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How to help my pussy whipped cousin?
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How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

This isn't an ordinary case as my cousin is pussy whipped by his own mother...

I've known for a while now that his mom decides everything he does, but I feel it's becoming worse over the years. The guy is almost 20 years old and is becoming a massive pussy because he was never allowed to grow up by his parents, more importantly by his mother.

Yesterday I met up with him and we decided to grab a bite to eat. When he was paying I noticed that he was using a female wallet... I asked him, where he got it, he replied that his mom got it for him... I told him why he is allowing things like that and he told me that he cannot turn down a present. We were talking about his life after that and the things he said to me were shocking. His mother decides what clothes and shoes he buys and wears, the clothes are making him look homosexual too. His mother decided what course he is going to take at uni. His mother does his hair too, and last but not least, his mother gives him dating advice...

I was shocked by the things he said and told him that he needs to man up and that I'll help him shop for new clothes and teach him the basics of how women work (even if im a beginner myself). But he is scared of pissing off his mom.

I think that in 2 years this guy will be a fully pussy whipped guy who can't be helped anymore... How can I help him?
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#2

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

Quote: (09-21-2011 03:52 AM)Geronimo Wrote:  

This isn't an ordinary case as my cousin is pussy whipped by his own mother...

I've known for a while now that his mom decides everything he does, but I feel it's becoming worse over the years. The guy is almost 20 years old and is becoming a massive pussy because he was never allowed to grow up by his parents, more importantly by his mother.

Yesterday I met up with him and we decided to grab a bite to eat. When he was paying I noticed that he was using a female wallet... I asked him, where he got it, he replied that his mom got it for him... I told him why he is allowing things like that and he told me that he cannot turn down a present. We were talking about his life after that and the things he said to me were shocking. His mother decides what clothes and shoes he buys and wears, the clothes are making him look homosexual too. His mother decided what course he is going to take at uni. His mother does his hair too, and last but not least, his mother gives him dating advice...

I was shocked by the things he said and told him that he needs to man up and that I'll help him shop for new clothes and teach him the basics of how women work (even if im a beginner myself). But he is scared of pissing off his mom.

I think that in 2 years this guy will be a fully pussy whipped guy who can't be helped anymore... How can I help him?

It is really difficult to help other guys discover the red pill, even close friends or family, before they have been crushed themselves by the grinding gears of reality. I used game on and off for a couple years but didn't think I really needed it because I was getting enough. That being said, what really cemented my resolve to truly understand women was reading the "beta of the month" tab on Roissy's site.

I discovered Roissy's site by accident...I was reading an article about a guy forced to pay child support for some kid that wasn't his. Some disgusted googling after that led me to Roissy. As I read the hundreds of "beta of the month" submissions I flip-flopped through the emotions of anger and disgust. This convinced me to get back on the path of enlightenment and self-improvement.

If you can convince him to check those links out, I think he can get started on the path of anger, regret, experimentation, and success that will lead to enlightenment.
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#3

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

Quote: (09-21-2011 03:52 AM)Geronimo Wrote:  

This isn't an ordinary case as my cousin is pussy whipped by his own mother...

I've known for a while now that his mom decides everything he does, but I feel it's becoming worse over the years. The guy is almost 20 years old and is becoming a massive pussy because he was never allowed to grow up by his parents, more importantly by his mother.

Yesterday I met up with him and we decided to grab a bite to eat. When he was paying I noticed that he was using a female wallet... I asked him, where he got it, he replied that his mom got it for him... I told him why he is allowing things like that and he told me that he cannot turn down a present. We were talking about his life after that and the things he said to me were shocking. His mother decides what clothes and shoes he buys and wears, the clothes are making him look homosexual too. His mother decided what course he is going to take at uni. His mother does his hair too, and last but not least, his mother gives him dating advice...

I was shocked by the things he said and told him that he needs to man up and that I'll help him shop for new clothes and teach him the basics of how women work (even if im a beginner myself). But he is scared of pissing off his mom.

I think that in 2 years this guy will be a fully pussy whipped guy who can't be helped anymore... How can I help him?

You cannot help someone until they want to help themselves. This guy sounds like he's fine with how things are, leave it be.
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#4

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

Men have to create themselves.

Getting in their ears often does no good.

If he's a pussy, it's because he chooses to be one, not because mommy is making him one.
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#5

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

It's incredibly difficult to advise this guy because the problem isn't some random chick, but his mother. You can't speak negatively to a man about his mom. If it was just some chick, you could be more honest and brutal with him. He's going to have to cut the umbilical cord himself.

"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."
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#6

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

There's no harm in trying. Make him read Beta of the Month and see what happens.
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#7

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

Try to sow the seeds of doubt. Make him wonder if he really is happier the way he is, or if he would rather exist in a different fashion.
He has to come to his own realization, but you can help him along.
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#8

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

His mom has his best interests at heart but she doesn't understand what it means to be a man, and no woman (with the exceptions of some of the great seduction mentors in history) really does. The transitioning mindset he will probably have if you are successful is "I really love my mom but I wish I had a good mentor earlier"

What's the father figure like? When I was growing up I looked up to my natural ladies man friend as a surrogate father figure, which didn't work out well but I guess ironically taught me all the same life lessons a guy would get from a womanizing dad who isn't there for him.
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#9

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

you can't help him..he'll either figure it out on his own..or he won't.
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#10

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

Punch him in the nuts (ovaries?) and see if that helps.
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#11

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

You need to beat some sense into that beta boy. If I were you, I'd beat him up with a cain until he realized how bad it is to be a beta.
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#12

How to help my pussy whipped cousin?

Is it a single mother situation?
Your not going to get anywhere until he moves out.
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