[americanoinsouthamerica]

(03-09-2018 05:28 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

Legit post.

At 12k a month, this is totally doable, guy understands the culture.

Wouldn't work for me, I don't wear condoms, so this isn't something I'd be into, and you'd have to wear condoms with any girl that agrees to this, but yeah, if you're down with condoms and this kind of lifestyle, this is doable...and an interesting life to live.

Not my cup of tea, but very, very nicely done, man.

Welcome to the forum, rep point from me.

Thanks man I appreciate it. My whole point to this post is that its doable. You could have way less than half the monthly income of me and still pull this off.

[americanoinsouthamerica]

(03-10-2018 04:10 PM)birthday cat Wrote:  

Whenever new guys who haven't met many RVF members talk about girls in terms of the 1 to 10 scale, I assume their numbers are inflated by 1 or 2 points because the veterans of this forum use a strict 1 to 9 scale rather than a 1 to 10 scale that others use. Many guys exaggerate too. If this isn't a troll post or an experiment to see what feedback this forum has for a guy's plan to have two girlfriends, then I assume that the OP is in relationships with girls that we would call 7s or 8s. It's just a guess. Maybe I'm wrong but that is what I'm assuming in regards to this being realistic. I don't think this is happening with 9s unless a guy is famous like Charlie Sheen who had some pornstar girlfriends living with him.

I've always thought Colombia is over-hyped on this forum. There are some hot girls there but the average foreigner who doesn't speak Spanish is going to do better by taking his first trip to a country like Mexico, Ecuador or Peru. This might not be relevant to this thread but I can imagine a thousand lurkers buying plane tickets to Medellin after reading this thread. I've met a lot of guys who have struggled in Colombia so the lurkers should consider that before they fantasize too much about banging 8s in Colombia without much Spanish or game. The average gringo in Colombia is banging 5s and 6s and it's easier and safer to do that in other countries. I don't know much about the DR but what I've heard is that it is a shitty country with poor infrastructure but guys can do well if they like black girls and will spend money on the girls. It's almost p4p which may be a good thing or may be a bad thing depending on the individual. Every place has it's pros and cons so consider that before going to these places with the false assumption that they are pussy paradises.

One of the reasons I know this isn't 100% a troll post is the locations the OP is talking about. If a guy with money wanted to do a FFM relationship with attractive girls then the best places would be the Dominican Republic, the Paisa region of Colombia, Thailand or other places that have a p4p and sponsorship culture. It's not necessarily p4p but it's like one step away from p4p and it's normal and somewhat accepted in some cultures. Hell a guy with game and money could have a literal harem in his house in a place like the Philippines but the quality of the girls is probably not going to be great.

I know a few guys from this forum who could pull this off with 7s and 8s if they were willing to spend the money. The important question that hasn't been asked is why would they want to or why would you want to? This scenario probably sounds amazing to inexperienced guys and lurkers but a guy who could do this could also have a rotation of 5 or more girls instead and he wouldn't have to live with them or pay so much for them. Threesomes can be a lot of fun but they are a novelty and over rated. Most guys won't want to setup their life around threesomes. A big component of wanting to do something like this is power and narcissism. I don't mean that in a negative way but there is a clear desire for dominance or power over the girls if a guy chooses this lifestyle instead of banging a lot of girls that don't live with him.

The other issue with this scenario is the type of girl that you would be inviting into your life and living with. There is a Colombian girl I used to bang who is the type of girl who would do something like this (and some guys reading this already know who I'm talking about). So let me tell a little story..... early 20s, met on tinder, she seems sweet an innocent at first but she is a freak, very dramatic, bisexual, solid 7, lurkers would probably call her an 8 especially if she was their type.

I was eating breakfast with her in a cafe while another forum member was a few tables away and this is what she tells me...... "I'm not really on birth control but it is ok that we didn't use a condom, there is no need to worry, I haven't had a period in a couple months, I think I'm pregnant from the guy in Canada who I told you is "someone special to me" but not my boyfriend. She shows me her whatsapp conversation with the guy and it is legit. I didn't see her again but she wasn't pregnant. She tried to get me to go to a sex club with her but it never happened. She said she had been to the sex club a few times and only masturbated but she wanted to get fucked in front of other people. She probably had done that already but who cares. She was very needy and always lonely despite being around people all the time. It's difficult to explain but I really felt sorry for her because I could tell that she really wanted to be happy and tried very hard to make other people happy but she just couldn't find happiness. She probably had some childhood issues and it wouldn't be surprising if she was molested as a child which is unfortunately common in Colombian culture. High sex drive bisexual girls can be a lot of fun if that is what you are looking for but think about living with a girl like this, and her craziness, and her drama. This is exactly the type of girl that you would be living with in a FFM relationship or a pornstar similar to the girls Charlie Sheen was living with.

I'm not saying that some guys wouldn't enjoy this but I believe that it sounds better than it really is. I've never done it so I'm just speculating but I think that living with bisexual girls could be a recipe for losing your mind. However, if the OP is legit then maybe he has a way of managing the craziness and drama of these girls that he is living with. How do you do it OP?

The trio life isn't for everyone. It's not for me for the rest of my life. But for the here and now I am absolutely loving it.

I'll readily admit that there is much variety in designating a woman a 1-10, and since some of the comments I've been reading up on the rating scales. Keep in mind that I steadily rotate through different cities, so when I am tired of a particular woman or threesome setup - I simply move on.

It is super easy to find women who will do a threesome (or trio as they call it). Finding women like this who will agree to live like this in a relationship is less easy. By far the most challenging is to find 2 women who are friendly, not jealous and anxious to try this. For example:

I am working on a girl in Medellin. 26yo, long dark hair, big natural tits, beautiful - she looks like the typical paisa - definitely my favorite type of women. In theory she's down for the trio lifestyle. But every time I mention it she gets huffy and jealous. So I know that I could occasionally have have a threesome with her - but there is no trio relationship possibility. All is not lost - into the rotation she goes.

I have two 19 year olds in Cartagena that I am speaking with. They are by far the best prospects I've ever had. Beautiful, and very anxious to do this life together. They have never mentioned money or what I can do for them - they really just want us all to be together.

I have a couple of irons in the fire in Bogota - but nothing solid yet. So over the next year I'll be in Medellin for a few months, Cartagena for a good 3-4 months and then who knows.

My point is it can be done. It just takes time and patience.

[americanoinsouthamerica]

(03-12-2018 01:45 PM)giama Wrote:  

Very good thread, right up my ally, i know this can be done in D.R. so anythings possible in that part of the world.

A few questions
1)When you leave the country, do you end the FFM and send them back to their parents, or you let them live in the spot until you are back

2) Surely if they are 8s and 9s they are prepagos, which i have nothing against. There must be set out expectations for then to stick around. Hard to believe that just a iphone and paid food will keep them around if they are a 8 or 9. The sweetener i think would have to be a little better, especially if they are offering exclusivity

Fantastic post

1 - They never stay with me. I always tell them that we can do this for few months and we will "see how it goes." And then I magically have to go to another city, nevermind the fact that I work online, and thats that.

2. These people are making $250/month. When they realize that can earn that and have access to a lifestyle that they'd never have otherwise, and keep their earnings? Its hard for them to turn down. Even then I'll still filter out the blatant golddiggers.

[Kentemo]

It was a nice, entertaining read. Particularly interesting for me because I'm planning to move to Medellín myself in June. I've heard great stories and I want to check out the digital nomad culture there.

But main reason is to watch the World Cup of Soccer over there and sheer with them. Colombians are really fun and happy people to be around!

[giama]

@americanoinsouthamerica

I do have a feeling they are semi-pros, which i don't have nothing against, you have earned the right to it, id like to be in your position in a couple years. They are willing to be in a harem which i don't think is normal outside of $$$.

"These people are making $250/month" I see that as the regular wage for average people with decent work ethic and intelligence working in a gringo bar or airport/ call centre, im sure some earn less then that too. but the 8s and 9s won the genetic lottery so they do have extra ability to make GOOD money, if they are genuine 8s/9s they can find tourists or they can find rich Dominicans by posting up in the right place.

I have been to DR several times, its fair to say that the 8s and 9s could earn $1000-$1500 a month working in Punta Cana as a Semi Pro around Tourists. These girls must know this, so why would they pass up this to be your personal whores for an iphone and food?

I know what some of the 8s and 9s earn in D.R and ive had conversations about what they earn and some do well, the problem is there is a lack of education in D.R so a lot spend there money on clothes tattoos and weave and keeping appearances up living for only today with no financial planning. But some are smarter, I know one 8 with a natural bananas body who built a apartment complex.

I cant speak for Colombia, but genuine 8s and 9s in D.R i cant see being in a harem for just a iphone and getting taken out for a meal twice a week. Its a mans paradise but its not that much of a paradise.

I think its one of the following:
-I reckon they are either from a village in D.R or the deep countryside and have not come across many foreigners and may not know their market value, in which case kudos to you for finding a hidden gem. I have heard of people living on like $1 a day in D.R so there is some extreme poverty. I guess if you catch them at like 18 they may be green. But i feel like a attractive 18 yr old dominican would know where to get money from.
- They are not really 9s, likely 7s (still 7s are good so you win anyway)
- They are getting atleast $500 a month to comply with the situation.


Dominican prepagos will play the role you want them to play as long as you are bringing home the bacon. I want to believe its all truth but i think 1 piece of info is missing. If there are 9s out there in DR/Colombia becoming harem members for iphones then wow i want to find those types of chics

[Mercenary]

(03-09-2018 04:04 AM)Irish Wrote: