For those of you who’ve traveled in Latin America, do you have advice on flaking girls.
I’m in Argentina now, and yeah I’m aware Argentina may be one of the hardest places for girls on the planet behind…Muslim countries and North Korea.
Over the last two weeks, I’ve had what have felt like great daygame approaches. The girls are giving good eye contact, asking questions, clearly showing interest. But then meeting them for a date keeps eluding me.
For how friendly the girls are in person, and how likely they are to agree to a date and time over text, they are proving impossible to meet up.
Here are just three recent examples:
1. Girl 1: Bianca. Met her on the street. Tall dark-haired girl walking alone around 8pm on a weekday. Stop her on the street. Probably late-20s. Tell her I noticed her walking by and I thought she looked very cute, the cutest Argentinian I had met so far. She’s blushing and very flattered. She’s asking me a ton of questions, very interested in me. At some point she flatly tells me, “No vivo con mis padres, soy soltera”, (I don’t live with my parents, I’m single). Even before I ask for her number, she tells me, “I can’t meet tonight, but I would love to get together sometime soon.” Works as a massage therapist. It felt like there was a good energy when we kissed on the cheek goodbye.
2. Girl 2: Nina. Met her at a retail leather shop. I go in looking for a wallet, end up staying flirting with her. It’s just the two of us for about 10 minutes. I ask her about travel, where she would go. She tells me she’d love to go to Europe, to France. I ask about what she’s into outside of work and she says, “well outside, nothing.” (girls with no interests). I tell her about my work in Argentina and it isn’t a very flirty conversation, but it seems to go well and she seems to be enjoying it and she asks me a lot of questions.
3. Girl 3: Anabel. Met her late weekday night at a bus stop. She and her friend are heading to a club on a Wednesday night late, as am I. I’m a bit lost and we end up chatting. I tease them, I tell her the quiet friend seems like the bad influence, getting them both to go out to a club on a Wednesday night. She’s cute, though has a kid, and they’re both dressed to the 9s for the club. She’s giving me these big eyes the entire time we talk, it’s clear she’s interested. The bus comes and they go over to it to get in line. But before they board, she runs back to me, gives me kisses on both cheeks and tells me she'll see me soon, and then goes to board the bus.
[Attached are all the text message conversations – all the names have been changed (and conversations have been translated into English)]
How I operate:
In the U.S. I’ll send a few back and forth texts, if she’s responding, I'll propose we meet up. When she agrees. I’ll offer up a day or two days and times. I'll let her know I'll think of a spot and text her day of.
This works almost perfectly in the U.S. I think maybe I’m down to <10% girls flaking after they’ve agreed to meet on a time and day. My game and texting have improved, since incorporating this style of texting.
Should I be thinking about scheduling dates differently with Latin American girls, specifically South American girls, I meet during daygame?
From those who’ve daygamed to Latin American countries. I know there are a lot of Colombia travelers on the forum and I imagine you deal with similar things. What did you change to turn your daygame approaches into dates?
I’m in Argentina now, and yeah I’m aware Argentina may be one of the hardest places for girls on the planet behind…Muslim countries and North Korea.
Over the last two weeks, I’ve had what have felt like great daygame approaches. The girls are giving good eye contact, asking questions, clearly showing interest. But then meeting them for a date keeps eluding me.
For how friendly the girls are in person, and how likely they are to agree to a date and time over text, they are proving impossible to meet up.
Here are just three recent examples:
1. Girl 1: Bianca. Met her on the street. Tall dark-haired girl walking alone around 8pm on a weekday. Stop her on the street. Probably late-20s. Tell her I noticed her walking by and I thought she looked very cute, the cutest Argentinian I had met so far. She’s blushing and very flattered. She’s asking me a ton of questions, very interested in me. At some point she flatly tells me, “No vivo con mis padres, soy soltera”, (I don’t live with my parents, I’m single). Even before I ask for her number, she tells me, “I can’t meet tonight, but I would love to get together sometime soon.” Works as a massage therapist. It felt like there was a good energy when we kissed on the cheek goodbye.
2. Girl 2: Nina. Met her at a retail leather shop. I go in looking for a wallet, end up staying flirting with her. It’s just the two of us for about 10 minutes. I ask her about travel, where she would go. She tells me she’d love to go to Europe, to France. I ask about what she’s into outside of work and she says, “well outside, nothing.” (girls with no interests). I tell her about my work in Argentina and it isn’t a very flirty conversation, but it seems to go well and she seems to be enjoying it and she asks me a lot of questions.
3. Girl 3: Anabel. Met her late weekday night at a bus stop. She and her friend are heading to a club on a Wednesday night late, as am I. I’m a bit lost and we end up chatting. I tease them, I tell her the quiet friend seems like the bad influence, getting them both to go out to a club on a Wednesday night. She’s cute, though has a kid, and they’re both dressed to the 9s for the club. She’s giving me these big eyes the entire time we talk, it’s clear she’s interested. The bus comes and they go over to it to get in line. But before they board, she runs back to me, gives me kisses on both cheeks and tells me she'll see me soon, and then goes to board the bus.
[Attached are all the text message conversations – all the names have been changed (and conversations have been translated into English)]
How I operate:
In the U.S. I’ll send a few back and forth texts, if she’s responding, I'll propose we meet up. When she agrees. I’ll offer up a day or two days and times. I'll let her know I'll think of a spot and text her day of.
This works almost perfectly in the U.S. I think maybe I’m down to <10% girls flaking after they’ve agreed to meet on a time and day. My game and texting have improved, since incorporating this style of texting.
Should I be thinking about scheduling dates differently with Latin American girls, specifically South American girls, I meet during daygame?
From those who’ve daygamed to Latin American countries. I know there are a lot of Colombia travelers on the forum and I imagine you deal with similar things. What did you change to turn your daygame approaches into dates?
