I noticed a cute girl sitting outside the club alone, so I went over to introduce myself and somehow we ended up talking for almost 2 hours. Despite the freezing cold weather, she stayed longer just to talk with me. She seemed super innocent and she laughed at all my jokes and stories. So i couldn't escalate on her, i didn't feel comfortable. Still a newbie after all. Also, for the fact that her obnoxious drunk friend, kept coming back to check on us, and she kept trying to steal the attention, and was kind of annoying to be honest.
The blonde and I end up exchanging numbers and she says goodbye. Her group were leaving the club to head home, since it was getting late. When i woke up in the morning i had a text message from her saying, "I’m sorry for my friend yesterday, she was super drunk, you were nice to her, but she was annoying and kept interrupting us...". I said it's fine. I asked when i would see her again? she said she will be out with her friends again next week. I said great, see you then. I didn't think much of it, just another interaction.
Fast forward next week, we meet again at the same club, and she's with a new group of friends. These girls are all cute man, what the fuck is going on, I’m thinking. Like 7 and 8's. She seems happy to see me, and she introduces me to her group of friends. Then i get the "ohh you're X? we've heard a lot about you", and I’m like oh shit, did i really make such a good impression last weekend. Did she already tell them about me? Her friends all seemed to be giving me looks and giving me thumbs up from distance. One of them even said "you're actually cool as fuck, i like you" after talking for like 5 minutes with her. They all seemed to take a liking to me.
This was all the IOI’s I needed. We ended up sitting outside again talking about all kind of stuff, without getting interrupted this time. We laughed and talked for an hour. This time I was more physical, I wanted to escalate more. We held hands, I hugged her more, she was resting on my shoulder outside telling me stories, and we danced that night. I wanted to push for the kiss, but I could clearly feel she was shy, so I couldn’t do it, she kind of rejected it, saying she would give me a kiss on the cheeks instead. We hugged goodbye and she left with her friends.
But I felt like I was wasting my time, wasn’t progressing as fast as I would like, and I was dedicating most of my time with her when I went out, now 2 weekends in a row. There was a bunch of girls out there waiting to be gamed, and I wanted to learn fast. But at this point I didn’t know what kind of girl I was dealing with. She texted me saying “sorry about last night, I don’t hope I was boring, and sorry for not kissing you, I am just very shy”.
I teased her saying “You’re rejecting me because you don’t like me, admit it”. She said “No, I really like you”. I asked her how many guys she’s been with, and she said 0. I figured it all made sense now. She’s a virgin, that’s why she’s shutting down my escalation. She is slowly building trust to me. But how could such a cute girl be a virgin, those are so rare nowadays, and you certainly don’t meet many in nightclubs. 5’4, petite, blond, feminine, great body. Something is wrong.
A few days ago, was my birthday, I went out with a bunch of friends and wasn’t expecting to see her. But she messaged me saying she’s got a birthday present for me and she’s in town. I said cool I am with friends, but we can meet later tonight. We met later that night and she was very happy to see me. I asked what my gift is, and she said I can have anything I want. So, I said, I want a kiss. She was shy and was talking around at first. But I decided I can’t wait longer and held her, pulled her close to me and said, too late now, I’m taking my gift. And I kissed her. She looked at me with the brightest smile. I had to ask. “Is this your first kiss, no way, right?” She nodded with her eyes lighting up. I couldn’t believe it. Seriously. This is my questions…
1.Did I play it well, and wait a few meetups for her to build trust in me slowly? Or am I wasting my time while I could be out gaming other chicks these 3 Fridays I have been seeing her. I only just started my game journey a month ago, and still have a lot to learn.
2.How do I go about it now if I want to escalate? Do I invite her over, or ask her out, and build more trust? She’s still shy, but more open than when I first met her. So, inviting her over and banging her is in my mind unlikely, but you’re the experts so I’d like to hear your input on this.
If you were in my situation how would you have handled things differently? And how would you handle things forward, from now on?
TLDR; met a cute blond girl, 5’4, petite, feminine, great body at the club, we hit it off well one night, we exchange numbers. We meet again next week and she has told her girl friends about me, and suddenly starts giving more IOI's. I try to escalate but she's hesitant at first and nothing much happens that night, but i do more physical escalation. Third time we meet, i manage to kiss her. She tells me she's a virgin and that i am her first kiss. Now what?
The blonde and I end up exchanging numbers and she says goodbye. Her group were leaving the club to head home, since it was getting late. When i woke up in the morning i had a text message from her saying, "I’m sorry for my friend yesterday, she was super drunk, you were nice to her, but she was annoying and kept interrupting us...". I said it's fine. I asked when i would see her again? she said she will be out with her friends again next week. I said great, see you then. I didn't think much of it, just another interaction.
Fast forward next week, we meet again at the same club, and she's with a new group of friends. These girls are all cute man, what the fuck is going on, I’m thinking. Like 7 and 8's. She seems happy to see me, and she introduces me to her group of friends. Then i get the "ohh you're X? we've heard a lot about you", and I’m like oh shit, did i really make such a good impression last weekend. Did she already tell them about me? Her friends all seemed to be giving me looks and giving me thumbs up from distance. One of them even said "you're actually cool as fuck, i like you" after talking for like 5 minutes with her. They all seemed to take a liking to me.
This was all the IOI’s I needed. We ended up sitting outside again talking about all kind of stuff, without getting interrupted this time. We laughed and talked for an hour. This time I was more physical, I wanted to escalate more. We held hands, I hugged her more, she was resting on my shoulder outside telling me stories, and we danced that night. I wanted to push for the kiss, but I could clearly feel she was shy, so I couldn’t do it, she kind of rejected it, saying she would give me a kiss on the cheeks instead. We hugged goodbye and she left with her friends.
But I felt like I was wasting my time, wasn’t progressing as fast as I would like, and I was dedicating most of my time with her when I went out, now 2 weekends in a row. There was a bunch of girls out there waiting to be gamed, and I wanted to learn fast. But at this point I didn’t know what kind of girl I was dealing with. She texted me saying “sorry about last night, I don’t hope I was boring, and sorry for not kissing you, I am just very shy”.
I teased her saying “You’re rejecting me because you don’t like me, admit it”. She said “No, I really like you”. I asked her how many guys she’s been with, and she said 0. I figured it all made sense now. She’s a virgin, that’s why she’s shutting down my escalation. She is slowly building trust to me. But how could such a cute girl be a virgin, those are so rare nowadays, and you certainly don’t meet many in nightclubs. 5’4, petite, blond, feminine, great body. Something is wrong.
A few days ago, was my birthday, I went out with a bunch of friends and wasn’t expecting to see her. But she messaged me saying she’s got a birthday present for me and she’s in town. I said cool I am with friends, but we can meet later tonight. We met later that night and she was very happy to see me. I asked what my gift is, and she said I can have anything I want. So, I said, I want a kiss. She was shy and was talking around at first. But I decided I can’t wait longer and held her, pulled her close to me and said, too late now, I’m taking my gift. And I kissed her. She looked at me with the brightest smile. I had to ask. “Is this your first kiss, no way, right?” She nodded with her eyes lighting up. I couldn’t believe it. Seriously. This is my questions…
1.Did I play it well, and wait a few meetups for her to build trust in me slowly? Or am I wasting my time while I could be out gaming other chicks these 3 Fridays I have been seeing her. I only just started my game journey a month ago, and still have a lot to learn.
2.How do I go about it now if I want to escalate? Do I invite her over, or ask her out, and build more trust? She’s still shy, but more open than when I first met her. So, inviting her over and banging her is in my mind unlikely, but you’re the experts so I’d like to hear your input on this.
If you were in my situation how would you have handled things differently? And how would you handle things forward, from now on?
TLDR; met a cute blond girl, 5’4, petite, feminine, great body at the club, we hit it off well one night, we exchange numbers. We meet again next week and she has told her girl friends about me, and suddenly starts giving more IOI's. I try to escalate but she's hesitant at first and nothing much happens that night, but i do more physical escalation. Third time we meet, i manage to kiss her. She tells me she's a virgin and that i am her first kiss. Now what?
