First, off, hobbies don't necessarily attract women right off the bat. If you meet a woman at the bar, a club, or even during day game, talking about how you put a dude twice your size into a submission hold or hiked Mount Everest isn't going to generate all that much attraction. What they're looking for at first is your height, fitness level, style, body language, eye contact, etc. Physical attraction is first and foremost.
Second, once a woman is hooked, you can literally tell her that your favorite hobby in the world is catching Pokemon, and the next week she'll have Pokemon Go installed on her phone, texting you about all the Pikachus she caught at work. Most women don't have strong identities, so often they're looking to latch onto yours. This is a good thing - women are attracted to strong men. Being a strong man means having a sense of purpose and identity.
How women interpret your hobbies depends on how much she likes you. So, if you're going to engage in a hobby, do it for yourself not to pickup women.
All that aside, there are some hobbies that get ginas tingling, some hobbies that women don't care about, and some hobbies that will downright turn them off.
My observations...
Masculine Hobbies
Masculine hobbies are fun and they turn hookups into LTRs and girls who just can't get enough of you...
In no particular order, this is what I've found women find attractive: off-roading, traveling, martial arts (not karate, kung fu, or cardio kickboxing. I'm talking Muay Thai kickboxing, boxing, Jiu Jitsu, or anything that actually involves sparring / hitting a heavy bag), bodybuilding, swimming, sports (almost any sport; I've seen cricket players bring hot chicks to their matches. Even golf will work if you're decent. One of my favorite dates is the batting cages because I can hit a baseball), hiking, camping, cooking (not pastries), painting, working on cars, cigars, cycling (not in a gym), tattoos, preaching, music (both playing and knowing about good music - not "I listen to the radio"), high end stereo systems in both your house and car, motorcycles, woodworking, hunting, fishing, kayaking, sculpting, local professional sports (provided you watch them with her, or at least accommodate her team), big dogs (women love big dogs, and men who have big dogs), pool (if you're good), guns (every woman I've taken to the range I ended up banging without fail), Crossfit, skiing, snowboarding, etc.
This list is non-extensive and just to give you ideas.
Basically, anything that is dangerous, active, or traditionally masculine they find attractive. It doesn't matter what women say, at the end of the day they're attracted to "real men".
That said, you have to do these things because you enjoy them - not to impress girls. The key is to either let her watch you do it, or do them with her. Take her to a local sports game, a camping trip, or tell her to come hang out in the garage and drink a beer while you fix up the car and smoke a cigar. I wrote the other thread about "gym dates" - same concept applies. Do something you enjoy, that you're good at, and sometimes do it with her. This is how you take a hookup into a mini-LTR or long term girlfriend. She'll be hooked in no time.
Finally, make sure to be good at these hobbies. If you take her camping, know how to start a fire, pitch a tent, cook over an open fire, and how to follow trail blazes. If she's going to watch you spar at Jiu Jitsu, don't get submitted in the first 5 seconds. If you're going to lift together, be able to bench more than 135, etc. You can do all this stuff without her, and it's fun in its own right.
I try and keep most of my hobbies to this kind of stuff.
Hobbies that are Neutral
Key point - women do not want to date their "best friend" or even someone they have a lot in common with. A lot of the women I've banged this year were liberals, thought camping would be "gross", and the thought of going to church was foreign.
Within a few months, they're suddenly open to Trump, camping "was like SO FUN!!!", and they're asking me to take them to church. They were turned on how by how different I am than most of the men they meet online, and how pigheadedly dedicated I am about my hobbies, lifestyle, and person. I know exactly who I am, what I want, and I will change for no woman. They can change for me.
That aside, this is the stuff that I enjoy doing that doesn't necessarily add any attraction to a relationship, but sometimes they'll want to know more...
Reading (mostly philosophy, theology, and history), writing (I write a very popular blog that some women read and others don't care about), wine, art history, plays / opera / musicals / jazz performances (some love going, some hate it), restaurants (it does score you points to know all the cool fun places to go), politics (most women only care about abortion, Planned Parenthood, and "TRUMP IS EVIL!!!", but sometimes you can engage them on a higher level), religion (this grows on women when you're in an LTR, though. They usually think it's weird at first, but then they come to respect it, and even want to be part of it), your job (what I do is too complicated to explain to them), fantasy sports, poker, running (they don't care how far you can run, and most like beefier guys anyway), computers, gardening, yoga (if done right, yoga is actually a good place to meet women and a fine activity, especially for fighters), photography (can sometimes be moved into the "sexy" category if you're really good at it, and do it in dangerous spots), real estate / investing, etc.
These are all great things. However, hobbies that are intellectually stimulating do not generate or maintain attraction - even if she's into the same stuff.
Often you'll meet a girl who is a bookworm and loves jazz, yet she's banging the bartender who hasn't read a book since he dropped out of high school.
Opposites do attract.
Having hobbies in common with women doesn't mean they will be attracted to you. If anything, most of them want to be exposed to something new and different. The Democrat atheist female often finds herself attracted to the jacked Trump supporter who goes to church every Sunday.
My advice? Do what you like. Don't try and find stuff in common with women.
Hobbies That Turn Women Off
This morning I was at the gym with a new plate. We lifted weights together, I showed her how to use the machines, and then we played competitive racquetball. After, we went back to my house and I cooked brunch - French omelette with peppers and artichoke hearts (garnished with tarragon), and diced Asian pears. Simple meal, but tasted great. (Read "The 4 Hour Chef" by Tim Ferriss and you'll be pretty competent in the kitchen quickly. One of the best books I've ever read.)
She was sort of complaining about her ex-boyfriend. "He seemed really good on paper, had a good job, but all he wanted to do was play video games. He never left the house, he couldn't cook, and I swear the guy would die if you left him out in the woods for more than 5 hours. I had so much fun today biking to the gym, working out, and cooking. Today was totally awesome!" I know she's hooked.
Case in point, hobbies that are active turn women on.
These are the hobbies that turn women off:
Video games (the exception being sports games with friends or Wii games that you can play with her), stamp / coin collecting, posting on forums (I would never tell women that I post here, ever), anime, comic books, LARP, movies / TV shows (talking about these things makes you her bestie, not her lover), anything traditionally feminine (knitting, baking pastries / cakes, skinny jeans, etc. No matter how progressive she is, in her mind she's thinking "What a fag. I need a real man"), sending long "well thought out" text messages all fucking day and night, talking to her about internet drama on a forum, small dogs / gerbils / hamsters, eating at really pedestrian restaurants like Olive Garden / TGI Friday (if you're poor, just go to an ethnic place that is a BYO), complaining about your depression / health issues / anything (unless it's "my shoulder is still all fucked up from sparring last week" or "my legs are still rubber from all that squatting". Otherwise, save that shit for your male friends, pastor, or therapist), not having male friends, talking about how "dumb" sports / jocks are (that just means you're a loser and jealous of people who are athletic), talking about your feelings, My Little Pony / Power Puff Girls, etc. (dude...), anything that is "computer geek" or "nerd humor" (just keep it to yourself), etc.
Basically, anything that implies you're trying to escape the real world, rather than live in it, turns women off. It's one thing to read a good book, it's another thing to sit on your couch and play video games every single night.
In addition, anything that is traditionally feminine also turns women off, because they're looking for "real men", not "boys" and most certainly not closeted fags. I got a nice compliment today - "You're one of the most masculine males I've ever met." "Oh yeah? I'm only 5'5." "For some reason, you're not short in my mind."
Finally, anything that implies you're weak and/or un-athletic. Those guys from The Big Bang Theory would never get laid in real life, except by morbidly obese chicks. Sorry.
Candidly, I play video games. I love Final Fantasy and other RPGs, but I don't talk about video games with women or ever let them see me playing them. A few weeks ago a woman was in my bedroom and was like "You have a Playstation? You don't strike me as the video game type." I responded "I just play sports games" (not true).
If you like these things, do them. I like many of them, just understand that telling a girl that you've leveled Cloud Strife up to level 99 and gotten all the limit breaks will turn a woman off early into the relationship. Once she's hooked, you can say whatever the fuck you want.
Also, if you're going to engage in "dorky" hobbies, make sure to do at least a few masculine ones. Go spar for a few hours and then unwind with a glass of wine and Playstation. You want her to think you can hold your own in a fight, fix a flat tire, and survive in the woods for a few days. Once that's established, fire up the Playstation and pour a glass of wine.
Feel free to chime in, hombres...
Second, once a woman is hooked, you can literally tell her that your favorite hobby in the world is catching Pokemon, and the next week she'll have Pokemon Go installed on her phone, texting you about all the Pikachus she caught at work. Most women don't have strong identities, so often they're looking to latch onto yours. This is a good thing - women are attracted to strong men. Being a strong man means having a sense of purpose and identity.
How women interpret your hobbies depends on how much she likes you. So, if you're going to engage in a hobby, do it for yourself not to pickup women.
All that aside, there are some hobbies that get ginas tingling, some hobbies that women don't care about, and some hobbies that will downright turn them off.
My observations...
Masculine Hobbies
Masculine hobbies are fun and they turn hookups into LTRs and girls who just can't get enough of you...
In no particular order, this is what I've found women find attractive: off-roading, traveling, martial arts (not karate, kung fu, or cardio kickboxing. I'm talking Muay Thai kickboxing, boxing, Jiu Jitsu, or anything that actually involves sparring / hitting a heavy bag), bodybuilding, swimming, sports (almost any sport; I've seen cricket players bring hot chicks to their matches. Even golf will work if you're decent. One of my favorite dates is the batting cages because I can hit a baseball), hiking, camping, cooking (not pastries), painting, working on cars, cigars, cycling (not in a gym), tattoos, preaching, music (both playing and knowing about good music - not "I listen to the radio"), high end stereo systems in both your house and car, motorcycles, woodworking, hunting, fishing, kayaking, sculpting, local professional sports (provided you watch them with her, or at least accommodate her team), big dogs (women love big dogs, and men who have big dogs), pool (if you're good), guns (every woman I've taken to the range I ended up banging without fail), Crossfit, skiing, snowboarding, etc.
This list is non-extensive and just to give you ideas.
Basically, anything that is dangerous, active, or traditionally masculine they find attractive. It doesn't matter what women say, at the end of the day they're attracted to "real men".
That said, you have to do these things because you enjoy them - not to impress girls. The key is to either let her watch you do it, or do them with her. Take her to a local sports game, a camping trip, or tell her to come hang out in the garage and drink a beer while you fix up the car and smoke a cigar. I wrote the other thread about "gym dates" - same concept applies. Do something you enjoy, that you're good at, and sometimes do it with her. This is how you take a hookup into a mini-LTR or long term girlfriend. She'll be hooked in no time.
Finally, make sure to be good at these hobbies. If you take her camping, know how to start a fire, pitch a tent, cook over an open fire, and how to follow trail blazes. If she's going to watch you spar at Jiu Jitsu, don't get submitted in the first 5 seconds. If you're going to lift together, be able to bench more than 135, etc. You can do all this stuff without her, and it's fun in its own right.
I try and keep most of my hobbies to this kind of stuff.
Hobbies that are Neutral
Key point - women do not want to date their "best friend" or even someone they have a lot in common with. A lot of the women I've banged this year were liberals, thought camping would be "gross", and the thought of going to church was foreign.
Within a few months, they're suddenly open to Trump, camping "was like SO FUN!!!", and they're asking me to take them to church. They were turned on how by how different I am than most of the men they meet online, and how pigheadedly dedicated I am about my hobbies, lifestyle, and person. I know exactly who I am, what I want, and I will change for no woman. They can change for me.
That aside, this is the stuff that I enjoy doing that doesn't necessarily add any attraction to a relationship, but sometimes they'll want to know more...
Reading (mostly philosophy, theology, and history), writing (I write a very popular blog that some women read and others don't care about), wine, art history, plays / opera / musicals / jazz performances (some love going, some hate it), restaurants (it does score you points to know all the cool fun places to go), politics (most women only care about abortion, Planned Parenthood, and "TRUMP IS EVIL!!!", but sometimes you can engage them on a higher level), religion (this grows on women when you're in an LTR, though. They usually think it's weird at first, but then they come to respect it, and even want to be part of it), your job (what I do is too complicated to explain to them), fantasy sports, poker, running (they don't care how far you can run, and most like beefier guys anyway), computers, gardening, yoga (if done right, yoga is actually a good place to meet women and a fine activity, especially for fighters), photography (can sometimes be moved into the "sexy" category if you're really good at it, and do it in dangerous spots), real estate / investing, etc.
These are all great things. However, hobbies that are intellectually stimulating do not generate or maintain attraction - even if she's into the same stuff.
Often you'll meet a girl who is a bookworm and loves jazz, yet she's banging the bartender who hasn't read a book since he dropped out of high school.
Opposites do attract.
Having hobbies in common with women doesn't mean they will be attracted to you. If anything, most of them want to be exposed to something new and different. The Democrat atheist female often finds herself attracted to the jacked Trump supporter who goes to church every Sunday.
My advice? Do what you like. Don't try and find stuff in common with women.
Hobbies That Turn Women Off
This morning I was at the gym with a new plate. We lifted weights together, I showed her how to use the machines, and then we played competitive racquetball. After, we went back to my house and I cooked brunch - French omelette with peppers and artichoke hearts (garnished with tarragon), and diced Asian pears. Simple meal, but tasted great. (Read "The 4 Hour Chef" by Tim Ferriss and you'll be pretty competent in the kitchen quickly. One of the best books I've ever read.)
She was sort of complaining about her ex-boyfriend. "He seemed really good on paper, had a good job, but all he wanted to do was play video games. He never left the house, he couldn't cook, and I swear the guy would die if you left him out in the woods for more than 5 hours. I had so much fun today biking to the gym, working out, and cooking. Today was totally awesome!" I know she's hooked.
Case in point, hobbies that are active turn women on.
These are the hobbies that turn women off:
Video games (the exception being sports games with friends or Wii games that you can play with her), stamp / coin collecting, posting on forums (I would never tell women that I post here, ever), anime, comic books, LARP, movies / TV shows (talking about these things makes you her bestie, not her lover), anything traditionally feminine (knitting, baking pastries / cakes, skinny jeans, etc. No matter how progressive she is, in her mind she's thinking "What a fag. I need a real man"), sending long "well thought out" text messages all fucking day and night, talking to her about internet drama on a forum, small dogs / gerbils / hamsters, eating at really pedestrian restaurants like Olive Garden / TGI Friday (if you're poor, just go to an ethnic place that is a BYO), complaining about your depression / health issues / anything (unless it's "my shoulder is still all fucked up from sparring last week" or "my legs are still rubber from all that squatting". Otherwise, save that shit for your male friends, pastor, or therapist), not having male friends, talking about how "dumb" sports / jocks are (that just means you're a loser and jealous of people who are athletic), talking about your feelings, My Little Pony / Power Puff Girls, etc. (dude...), anything that is "computer geek" or "nerd humor" (just keep it to yourself), etc.
Basically, anything that implies you're trying to escape the real world, rather than live in it, turns women off. It's one thing to read a good book, it's another thing to sit on your couch and play video games every single night.
In addition, anything that is traditionally feminine also turns women off, because they're looking for "real men", not "boys" and most certainly not closeted fags. I got a nice compliment today - "You're one of the most masculine males I've ever met." "Oh yeah? I'm only 5'5." "For some reason, you're not short in my mind."
Finally, anything that implies you're weak and/or un-athletic. Those guys from The Big Bang Theory would never get laid in real life, except by morbidly obese chicks. Sorry.
Candidly, I play video games. I love Final Fantasy and other RPGs, but I don't talk about video games with women or ever let them see me playing them. A few weeks ago a woman was in my bedroom and was like "You have a Playstation? You don't strike me as the video game type." I responded "I just play sports games" (not true).
If you like these things, do them. I like many of them, just understand that telling a girl that you've leveled Cloud Strife up to level 99 and gotten all the limit breaks will turn a woman off early into the relationship. Once she's hooked, you can say whatever the fuck you want.
Also, if you're going to engage in "dorky" hobbies, make sure to do at least a few masculine ones. Go spar for a few hours and then unwind with a glass of wine and Playstation. You want her to think you can hold your own in a fight, fix a flat tire, and survive in the woods for a few days. Once that's established, fire up the Playstation and pour a glass of wine.
Feel free to chime in, hombres...