I've been 'studying' various materials for a while now... and occasionally put it to use and get some good results.. the thing is, I don't push 'sexually' for the most part.
When I do push -- and I have great lines and great stories -- I'm 'working' - and when I'm working, its not a good time to be asking a HB for a #/email.
My work... its in law enforcement (generally in our city's 'entertainment district')... I take off the uniform, and I rarely flirt with women-- they aren't 'noticing me' - but, put on the uniform and they are watching me -- only then do I have that confidence to walk up and hit them with amazing openers that get them all over me (I just refuse to try & close due to the being at 'work').
Anyone with some advice for someone in my "predicament"? I don't want to be the 'cop' grabbing #'s when he's working. I have lots of confidence in everything I do - just not with women - when I am not wearing the uniform.
Comments? Suggestions?
When I do push -- and I have great lines and great stories -- I'm 'working' - and when I'm working, its not a good time to be asking a HB for a #/email.
My work... its in law enforcement (generally in our city's 'entertainment district')... I take off the uniform, and I rarely flirt with women-- they aren't 'noticing me' - but, put on the uniform and they are watching me -- only then do I have that confidence to walk up and hit them with amazing openers that get them all over me (I just refuse to try & close due to the being at 'work').
Anyone with some advice for someone in my "predicament"? I don't want to be the 'cop' grabbing #'s when he's working. I have lots of confidence in everything I do - just not with women - when I am not wearing the uniform.
Comments? Suggestions?