[mikep342]

I've been reading through threads on this site a ton in the last month and there's so much great info. I'm getting divorced and really excited about getting back into the game. This site has made divorce a much less negative experience for me, so I wanted to say thanks. I was definitely not an alpha before, but I have been absorbing as much info from here as I can. I will approach everything entirely different this time around.

I'm 31, been in a relationship with the same woman for the last 5 years, and sex has been mediocre to bad. I'm currently getting my masters degree, so have access to tons of college girls on campus. I'm also planning on signing up for tinder and bumble, and considering buying a hot tub for my backyard! I'm going to do it right this time.

[ShuaiGe]

(03-31-2018 11:46 PM)mikep342 Wrote:  

I will approach everything entirely different this time around.

However you approach, approach often.

Here is the individual article that improved my game the most

https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/

Welcome and good luck

Edit: This is going to piss some people off but it's true. Game is about using your words and actions and attitude. Tinder, Bumble, OK Cupid etc. are about getting chosen usually based on looks almost exclusively. For that reason they do not qualify as game. I wholeheartedly recommend you stay off of online dating completely. Even during text messaging you cannot build attraction. Girls have literally thousands of men to choose from and this absolutely influences their behavior in a negative way. I find women treat me much better and are much more receptive to me in real life.

Also, do you go out shopping for groceries when you don't need them already? The girls online are of a lower quality, they're there because they aren't getting it elsewhere or they don't know how to get it elsewhere. But do you know how easy it would be for any girl of a quality high enough to desire to get a dick or a boyfriend at any time on any day of the week? Online dating girls are bottom of the barrel girls, usually if not in one way it's in another. Try it out and see.

Anyway, if you're online and you get chosen and have sex that's great, but game is real and it's not getting picked based off your profile picture.The term online game is itself an oxymoron.

[ksbms]

(04-01-2018 10:18 AM)ShuaiGe Wrote:  

[...] Online dating girls are bottom of the barrel girls, usually if not in one way it's in another. Try it out and see.

Anyway, if you're online and you get chosen and have sex that's great, but game is real and it's not getting picked based off your profile picture.The term online game is itself an oxymoron.

[Trent W.]

Welcome and good luck!

Completely agree with ShuaiGe regarding online "game". My biggest issue with it is that it makes you "woman-centric". In other words, waiting for her to choose you. You can't avoid that in real game either, but at least there you control the interaction to a much bigger extent.

[PondScum]

OP, Technically this is a low value post and thus against forum rules,but hey,I'm not the mod here, I don't even have a fishing licence for these trout.

You are in a truly excellent position. You have red pill experience from the marriage, ambition, a ready made social world through college, you are young but not so dumb and fogged with horniness, and you have a vision. As long as you keep chasing women in second place to your other goals, you're set.

You don't need advice, you are already on FYAH!!

Godspeed.

[Atomic Lush]

At your age and on campus, you won't have to work for it. You won't need online or a hot tub. Once they are comfortable and trust you, you will be surprised that they do the work themselves. In other words, don't over think it or over do it. As long as you are approaching as part of your daily life, you should do fine. Online is about creating an image. When you talk to them in person you are creating an image. They will want to be part of it. They will see you as a strong, successful, confident man. Much different than the betas who surround you.

[dknightbro]

Don't see the hate for online game.

8-10s are not exclusive to offline game.

It also takes pic optimization to take advantage of online game. I was in the best shape of my life & couldn't get a match because I had very sub-par pics.

Once I showed off my assets, I was getting matched with my 8-10s & getting responsive texts back.

And this probably applies more to the West about online girls being subpar in quality. In Asia, you'd be a fool to disregard the ample supply of 8-10s whom you can access online.

[Black Caesar]

DK bro when you have Game online tends to be a waste of time because it is easier to go out and pick up a fly girl than to get one off an app.

[Atlanta Man]

Hit the gym hard! You have access to college pussy and all those girls care about is "is he hot?". You don't have to worry about you career, them wanting kids, or any of the other bullshit women over 25 bring to the table-young bitches just want to have fun. Just be a cool older dude in grad school and don't mention your divorce, and fuck as many of those bitches as you can!

[Delta]

(04-01-2018 10:18 AM)ShuaiGe Wrote:  

Also, do you go out shopping for groceries when you don't need them already? The girls online are of a lower quality, they're there because they aren't getting it elsewhere or they don't know how to get it elsewhere. But do you know how easy it would be for any girl of a quality high enough to desire to get a dick or a boyfriend at any time on any day of the week? Online dating girls are bottom of the barrel girls, usually if not in one way it's in another. Try it out and see.

I disagree with this. I mean it's true for college girls, but most women mid-20's and up do not have a super active social life that regularly introduces them to eligible men.

Guys here have to stop imagining that every semi-bangable girl has hundreds of thirsty suitors vying for her attention. Many quality women are shy/introverted and just don't know very many men. We all know that, post-college, meeting new people requires a conscious effort; what makes you think it's any different for women? Do they have some magical ability to meet men without putting themselves in position to do so?

Now I will grant that online is somewhat adversely selected. The average girl who uses online dating < the average girl who doesn't. I'll also grant that the online market is heavily stacked against men, and the only thing you'll consistently attract is girls below your league. But it's simply wrong to say that a quality girl should never have to resort to it.

Bottom line, use online, because once in a while it does produce a quality lead (ie a girl of comparable value to yours), just don't let it prevent you from using other avenues as well. Look for girls that seem shy and introverted, as their problem is likely meeting too few guys rather than being unappealing to the guys they do meet. Oh and OP, Tinder and Bumble are a waste of time. There are other apps, like CMB and Hinge, that are a lot less of a timesuck and produce more leads from what I've found.

[Captain Gh]

What is the Nonsense some of you are spewing about Online Game! 93% of communication is non verbal, so the posture on a picture is Game, because it involves all of the same process! Which pic to post... which opener for this one after viewing her Profile...when to fallow up...etc!

Anyway... before you dismiss online Game... read our Tinder thread that's about 40 Pages... and see what THEY say about it. I know Sourcecode had a Very good Tinder Guide. Even though I focused on DayGame... dismissing online gaming as pointless is retarded

[kaotic]

Guys let's kick it back - different strokes for different folks.

In this day and age cats have to diversify their pussy streams.

Approach, Social Circle, Club, Bar, Online game, etc.

Some cats kill it at 1 type of game, and are mediocre at another.

A man should always fix his weaknesses whether it be approaching, or text game.


Let's not knock anyone's strategies while giving advice to a guy who needs help.

The more tools and knowledge in a mans hand, the more he'll succeed with women and in life.

A man should explore every avenue he can.