Want to pick the brain of seasoned cats regarding strategies to maintain to plates (in before dishwashing jokes haw haw)
I see plate maintenance as predominately text game and date game given you would see them once a week or even less frequently. How do you maintain that connection and not have things go stale or her seek other guys?
Text Game
When you see a girl once a week or even less frequently, text game is the mainstay of maintaining status quo
I feel texts must be a mixture of vanilla texts mixed in with texts that have some purpose and hopefully create/maintain an emotional connection and ideally a push-pull effect
So how do the seasoned cats manage this? How often to text? How do you mix it up to maintain a connection
Vanilla Texts
-checking in - see how they're going?
-sorting out logistics for next date
-random jokes / memes
Texts to create a connection
-describe their ideal holiday
-ideal day
-what other questions can be asked to create / maintain a connection
Date game
-obviously most if not all dates should lead to sex
-but obviously it's good to pair it up with fun things to do when you meet up
-what are good date ideas?
*out to dinner then back to yours
*home cooked dinners
^above would be mainstays
what are others?
-bushwalks/hikes
-museum/art galleries
-photowalks
-gym dates
-those escape rooms
-bowling/mini golf/arcade games
anything else? movie dates seem relatively lame
I see plate maintenance as predominately text game and date game given you would see them once a week or even less frequently. How do you maintain that connection and not have things go stale or her seek other guys?
Text Game
When you see a girl once a week or even less frequently, text game is the mainstay of maintaining status quo
I feel texts must be a mixture of vanilla texts mixed in with texts that have some purpose and hopefully create/maintain an emotional connection and ideally a push-pull effect
So how do the seasoned cats manage this? How often to text? How do you mix it up to maintain a connection
Vanilla Texts
-checking in - see how they're going?
-sorting out logistics for next date
-random jokes / memes
Texts to create a connection
-describe their ideal holiday
-ideal day
-what other questions can be asked to create / maintain a connection
Date game
-obviously most if not all dates should lead to sex
-but obviously it's good to pair it up with fun things to do when you meet up
-what are good date ideas?
*out to dinner then back to yours
*home cooked dinners
^above would be mainstays
what are others?
-bushwalks/hikes
-museum/art galleries
-photowalks
-gym dates
-those escape rooms
-bowling/mini golf/arcade games
anything else? movie dates seem relatively lame
