I have been chatting up and flirting with this girl that i met through a mutual friend. She's sweet, doesn't act stuck up, and she seems genuine. She's has a very low lay count (2) and she is looking for something serious, not just a quick hook up. The problem with her is that she works every single day. She dropped out of school to work full time. She's not the sharpest knife in the drawer, but i like her personality, looks wise she's average. Body wise average as well.
We went on 2 dates and on second date i almost fucked her, but she gave me LMR. She kept saying that she's afraid i just want to have sex with her, then leave. I assured her i wouldn't. She kept shit testing me, and i passed them all. I got impatient, i stopped responding to all her snaps (snapchat). And she asked me if everything is ok between us? I said, it's fine. But it wasn't. I was getting impatient. She was acting weird. She wanted something serious, but at the same time she didn't let me progress with her. We barely saw eachother once a week. Last time we met was wednesday last week, and i messaged her monday to ask if she want's to hang out soon? She said, yeah of course. I said im going to take her out somewhere nice, but i wouldn't tell her where. She was very excited. "I can't wait". The next day i messaged her confirming a date, she was like "oh i don't know im so busy." I suggested another date and she said "Maybe." I thought alright... fuck that. I stopped responding to her texts for 2 days. She messaged me saying "im really sorry im just so busy, i really do want to see you again, seriously".
There's a saying about "if you want to see someone, you will find the time to see that someone, no matter what." So im starting to think that she's just making up excuses. I don't think she's lying, but can't she take out 2 hours of her day to be with me? That sounds weak to me. She's free every weekend, so it doesn't make sense (and sometimes one or two weekday). She called me to say that she can't see me for another week, until thursday. I just said "okay no problem, see you then". and hung up.
Should i freeze her out for a few days and see if she's willing to find time for me? Or should i just stop gaming her. The thing is, she's the only option at the moment, since im not currently spinning other plates. She seemed genuinly interested, at least in the beginning, now she seems a little distant. Maybe she lost interest?
She saw my snapchat story where i was at the club with 2 cute girls and messaged me saying "wow are you already over me? did you find a new girl already.". What is she trying to do? Is she trying to have me as a backup or something? She was worried about those girls, and got jealous. When i assured her they're just friends she got happy again and said "good! <3 <3"
We went on 2 dates and on second date i almost fucked her, but she gave me LMR. She kept saying that she's afraid i just want to have sex with her, then leave. I assured her i wouldn't. She kept shit testing me, and i passed them all. I got impatient, i stopped responding to all her snaps (snapchat). And she asked me if everything is ok between us? I said, it's fine. But it wasn't. I was getting impatient. She was acting weird. She wanted something serious, but at the same time she didn't let me progress with her. We barely saw eachother once a week. Last time we met was wednesday last week, and i messaged her monday to ask if she want's to hang out soon? She said, yeah of course. I said im going to take her out somewhere nice, but i wouldn't tell her where. She was very excited. "I can't wait". The next day i messaged her confirming a date, she was like "oh i don't know im so busy." I suggested another date and she said "Maybe." I thought alright... fuck that. I stopped responding to her texts for 2 days. She messaged me saying "im really sorry im just so busy, i really do want to see you again, seriously".
There's a saying about "if you want to see someone, you will find the time to see that someone, no matter what." So im starting to think that she's just making up excuses. I don't think she's lying, but can't she take out 2 hours of her day to be with me? That sounds weak to me. She's free every weekend, so it doesn't make sense (and sometimes one or two weekday). She called me to say that she can't see me for another week, until thursday. I just said "okay no problem, see you then". and hung up.
Should i freeze her out for a few days and see if she's willing to find time for me? Or should i just stop gaming her. The thing is, she's the only option at the moment, since im not currently spinning other plates. She seemed genuinly interested, at least in the beginning, now she seems a little distant. Maybe she lost interest?
She saw my snapchat story where i was at the club with 2 cute girls and messaged me saying "wow are you already over me? did you find a new girl already.". What is she trying to do? Is she trying to have me as a backup or something? She was worried about those girls, and got jealous. When i assured her they're just friends she got happy again and said "good! <3 <3"