.

If you can say it with a stone cold face and then smile 5 seconds after you're guaranteed to get a laugh out of her.

Team Nachos
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#32

Handling rejection properly

Alright I ran into this girl at Wendy's again today.

Snagged a few pics of her for you guys and for posterity.

She's like 5' tall with some nice perky C cups. LOL

I made sure to get the Wendy's cup in there. [Image: smile.gif]

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Team Nachos
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#33

Handling rejection properly

She looks like she's taking a dump in the second pic

friggin' hilarious that you got these shots off, kudos to you sir
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#34

Handling rejection properly

"i am not jealous"
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