[Keepiticy2]

So There's this girl I hang around very often. I NEVER spent money on her, she pays me for gas, I don't constantly text her back and forth, and she genuinely loves being around me. She often ask me or even begs me to hang out with her (she has other options but she wants to hang out with me/PLUS SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND)

She wants to break up with her boyfriend because he's too boring. I asked if I was boring and she told me "she just couldn't find her self being bored around me"

I flirt with her A LOT, I'm always making the mood sexual. She bites on the flirting and flirts back. Her body language shows "yes I want to fuck" but her actions say otherwise.

I grabbed her ass today and she got slightly upset. (she has the greatest ass, which is why I want her. I have multiple women at the moment but man her ass is amazing)



A little history about her
She has a kid, She's in a relationship with a guy who I waiting for marriage. The guy before him used to fuck her ALL THE TIME, but was married. She's still recovering from that "break up".



Now I could be completely wrong, but I feel she wants to have sex and do sexual things (judging from her body language) but she doesn't want to mess up our friendship....I feel she doesn't think we can actually be friends with benefits.


and if this whole thing sounds like blabbering, I had three glasses of whiskey and a Neatherthal Cigar (which is the strongest full body cigar I've ever had)

[BlackFriar]

Go for the bang. Take the pussy. If she refuses....move on. But do not burn any bridges. There are more bitches than just one.

[kinjutsu]

Walk away, she already has a kid which means she's about the drama and attention.
She's milking you for the attention because if she wanted to fuck grabbing her ass wouldn't have upset her.

You are hamstering alot about her my friend.
She's not interested in a relationship or fucking you.
She's only using you to give her attention.

Also why do you care that another dude used to fuck her?....
She has a kid so you know she has had sex already.

[treypound]

Next her. If she got mad about you grabbing her ass, nothing good will come from this.

[PapayaTapper]

(03-10-2018 01:50 AM)Keepiticy2 Wrote:  

Now I could be completely wrong, but I feel she wants to have sex and do sexual things (judging from her body language)

You are
If she was into you that way youd already would of been into her

[HankMoody]

She has a lot of red flags - hanging out with you while having a boyfriend who she "wants to break up with", kid, hot / cold, was fucking a married man, etc.

Why you are putting this kind of time investment into her, I do not know. No ass is worth that much drama, in my opinion.

Nevertheless...

My advice... first off, dial it back. The more you hang out with her, the more ordinary and available you become. You want her to think that you're out slaying life every single day, not orbiting around her. Spending this kind of time around her is actually counterproductive.

Second, if she gets pissed, who cares? Let her get pissed and laugh at her for it. Apologizing is the type of stuff that will kill the attraction. Next time smack her ass in public and double down.

[Jetset]

Actions over words. Don't listen to her mindless jibber jabber too closely. The important thing is she's getting a ton of free attention and you're pricing yourself out.

If you insist on doing this, you need to start using a firmer hand. Compliance testing. Sexualize the conversation. Show her where she's going and withdraw attention if she acts shitty about it.

Enjoy the cigar more than you enjoy her. Make sure she figures that out.

[Keepiticy2]

hmm True, and I'm not worried about the kid nor the relationships stuff, nor the fact she fucked a guy before me. That doesn't matter to me AT ALL. She can do whatever she wants I was just giving a little bit of backstory. She didn't really get upset, It was more like a "stop" while giggling kinda upset (if that changes anything)


I agree I feel I'm giving her too much attention.


I'll Back away for a bit. I have other women and a business to run. Thanks for the advice guys!


The sad thing is I do enjoy the cigar more.

[Keepiticy2]

(03-10-2018 06:31 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  

She has a lot of red flags - hanging out with you while having a boyfriend who she "wants to break up with", kid, hot / cold, was fucking a married man, etc.

Why you are putting this kind of time investment into her, I do not know. No ass is worth that much drama, in my opinion.

Nevertheless...

My advice... first off, dial it back. The more you hang out with her, the more ordinary and available you become. You want her to think that you're out slaying life every single day, not orbiting around her. Spending this kind of time around her is actually counterproductive.

Second, if she gets pissed, who cares? Let her get pissed and laugh at her for it. Apologizing is the type of stuff that will kill the attraction. Next time smack her ass in public and double down.

I'm not the type to apologize to women lol. I didn't apologize I just said "you liked it" with a smirk on my face and she just giggled.

By the way she lives 2 minutes away and i would take her with me to run errands or pick up a book or such. Or maybe to the mall etc. Not really investing much in her BUT the advice here is still great. Thanks for all of it

[PondScum]

"She didn't really get upset, It was more like a "stop" while giggling kinda upset (if that changes anything)"

Well, yes, because it sounds like she was being a coy trout who loves the tickle, not upset at all.

Don't overuse lines like "you loved it" in such situations, it can become poor game because it's too easy for her to put on her stern fish face and disagree. The point is you don't really care if she loved it or not, you didn't do it for her approval, you did it because you enjoyed it and if she didn't, she can run along.

You'll most likely be banging her by the end of the month.

[PondScum]

Any update?

[Mr.WHORES]

Take her out get her drunk and fuck her in the ass then cum on her face. Leave and don't call her for a month.

[Keepiticy2]

(04-03-2018 12:13 PM)PondScum Wrote:  

Any update?

i pushed her to the back of the line. Have alot of other more important things to worry about.