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09-26-2018, 08:50 AM
Define "boring". Is she dull and inexpressive when she's with you? Is she quiet in a passive-aggressive way? Is it hard to have a conversation with her?
On the other hand, does she smile a lot when she's with you? Does she find you funny? Does she stare at you in shy admiration? Does she reveal to you sides of herself she doesn't reveal to other people because she feels comfortable with you? Does she feel slightly light-headed when she's with you? Does she like talking to you? Is she agreeable and adaptable? Does she display caregiver tendencies? And you say on top of that she's submissive and has little social life? She sounds to me like a keeper. What exactly is your problem?
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09-26-2018, 10:22 AM
Papaya Tapper:
You might be right, I'm quite young, early 20s, and I met her just as I was getting into game several years ago, and due to reading this forum, I didn't appreciate her as the golden goose she may well be.
Game became a habit for me, and I slept with many girls, but she is always devoted to me. She doesn't know explicitly about me and gaming, although maybe she has an inkling.
The thing is that my mentality is such that I can't quiet the voice in my head that pushes me to take chances to sleep with other girls. I can't be content with just her. I guess my love for the roosh forum feeds into this mentality.
Stronger Sex:
Yes, she definitely is more in line with your second paragraph. The only thing is that she has a history of being needy with my time, she doesn't have many girlfriends to hang out with, and apart from talking to me and her family all the time, goes days and weeks even without othe social interaction.
I guess it goes without saying that she has no instagram, doesn't drink, no tattoos, never been in a nightclub, was a Virgin before meeting me, likes to cook, fitness body from plates and resistance training, doesn't look at phone when we talk, thoughtful and caring
The greatest player I met in person was a Russian man who constantly slept with new girls; and worked in a job that involved travelling around Russia for film shoots. His wife stayed at home with his kids. I asked him why he got married in his early 20s if he even knew that he would never be content with only his wife. He said he knew his wife would be a good mother and home keeper.
He knew his behavior isn't the most morally correct, but as he said "in life some men only take a few shots of vodka to be content, others need a whole bottle to get a rush".
I guess I have to follow his example to some extent to be content, because I need the whole bottle
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09-26-2018, 02:16 PM
Yes, it is possible for girls who are shy and reserved to grow into boisterous and "fun" later in life.
As for your specific scenario: She's in her mid-20's and you've been with her for 4 years. She's not that young and at this point you've grown incredibly comfortable with one another and your ability to radically influence her has diminished a great deal. That's just how relationships go. She could surely be turned out, but likely not by you. How she acts is partially a mirror of your influence on her, and you influence may be weak or strong depending on your personality and assertiveness, but whatever changes she has undergone in her adult life and her relationship with you are pretty much set unless she has some kind of radical experiences that shift her.
Honestly, if she started changing how she acts at this point in the game I'd be a bit concerned.
You could try doing psychedelics with her. I've heard those can have some profound effects on people's perspectives.
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09-27-2018, 10:05 AM
Shes going to be exciting for the next guy.I'm side dick for a chick like this.Everyone thinks she's a nice girl etc etc.
She was bored as all fuck.She needed passion and to be gamed to wake up.
I wonder if she went back to Russia with a Aussie passport.
My first Russian GF when I was 22 was a nerdy girl but holy fuck she was a tiger in bed.She just love the look of me.I was taken aback because I was use to Aussie shit cunt games.
I knew another Aussie guy seeing a Russian chick 15 years younger than him .But he was upset that all she talked about was herself .So he went back to fucking Aussie 4s.
Don't worry OP you'll get a nice fat Aussie GF that will be 4 points below you .Live and learn bro.
Australian men in general because our women are so masculine can't handle feminity when it comes their way.They can't handle sweet surrender.
They've been that hoodwinked by the Aussie feminist system.Most see a foriegn chick in heels and a evening dress and automatically think prostitute.
In Melbourne at the moment chicks are getting around in dad jeans and new balance sneakers..
OP has to red pill up..
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09-27-2018, 11:28 AM
Everyone's missing the point.
He didn't fuck her for TWO MONTHS.
If the attraction dies the relationship will die soon after, especially if there's no kids or anything else keeping them together.
That's why she's 'boring'. I would be bored out of my mind spending all that time with a girl I'm not even fucking, what's the point?
No point feeling regret over this, because the relationship was already over when you came here to ask for advice.
"Especially Roosh offers really good perspectives. But like MW said, at the end of the day, is he one of us?"
- Reciproke, posted on the Roosh V Forum.
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09-28-2018, 04:41 AM
In my opinion it's good that she's quiet and shy. Last thing you want is an extrovert in this environment
Only way I have seen women be more extroverted is if they start socializing more with 'outgoing girls' ie, skanks, which usually results in them sleeping around
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10-04-2018, 04:11 AM
Sounds like you're aggrandizing the past, and her. That's always something to look out for when analyzing the past so you can make better decisions in the future.
Glad you learned stuff about yourself though that always helps.
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10-05-2018, 06:30 PM
So next time you're in a relationship... remember to fuck her regularly! Stop watching porn.
Such painfully obvious advice.
If it makes you feel any better, an attractive girl doesn't usually go a year without having sex, she was probably getting it somewhere else, or at least trying to.
"Especially Roosh offers really good perspectives. But like MW said, at the end of the day, is he one of us?"
- Reciproke, posted on the Roosh V Forum.