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recontacting flings
09-18-2011, 06:14 PM
If you have a couple month fling with a girl and then see her months or up to a year down the line, do you find that you have to re-game from scratch?
should i keep in contact occasionally if i know that i will see them months down the line?
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recontacting flings
09-20-2011, 11:33 PM
That's a great question my friend. To be honest I'm not completely sure.
What I can tell you is this. At my day job I'm a marketing VP and I also do some Sales work for a Home Improvement company.
I know that when you have a potential customer or a "lead" and your following up with them and working it as a prospect your chances of closing the deal are high. When you are out of the loop or no longer at least occasionally contacting them to see if there is an update your chances of closing the deal greatly decrease. Not to say I haven't sold some leads that had been cold for over a year but once you get your foot back in the door you have to do a lot more leg work to get the ink on the line.
Anyone else have an opinion?
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recontacting flings
09-21-2011, 03:23 PM
Strange...I'm dealing with a girl I was into about a year ago. Exchanged a few texts, tried to meet with her but she was always flaking. Fast forward one year, and I randomly see her again and now she's texting and wanting to meet me. I'm almost thinking of pulling a move someone on here pulled. Set up a spot to meet and flake on her.
