[Maximummax]

Hey folks

I got a question, when you talking to a girl for the first time and she brings up her ex-bf's or ex-busbands status like job or position he held in the company, how do you deal with it.

[torridon747]

I put her in the pump and dump category or I don't settle for an arrangement that's any more than fuck and leave.

That's rude and any woman worth her salt should hesitate bringing it up, even ask for permission - decent women I've been with have known that without being told. It goes beyond a shit test for me, it's a sign of a low quality human. I suppose you could chastise her for it and imply you're going to walk because of how rude it was if you're still trying to get into her pants.

[Synezthetic]

If you're ever asked to verbally defend your SMV/status to a woman - even indirectly, as in this case - you've pretty much already lost. This is the sort of supercharged shit-test that you pass by her never asking the question. It's the sort of bullshit that gets quelled not with words, but with the right actions early on - carrying yourself well, speaking confidently, and leaving a good first impression.

Women bringing up their Exes in conversation (frequency-wise within reason) is not in and of itself a serious red flag. It's pretty normal for women to mention Exes in a neutral context (a story where he happened to be there) or lightly negative (he was weird etc.) sort of context. Invoking an Ex as part of a shit-test is relatively rare occurrence - women are highly emotional and see things mostly in terms of themselves, never wanting to (publicly) give any sort of credit to a man who has moved on from them.

So, if a woman actually does this - brings her Ex up in a positive context, as a high status guy, in front of you - then she's either older and going for the money angle, the breakup was very recent and she still has major tingles/is being used by him for the occasional nut, or she just threw him into the conversation because she's a complete bitch and for no other reason.

In all cases, she is no longer worth any serious time or effort.

To quote the G Manifesto:
"Just throw Number in Trash"

[Lance Blastoff]

It means that she misses him and thinks they were superior to you.

You should do one of three things:

1. Not give a fuck. Expect that you will eventually break up with her and behave accordingly.
2. Not give a fuck, get your shit together, focus on becoming your best self and eventually dump the bitch.
3. Learn where the ex lives, stalk and kill him and cut off his skin, wear it and absorb his superior power.

Good luck!

[Lance Blastoff]

It means that she misses him and thinks they were superior to you.

You should do one of three things:

1. Not give a fuck. Expect that you will eventually break up with her and behave accordingly.
2. Not give a fuck, get your shit together, focus on becoming your best self and eventually dump the bitch.
3. Learn where the ex lives, stalk and kill him and cut off his skin, wear it and absorb his superior power.

Good luck!

[RatInTheWoods]

Its obvious you still fancy him, its a shame he left you for a younger, more attractive woman, isn't it?

[Simeon_Strangelight]

When she mentions the job of an ex, then this does not mean much. He could be a wuss for all you know leaving her dry.

It's more of a shit-test that women throw out or try to impress you with: "See who fucked me? I am hot shit."

Would not be concerned about it. His job is not the reason why a woman is an Alpha Widow - plenty of millionaires get cucked by the gardener.

[Maximummax]

one time i met an indian women who joined in my company, she told me she was married.

after speaking to her for few minutes ( i was not gaming her), she tells me her husband is so and so in a company.

i brushed it off and diverted the topic as i don't know what to do...

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(06-27-2018 08:28 AM)Maximummax Wrote:  

one time i met an indian women who joined in my company, she told me she was married.

after speaking to her for few minutes ( i was not gaming her), she tells me her husband is so and so in a company.

i brushed it off and diverted the topic as i don't know what to do...

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What do you want to do?

She is a married woman who tells you about her husband. That is what any sound woman should do when she is proud of her man and wants to brag. That is a good thing!

This has nothing to do with Alpha Widows - guys here should read up on the concept at rationalmale.com - check out Alpha Widows.