Quick intro for the story
I've been sleeping with this western born and raised Japanese girl. I hurt myself at work a week or so ago bad enough to go to the hospital. I say to myself - Lets see if now that I am hurt and off work what she will do.
After a few days on pretty strong pain killers I couldn't remember all the details from the day the last 2 days. She starts beating around the bush about what do I and don't I remember. I can tell she is going somewhere. I just say I barely remember anything. She finally gets to the point saying we had sex sheepishly. I do remember that but I said - "I was stoned on pain killers and you took advantage of me Mrs Cosby..."
Holy shit you could see her freaking out. I was dying inside. She immediately turned it back on me saying things like that I was the aggressive one. I just counter that I wasn't in my right frame of mind. Not once was there any kind of remorse or even a "I'm sorry" or shit like that - not that I expected one.
We had plans on Sunday to hang out but I had to change them today and she tried a little guilt trip on me even after I said I was free in the evening just not during the day.
I've already "nexted" her in my mind so no issues there but I have zero experience with these types of girls and need the practice as it were. I was considering just going silent for a few days and when she springs back figuring out a way to say that was unacceptable.
Guess I'm asking if I should even bother and if so how I should handle it?
I've been sleeping with this western born and raised Japanese girl. I hurt myself at work a week or so ago bad enough to go to the hospital. I say to myself - Lets see if now that I am hurt and off work what she will do.
After a few days on pretty strong pain killers I couldn't remember all the details from the day the last 2 days. She starts beating around the bush about what do I and don't I remember. I can tell she is going somewhere. I just say I barely remember anything. She finally gets to the point saying we had sex sheepishly. I do remember that but I said - "I was stoned on pain killers and you took advantage of me Mrs Cosby..."
Holy shit you could see her freaking out. I was dying inside. She immediately turned it back on me saying things like that I was the aggressive one. I just counter that I wasn't in my right frame of mind. Not once was there any kind of remorse or even a "I'm sorry" or shit like that - not that I expected one.
We had plans on Sunday to hang out but I had to change them today and she tried a little guilt trip on me even after I said I was free in the evening just not during the day.
I've already "nexted" her in my mind so no issues there but I have zero experience with these types of girls and need the practice as it were. I was considering just going silent for a few days and when she springs back figuring out a way to say that was unacceptable.
Guess I'm asking if I should even bother and if so how I should handle it?