Timing and Logistics, two critical elements of the game. I'd like to thank the forum for bringing these factors to my attention because I totally neglected them in the past. You've really helped me.
This question is about timing. I feel that my leads go stale if I don't set up a date within one weeks time. But, I don't initiate conversation over text messaging unless I have an open day to set up a date I can at least attempt to close the deal on. With my schedule and other dates I don't always have time. Occasionally I'll talk very minimally over text messaging no content of real substance if I don't have time to set up a date in hopes that it will preserve the lead a couple days longer till I can act on the opportunity.
How do you prioritize which girl gets your time? Based upon hotness? Based upon a girl's level of interest? Something else? Many of my dates turn out to be fruitless which is a big reason it's hard to decide to go out on a date with a new girl who might not do anything and not to go out with a girl who wants to spend time with me after we've already had sex and would very most likely want to do it again.
On a more personal note
Does the effort required to spin so many plates at one time ever wear on you? even though sometimes I think it's stressful trying this hard all the time and basically always denying myself release through masturbation, I'm finding I really enjoy the drama and the process of it all, the happiness, sadness, frustration and varying degrees of satisfaction, overcoming problems and obstacles. it's been about a year and two months since I broke up with my girlfriend who was kind to me because I recognized my inability to be content in my nature. I was inspired to make the decision after reading Self Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson. I know it's kind of ironic to ask for your outside input after mentioning that, but I experience a spectrum of emotions regarding this next question and I'd like your take on it if you've read this far. Should one be able to be actually happy in a relationship long-term?
Let me know what you think and game on, Players.
This question is about timing. I feel that my leads go stale if I don't set up a date within one weeks time. But, I don't initiate conversation over text messaging unless I have an open day to set up a date I can at least attempt to close the deal on. With my schedule and other dates I don't always have time. Occasionally I'll talk very minimally over text messaging no content of real substance if I don't have time to set up a date in hopes that it will preserve the lead a couple days longer till I can act on the opportunity.
How do you prioritize which girl gets your time? Based upon hotness? Based upon a girl's level of interest? Something else? Many of my dates turn out to be fruitless which is a big reason it's hard to decide to go out on a date with a new girl who might not do anything and not to go out with a girl who wants to spend time with me after we've already had sex and would very most likely want to do it again.
On a more personal note
Does the effort required to spin so many plates at one time ever wear on you? even though sometimes I think it's stressful trying this hard all the time and basically always denying myself release through masturbation, I'm finding I really enjoy the drama and the process of it all, the happiness, sadness, frustration and varying degrees of satisfaction, overcoming problems and obstacles. it's been about a year and two months since I broke up with my girlfriend who was kind to me because I recognized my inability to be content in my nature. I was inspired to make the decision after reading Self Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson. I know it's kind of ironic to ask for your outside input after mentioning that, but I experience a spectrum of emotions regarding this next question and I'd like your take on it if you've read this far. Should one be able to be actually happy in a relationship long-term?
Let me know what you think and game on, Players.